How many of you chiong despite having a partner?

[CR7toPSG]

If she move to SG with u and will be at you side for the rest of your life, will u retire from this? A genuine question

Originally Posted by morrissey1209

I chiong because I am in a LDR and my gal is not by my side. When I am with her in China, I don't chiong.

Whatever you want to/need to do, don't let your gal know can liao. They are fucking jealous animals.

[Bommi99]

Everyone has three faces. One you show your friends and colleagues. One you for to your family. And the last face only you know. So in this case,your desire for massages,MLs and fun is the final face only for you. Only you know that face. Everything in life is fair.

[Heartlandlover]

Hmm.. since this topic is up.
Can I ask is there such things as emotional cheating vs physically cheating?

Can u accept any of it?
Cos I know cheating wives. Can be normal housewives to office ladies to ML.

[LaoCheeHong]

Originally Posted by Baddecisions

Just sharing my personal account - started visiting MLs when I was single. After that, got attached and married and urge died down. However, after a while, urge came back even though I share a good sex life and intimacy with my partner.

End of the day, it is up to you to decide what you can live with. Some people have guilt, some people no guilt. Some people have devotion, some people no devotion. Some think cheonging is not mutually exclusive to being a family man, as long as your family is still safe and you don't neglect. For me, I have come to terms that this is who I am and the urge will always be there. I stick to only MLs and HJs because I don't want to risk disease and put my partner at risk. Of course, end of day, my priority is still family and if my habits end up putting them at risk one day, then I will stop. For now, journey continues...

Agree Bro! The important thing is whatever you do, don't bring problems home

[hhlover]

Wondering any bros here up to now in their life only tasted one pussy.. his gf or wife only..

[morrissey1209]

Originally Posted by CR7toPSG

If she move to SG with u and will be at you side for the rest of your life, will u retire from this? A genuine question

Actually yes, there won't be a need to chiong. I am happy around her and with our sex life.

[Iceman11]

Originally Posted by Mankok

Upped you for this post!

Thanks Bro. Upz u in return with my humble points.

[Mankok]

Originally Posted by Bommi99

Everyone has three faces. One you show your friends and colleagues. One you for to your family. And the last face only you know. So in this case,your desire for massages,MLs and fun is the final face only for you. Only you know that face. Everything in life is fair.

What you describe here is very familiar to me. Thou shall be upped

[bad^boi]

Originally Posted by hhlover

Wondering any bros here up to now in their life only tasted one pussy.. his gf or wife only..

Hahahha then this type of bro unlikely to be in this forum

[ash10]

Originally Posted by hhlover

Wondering any bros here up to now in their life only tasted one pussy.. his gf or wife only..

That would be me, always been curious but don't dare to risk..

[jlly]

Always keep things physical and transactional. Once you start going to eat, shopping, paktor you gone case liao. Seen friends that burn 6 digits (maybe more cus paiseh to tell me) and end up marriage gone, assets gone worse is the ML/FL also gone cus RTC/RTT/RTV hahaha.

Once in a very very long while you hear happily ever after stories but is like buy Toto… you know you got chance you also won’t risk your whole life or assets try. And even happily ever after also don’t know can happy 10 years or more not…

[SwordArt]

I never find ONS or FWB now because I do not want complication in the relationship. used to destroy one relationship because of that.
But as guys, you will have urge. And our partners are not sex slave, they can't satisfy us 100%.
I will still go for a massage maybe once a month or two, and the max I will go is a bj, mostly just hj. Harder to get caught and no emotion involved. And I take it as relaxing service instead of cheating.

[huareyou]

it's also a matter of time, space and whether you create opportunities for yourself to eat outside.

just be conscious of what you do to avoid the consequences and how you might get caught.

do you want to give into the urge? can you give into the urge? and can you afford to do it - i don't mean $$, but consequences that come if you get caught. to some it may mean freedom.

to me at least, it means losing a lifelong partner that clicks with me; just not well enough to say i don't want to eat outside.

[sidjames92]

Originally Posted by morrissey1209

Mostly very true. I also have non-religious friends who don't chiong...but very few indeed.

nowadays a lot more who chionged in the past have stopped. partly due to the lack of good supply. so easier to stop and save $$$.

[Todtan]

Have a transactional relationship.Dont go beyond it.Later get into more money issue and problems of the ML.