TCSS thread "My favourite MASSAGE girls"

[Kopiosteve]

Originally Posted by prodigal2chance

6) Why should you read this ?
To be continue...

Hope your subsequent reveal would lead to some relevation. Because tbh, so far, all your pointers seem quite common. Only that you unfortunately faced harsh consequences... are they because of bad judgement and mistakes?

I have gone through all those situations for decades, and remain relatively unscathed.

Anway, best of luck on your recovery and repair.

[SMRTLTD]

Originally Posted by prodigal2chance

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Bro, nice share, but you’re not the first, nor the last person, who has undergone a similar situation like yours.

Staying away from this scene for 8 months is quite an achievement itself liao.

Wish you all the best in your recovery process.

[kumantong369]

Originally Posted by prodigal2chance

Greetings fellow brothers,
It is not easy for me to finally decide to share and post this. Very briefly, my sharing shall cover the following, and I ask that you please bear with me.

First I would like to appeal to sammyboy to allow me to post this, as a warning to our fellow bros especially those who are new and unaware of the dangers and pitfalls :

1) Who am I – I am 40+ typical Singaporean Chinese Male, stay in a condo with car, married with good wife and kid and with good job. I started ML lifestyle 1 year + ago, ended up crossing the line, almost lost my job, lost much money, contacted STD, got arrested during a police raid, could have ended up in jail and eventually found out by my family and almost lost them. Actually I almost lost everything that I have and owned….Don’t end up like me or worse. By the grace and mercy of God and much needed forgiveness of my loved ones, I am trying to rebuild my life and regain my self respect as a man.

2) How I started ML and prostitution
3) Why am I doing this and what do I hope to achieve in posting this –
a) I think there are many walking down the same road as I am, some have not start, some halfway some way ahead of me….would like to share my plight, don’t end up destroying yourself
b) What porn and this lifestyle had change me over the last 1 year + and what could have happen to me
c) There some good within each of us, we can pick ourselves up again to become respectable/useful men to our family, friends and society. Our family and society need us – more on this later
d) Some ML are not all bad, it’s a quick buck option and I also have terrible encounters but almost none like to do what they are doing and most have low self esteem, from my talks with my regular MLs. Appeal to treat them with diginity

4) Am I trying to be a saviour or some sort – Definitely not. I have betrayed my wife and children, failed in my role as a husband and father, I am not fit in any sense to be anyone’s saviour. I have received forgiveness and grace to pick up my life again from where I left off and I just want to warn guys that are or may be walking down the same path as I am to turn around and save themselves from further destruction.

5) Am I off this ML lifestyle and have I overcame the temptation?
I have stop visiting MLs for the last 8 months, Have I overcome the temptation and lure of the ML? No, the temptation and lure is there, I have to deliberately keep myself away. There are some useful tools that my counsellors and psychtrist had shared with me that I belief would be useful to you as well. I will share this further later. So, I am not someone who has overcome this and now stand proudly saying that if I can do it, you can do it. BUT I am someone who is also struggling with this temptation every now and then, the same temptation and struggle that you are facing. Lets fight this and restore our self respect.

6) Why should you read this ?
To be continue...

Thanks for sharing bro however able to elaborate more on this sentence as I think many bro will be interested to know if you don't mind sharing.

got arrested during a police raid, could have ended up in jail and eventually found out by my family and almost lost them.

[uglydoll00]

Originally Posted by prodigal2chance

?
To be continue...

not nitpicking but if there is a impt point to this , please choose a time and tell it all at one shot
"to be continue" is like drama series , get people hooked with attention then story again

hard to feel its geniune well at least for me , no offence

[Franco_Barsei]

Originally Posted by kumantong369

Thanks for sharing bro however able to elaborate more on this sentence as I think many bro will be interested to know if you don't mind sharing.

got arrested during a police raid, could have ended up in jail and eventually found out by my family and almost lost them.

