Falling in love with a ML

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by sgsingaboy

I was with an ML for closed to a year and i visited her shop more than once every single week. I go to her place for fun too before sending her to work. We call each other cute names but never ever did i mention i love her or be my girlfriend. Likewise for her.

Be very clear with what you want and act accordingly.

I do this too with my VN ML. She did hint something sometime about having her as gf. But now maybe going along the lines of making her a kept woman. We talked about the amount which can further reduce the already low total cost. Trying to get her 3 times a week for that fixed cost and also the to do it outside of the spa without disturbance. Sometimes I wonder what happens when she decide to RTV and I need to find a replacement.

I can still use my PRC ML, but the frequency will be reduced as it is overnight so the cost is a little higher and also her new spa is much further away for her to come over after work.

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by Piledriver

Things are already so bland from the beginning, its now difficult to turn up the heat again. And you've made the mistake of confessing to her too soon. I'd say drop her and move on to your next target, before she treats you like a used puppy. Just know that love relationships with MLs generally do not end well. Trust me, I am speaking from experience.

I do have a couple of MLs in my current stable of FBs, but I always draw a line with them. Yes the sex is good, so let's keep it that way. And you should know when and where to draw the line as well before you get hurt.

I think it depends on why the guy sink into this. For me, the problem sometimes it is very difficult to get the partner I want in SG. Singaporeans are brought up to build their career as a priority, but I don't want such women. I want one that can just do simple menial jobs and don't care about career. There are plenty of such foreigner girls around, but I haven't been able to pick them yet for a gf. End up visiting MLs to get quick relieve from my own stressful corporate life. If you are a single guy, some kind of connection will surely develop with your regular MLs as they are the ones keeping you company when you are down.

[Raynor]

Originally Posted by Errornotfound

You may think this is some bullshit, some would say I tio KC but I swear this is happening to me, legit.

I don't think she kc you, more like you self psycho/kc yourself there is something when everything is so ordinary.

[sgsingaboy]

Originally Posted by lonelyfish

I think it depends on why the guy sink into this. For me, the problem sometimes it is very difficult to get the partner I want in SG. Singaporeans are brought up to build their career as a priority, but I don't want such women. I want one that can just do simple menial jobs and don't care about career. There are plenty of such foreigner girls around, but I haven't been able to pick them yet for a gf. End up visiting MLs to get quick relieve from my own stressful corporate life. Some kind of connection will surely develop after frequent close interaction with regular MLs.

Go find the famous viet girl matchmaker uncle if you are into viets bro.

[DaKnight]

OP, if you absolutely want to give it a go, then she needs to pass some litmus test first

Lure her with some money in the beginning. I don't mean the food u brought her, the gifts u sent her. Be prepared to part with around 4-5K cash. Share with her that it pains u to see her engaging in vice or massage lady related work, no matter what her excuse or story is (parents hospital bill, siblings education, wants to buy her own house in China, Vietnam or just wants to be a gold digger etc)

Tempt her by saying u are willing to part with the 4-5K amount on the condition that she will totally leave this line. Suggest to her to change a new job and new environment where the salary (3K to 4K per month depending on her experience and qualifications) is decent and more than what she is supposed to earn as a ML (2.3K per month, minus the extra services like HJ, FJ etc)

If she can clear all these hurdles and sustain working in the new job for 12 months, u will be quite safe. If she find any excuses in the beginning upon your suggestion, or along the way and down the road such as 4 months after working in a new job, she is just playing u out and not serious about the relationship or settling down

The 4-5K will not be a huge loss to u as u will be having sex with her regularly (2 times a week, 8-9 times a month for around 4 months). Nowadays, engaging FL will range between $120-$150 and it will cost even more if u are paying for massage and extra services

[lonelyfish]

Originally Posted by DaKnight

The 4-5K will not be a huge loss to u as u will be having sex with her regularly (2 times a week, 8-9 times a month for around 4 months). Nowadays, engaging FL will range between $120-$150 and it will cost even more if u are paying for massage and extra services

I'm considering the 1k/mth offer by my Viet ML as kept woman and she change her job to another line.

[wildpig69]

If everything is going smoothly for you. Please remember to read up the MOM and ICA rules and regulations....

[Errornotfound]

Originally Posted by sgsingaboy

Just treat the lady as a good friend with benefit la. That is if you have benefits! 10x visit. She can tell you like her. Stop giving you service and sleep during your session. Doesn't sound like she is very into you though unless you miss out details.

I was with an ML for closed to a year and i visited her shop more than once every single week. I go to her place for fun too before sending her to work. We call each other cute names but never ever did i mention i love her or be my girlfriend. Likewise for her.

Be very clear with what you want and act accordingly.

She did offer to massage but special but I rejected her. So just ask to sleep beside me. We did kissed and she put my hand on her boobs.

[oxeso]

Don't say i neber sic hor.. https://www.cnn.com/2023/11/13/healt...ess/index.html

[Exiled]

Originally Posted by Errornotfound

Any bros can advise?

Yeah, you thinking too much.

[Banaber]

Originally Posted by Errornotfound

She did offer to massage but special but I rejected her. So just ask to sleep beside me. We did kissed and she put my hand on her boobs.

no special how much you pay?

[Raynor]

From your post, I honestly don't see anything that would indicate she is trying to kc you.
If you want a relationship with a sex worker, then good luck to you.

[loneyheart]

Originally Posted by Oorb

Most predators hunt by picking out the weakest or lone prey away from pack.
They will set the target and inch slowly to ambush.
Don't always get their prey, but makes the predators more experienced each time.

Upped u bro

[hccheonger]

She is just taking advantage of you. Free food, easy job massaging you and take nap with you. Effortless.

As long as you can satisfy her patronizing the shop, buy her food, responding to her messages and whatsoever. Offering some cuddling and sex is just part of their life working in this industry.

She has nothing to lose

If you fall in love with her below is the score:

Massage Lady 1 : You 0

Originally Posted by Errornotfound

It has been in my mind for quite sometime and I thought I would need some guidance from senior bros here.

You may think this is some bullshit, some would say I tio KC but I swear this is happening to me, legit.

I met this ML in a MP and I got stucked to her. Next visit would be my 10th visit if I never remember wrongly. We have been constant messaging and occasionally I would order for her (both online delivery and delivery in person). When we meet in person, she would hug me and sit on my thigh. At times she would nibble on my ear and there was once she bit my forearm without any reason. Sometimes during the massage, I would request for just awhile on my back and she would just lie beside me, falling asleep.

I want to know if she is interested in me too. I have confessed to her and she said she knew it before I even say.


Any bros can advise?

[sbwow]

Originally Posted by hccheonger

If you fall in love with her below is the score:

Massage Lady 1 : You 0

Come place your winning bets. HAHAHA.

Massage lady payout: $1 to $1

🥕 payout: $1 to $1million