Vietnamese wifes or girlfriends.

[flcult]

TS, my personal take is give her up if she keeps trying to tie you down. The fact you pose and ask for advice here shows you are uncomfortable. I will never allow my children to marry overseas... Unless the other side super rich. I hv relatives with viet wives.... not really happy. Life already like shit, why make it worse? Paiseh I can't offer good advice cos I deem myself as failure. My wife ass luck to hv married me... Lol!

[ddmm]

Originally Posted by flcult

TS, my personal take is give her up if she keeps trying to tie you down. The fact you pose and ask for advice here shows you are uncomfortable. I will never allow my children to marry overseas... Unless the other side super rich. I hv relatives with viet wives.... not really happy. Life already like shit, why make it worse? Paiseh I can't offer good advice cos I deem myself as failure. My wife ass luck to hv married me... Lol!

Haha, true. TS seems to be in doubt already, and things will only get worse if kena tied down when not fully into it

[viola06]

just wanna put this story out to share with all the bros. it's a KC story for sure but yeah here it goes.

Recently I met a Viet FL. We exchanged contacts after the deed was done and we messaged each other for a few days, added her on instagram. I do like her very much because on the surface she seems nice and she is hot. But of course got kana KC abit, got feelings for her abit. But it was still within my control.

in the beginning she treated me nice. sweet messages and all. then i booked her a second time to like talk to her more face to face. she told me about her story and her past. and crossed check it with some of her instagram posts and realised that she used to have a bf for 3 years who lived in singapore but not a singaporean. but went back to the States and seems rich. then recently she broke up with another of her bf because that guy was a hong kong married man who lied to her about him getting a divorce and having a fake marriage with her in Vietnam. from what she told me, it seems like a tragic story but i had learnt to take it as a pinch of salt.

she told me she worked FL in singapore because she have no choice and need money for family blah blah blah all the standards you usually hear from FL. then as time passes she do not really text me as often as she always says she is busy working, which i believe since she is a FL. I did told her not to work this anymore after she goes back but she was quite offended by that. like as if she will continue to work for the money. i jus apologized to her for telling her quit.

she thought that i was chasing her. so she tell me things like i am too young for her (i am 29 btw and she is 32) and kept saying she needed an older man with more life experience to guide her. But it kept me wondering she needed an older man for the money or life experience. to me it seems to be money. maybe she thinks i am not old enough to have sufficient money for her to spend thus needing someone older. her previous bfs seems rich business man that can support her needs.

so i am wondering based on what i had just say, is she a gold digger? i have my doubts and cutting ties from her as for now.

[maxsee]

Originally Posted by viola06

just wanna put this story out to share with all the bros. it's a KC story for sure but yeah here it goes.

Recently I met a Viet FL. We exchanged contacts after the deed was done and we messaged each other for a few days, added her on instagram. I do like her very much because on the surface she seems nice and she is hot. But of course got kana KC abit, got feelings for her abit. But it was still within my control.

in the beginning she treated me nice. sweet messages and all. then i booked her a second time to like talk to her more face to face. she told me about her story and her past. and crossed check it with some of her instagram posts and realised that she used to have a bf for 3 years who lived in singapore but not a singaporean. but went back to the States and seems rich. then recently she broke up with another of her bf because that guy was a hong kong married man who lied to her about him getting a divorce and having a fake marriage with her in Vietnam. from what she told me, it seems like a tragic story but i had learnt to take it as a pinch of salt.

she told me she worked FL in singapore because she have no choice and need money for family blah blah blah all the standards you usually hear from FL. then as time passes she do not really text me as often as she always says she is busy working, which i believe since she is a FL. I did told her not to work this anymore after she goes back but she was quite offended by that. like as if she will continue to work for the money. i jus apologized to her for telling her quit.

she thought that i was chasing her. so she tell me things like i am too young for her (i am 29 btw and she is 32) and kept saying she needed an older man with more life experience to guide her. But it kept me wondering she needed an older man for the money or life experience. to me it seems to be money. maybe she thinks i am not old enough to have sufficient money for her to spend thus needing someone older. her previous bfs seems rich business man that can support her needs.

so i am wondering based on what i had just say, is she a gold digger? i have my doubts and cutting ties from her as for now.

Ermm...she is a fl in the very first place. And u can still ask if she is a gold digger? Her profession alone holds the answer u need.

[viola06]

Originally Posted by maxsee

Ermm...she is a fl in the very first place. And u can still ask if she is a gold digger? Her profession alone holds the answer u need.

well what you said is true but again maybe she is really poor and there is really no other choice for her? i do know that some people were forced into it but some is just here for the money.

[jameschong1]

[QUOTE]

Originally Posted by MoeLanYong

Don't make the mistakes many bros here make thinking they are the white knight and final destination.

U r right to say this.
I know 1 chap who always say her viet girl working here love him
she does not like to job (kena force into it) and she hate all customers except him
give him do raw, don't take his $, even buy gift for him, cry and think of him when she hj other man
this guy is dreaming or bluffing or kum lang or all 3

[Marq]

Originally Posted by viola06

just wanna put this story out to share with all the bros. it's a KC story for sure but yeah here it goes.