It's not an offence to visit them.

Unless you refuse to cooperate with the police or give false statement, nothing will happen to you.

I wanted to call bullshit on this bit about going to jail, but let's see what he has got to say first.

[Franco_Barsei]

Originally Posted by uglydoll00

not nitpicking but if there is a impt point to this , please choose a time and tell it all at one shot
"to be continue" is like drama series , get people hooked with attention then story again

hard to feel its geniune well at least for me , no offence

Exact sentiments. First post somemore.

Well-to-do guy with good job, car, condo, nice wife, and child gets STD, loses job, gets hauled to the police station.

Nice alignment of stars here.

Some people just get a rush from getting online attention.

[sidjames92]

Originally Posted by Franco_Barsei

It's not an offence to visit them.

Unless you refuse to cooperate with the police or give false statement, nothing will happen to you.

I wanted to call bullshit on this bit about going to jail, but let's see what he has got to say first.

well he did say he crossed the line and engaged in "ML and prostitution" .. prob got KC-ed gao gao.

but honestly if he is married , so rich with condo and car and still got KC gao gao.. he probably does not love his wife or family as much.

[uglydoll00]

Originally Posted by sidjames92

well he did say he crossed the line and engaged in "ML and prostitution" .. prob got KC-ed gao gao.

but honestly if he is married , so rich with condo and car and still got KC gao gao.. he probably does not love his wife or family as much.

disagree a bit here some loved their wife so much that they dare not or not willing do the things to their wife but ML ok....

eg COF ... bdsm , deep throat

[SibeiNew]

Well, reason why some say money is the root of all evil, when one has attained a certain level of spending power they lost the ability of self control in which his case, inside the game of lust and unfortunately he got burnt badly.(taking it with a pinch of salt)

For most of the men, they need to kenna once to experience it before waking up to enlightenment towards KC trap, that includes myself. Those holy saviour past legendary preaching ain’t going to help a single bit.

Now I view MLs differently than what it used to be, last time it was “Hero saving the damsel” , “giving it my all(fortunes/attention/time) for the one and only hot lusty Girlfriend I booked an hour for $110”

Then it becomes “I view them as an double edged sword”, one side to kill my lust and the other side not to get stabbed by them. Done my deed and stay far far away until the next meeting.

My lovely Gf is the only one that will remember my birthday, buy me gifts, spent her holidays in my room and do all the silly housekeeping stuff for me. That steers clear of what my priorities are.

[whoizzit2]

Originally Posted by SibeiNew

Well, reason why some say money is the root of all evil, when one has attained a certain level of spending power they lost the ability of self control in which his case, inside the game of lust and unfortunately he got burnt badly.(taking it with a pinch of salt)

For most of the men, they need to kenna once to experience it before waking up to enlightenment towards KC trap, that includes myself. Those holy saviour past legendary preaching ain’t going to help a single bit.

Now I view MLs differently than what it used to be, last time it was “Hero saving the damsel” , “giving it my all(fortunes/attention/time) for the one and only hot lusty Girlfriend I booked an hour for $110”

Then it becomes “I view them as an double edged sword”, one side to kill my lust and the other side not to get stabbed by them. Done my deed and stay far far away until the next meeting.

My lovely Gf is the only one that will remember my birthday, buy me gifts, spent her holidays in my room and do all the silly housekeeping stuff for me. That steers clear of what my priorities are.

Well said bro. 👍
Agree with you on this.

[JasonJG]

Originally Posted by Franco_Barsei

It's not an offence to visit them.

Unless you refuse to cooperate with the police or give false statement, nothing will happen to you.

I wanted to call bullshit on this bit about going to jail, but let's see what he has got to say first.

The story is probably fake, because you don't get arrested during a police raid for being a customer. It is not an offence to patronise a prostitute, unless the ML or FL is under the age of 18. The only other chance that the story that he's about to share could be real is that by crossing the line, it means he became an okt or webmaster, a runner, or someone who rented out or sublet premises to MLs or FLs, or provided services to MLs or FLs to facilitate their trade, so that he had made money from the MLs or FLs, which is considered living on immoral earnings, which is an offence. In which case, he isn't like most of us who are mere paying customers (who once in a while get KCed. LOL)

Perhaps to prove that his would-be story is genuine, he should include the names of the MLs/FLs whom he had patronised, how much they were charging and where they were operating from (since it happened more than a year ago, he wouldn't be revealing the location of any active ML/FL). And as a social service to the bros here, who and how he contracted STD from. Like what the saying goes, "The devil is in the details." If he can't provide these details, his purported life episode will have no credibility, and he should shut the hell up.

No offence to any religious person or persons reading this, but my guess is his intention is to proselytize.

[jcaca]

And why assume all ML patrons fall into one specific mould? How about those who are single and just treat this as any other hobby? There are those who enjoy this within their means, and what's wrong with that? christian morals time?

the useful tools is probably gonna be the bible or something

that said, one thing i agree with is that STDs is one thing all bros should be concerned and careful about

[dosh]

Originally Posted by prodigal2chance

Greetings fellow brothers,
It is not easy for me to finally decide to share and post this. Very briefly, my sharing shall cover the following, and I ask that you please bear with me.

First I would like to appeal to sammyboy to allow me to post this, as a warning to our fellow bros especially those who are new and unaware of the dangers and pitfalls :

1) Who am I – I am 40+ typical Singaporean Chinese Male, stay in a condo with car, married with good wife and kid and with good job. I started ML lifestyle 1 year + ago, ended up crossing the line, almost lost my job, lost much money, contacted STD, got arrested during a police raid, could have ended up in jail and eventually found out by my family and almost lost them. Actually I almost lost everything that I have and owned….Don’t end up like me or worse. By the grace and mercy of God and much needed forgiveness of my loved ones, I am trying to rebuild my life and regain my self respect as a man.

2) How I started ML and prostitution
3) Why am I doing this and what do I hope to achieve in posting this –
a) I think there are many walking down the same road as I am, some have not start, some halfway some way ahead of me….would like to share my plight, don’t end up destroying yourself
b) What porn and this lifestyle had change me over the last 1 year + and what could have happen to me
c) There some good within each of us, we can pick ourselves up again to become respectable/useful men to our family, friends and society. Our family and society need us – more on this later
d) Some ML are not all bad, it’s a quick buck option and I also have terrible encounters but almost none like to do what they are doing and most have low self esteem, from my talks with my regular MLs. Appeal to treat them with diginity

4) Am I trying to be a saviour or some sort – Definitely not. I have betrayed my wife and children, failed in my role as a husband and father, I am not fit in any sense to be anyone’s saviour. I have received forgiveness and grace to pick up my life again from where I left off and I just want to warn guys that are or may be walking down the same path as I am to turn around and save themselves from further destruction.

5) Am I off this ML lifestyle and have I overcame the temptation?
I have stop visiting MLs for the last 8 months, Have I overcome the temptation and lure of the ML? No, the temptation and lure is there, I have to deliberately keep myself away. There are some useful tools that my counsellors and psychtrist had shared with me that I belief would be useful to you as well. I will share this further later. So, I am not someone who has overcome this and now stand proudly saying that if I can do it, you can do it. BUT I am someone who is also struggling with this temptation every now and then, the same temptation and struggle that you are facing. Lets fight this and restore our self respect.

6) Why should you read this ?
To be continue...

how can u even get std from ML if its just massage and hj ??

[SMRTLTD]

Originally Posted by dosh

how can u even get std from ML if its just massage and hj ??

BBBJ.

Not all MLs are restricted to massage and HJ. Money always talks.

[ulysses84]

don't lose the identity of this thread about Fav/recommended ML by continuing fueling some imbecile ranting.