Recently I met a Viet FL. We exchanged contacts after the deed was done and we messaged each other for a few days, added her on instagram. I do like her very much because on the surface she seems nice and she is hot. But of course got kana KC abit, got feelings for her abit. But it was still within my control.

in the beginning she treated me nice. sweet messages and all. then i booked her a second time to like talk to her more face to face. she told me about her story and her past. and crossed check it with some of her instagram posts and realised that she used to have a bf for 3 years who lived in singapore but not a singaporean. but went back to the States and seems rich. then recently she broke up with another of her bf because that guy was a hong kong married man who lied to her about him getting a divorce and having a fake marriage with her in Vietnam. from what she told me, it seems like a tragic story but i had learnt to take it as a pinch of salt.

she told me she worked FL in singapore because she have no choice and need money for family blah blah blah all the standards you usually hear from FL. then as time passes she do not really text me as often as she always says she is busy working, which i believe since she is a FL. I did told her not to work this anymore after she goes back but she was quite offended by that. like as if she will continue to work for the money. i jus apologized to her for telling her quit.

she thought that i was chasing her. so she tell me things like i am too young for her (i am 29 btw and she is 32) and kept saying she needed an older man with more life experience to guide her. But it kept me wondering she needed an older man for the money or life experience. to me it seems to be money. maybe she thinks i am not old enough to have sufficient money for her to spend thus needing someone older. her previous bfs seems rich business man that can support her needs.

so i am wondering based on what i had just say, is she a gold digger? i have my doubts and cutting ties from her as for now.

Bro, whether she is a gold digger is besides the point. She rejected you, she has a questionable story, she is a FL, she is older than you, she is a foreigner, what else do you need for you to move away? You deserve better than this

[viola06]

Originally Posted by Marq

Bro, whether she is a gold digger is besides the point. She rejected you, she has a questionable story, she is a FL, she is older than you, she is a foreigner, what else do you need for you to move away? You deserve better than this

yeah u are right. she still texts me so i am just playing along.

[jameschong1]

u are right & smart - just play along
some, not all, some of this foreign girls are rejects in their own cuntry, their bf dun even want to f them if not the $$$ the girls give them
but when this girls come here, they hehave like cute innocent virgin or superstar
+ some bros here damn stupid and kam lung, throw $$$ to the girls spoil them but end up crying like faggots here

[ho888sg]

She works in medi and pedi shop in Singapore?

Personally marrying to foreigner is better than marrying to local. no puns intended. They usually have better gfe and not as demanding.

You are really still very young, at least hold on to end of 20s then decide on marriage ba. A lot of things and perspective may change along the way, including the power to earn money to support both-selves and family/kids.

Anything you can just pm me.

[fallen11]

to viet girls, a 18 yr old together with a 38 yr old also wont be thought as "too old or young". Its very common in vietnam.

[fallen11]

have seen a few 18 yr olds married 40 yr old guys.
Both are viets living in vietnam

[TheIdesOfMarch]

Originally Posted by MoeLanYong

Any girl that keeps asking you what's the future plan, don't bother marrying. Sure end up quarrelling. She is the kind who lives on expectations. After marriage, when are you going to upgrade our hdb? Why are you earning so little etc?

Marry one who just enjoys being with you without any expectation. Local or vietnamese. They accept you for who you are and not what you must do for them

Hey MoeLanYong,

How's it feel to finally be the next person alongside your dear Decorum/StrawberryCream guy to get eaten up and spat out by the EDMW cesspool?



Don't think I forgot about how you two especially Decorum were some of my worst trolls and shit-stirrers in EDMW both during my short but stormy time there, and afterwards when my Nikkei saga happened. I am a history student. And I'm very good at keeping grudges.

https://forums.h a r d w a r e z o n...nyong.7049058/



https://forums.$$$$$$$$$$$$.com.sg/t...anned.7047737/




Necro-ing this thread with a reply to MLY's spicy comment made in 2019, so as to make it easier for EDMW BBFAs and drama mama RCPs to come and search his profile up and see his posts. I am no saint, but at least unlike MLY I'm no holier-than-thou hypocrite either.

This one is particular relevant considering the drama with the RCP in the cesspool that got you MLY killed in there.

I might not be around anymore in there or even in SG, but I still have eyes and ears everywhere.

It's funny how the EDMW cesspool likes to jump on others at their lowest, but when they survive and thrive after that doing bigger and better things suddenly all diam diam don't dare stir shit.

After all that's why none of you dare to or want to constantly repost and stir what I write on Asia Sentinel or LinkedIn now isn't it?

[BatamBro]

No perfect vietbu one, even the smart ones also got their manipulative methods to gongtao you gradually after marriage.

In the end it's see how much you can adapt to her expectations while she understand better about sg culture of doing things and thinking.

Like what the OG bros here say, even if you wanna cheat..
Just milk the cow outside and drink the milk, don't bring the milk back.

[deenck]

I love Vietnam girls too