How to know if she truly loves you or just wants your money

[Laofuzi8888]

Once you are a seasoned cheongster, you can control your feeling and emotion better

[Dotafan98]

Originally Posted by p u r e

Wonder how many people would share your sentiment here.

Because quite frankly, there's some who say guys who visit prostitutes lack social skills and are unattractive.

I think it's not always the case. Some just prefer to keep things more straightforward and simple: fuck and fuck off.

But I just wonder about the % for each type of person..

I don't know about that but based on my own observation from years of walking from house to house at night when geylang was super crowded before COVID (when no one wearing mask), can confirm that most guys I see are unattractive.

[Laochiongster]

Which house is she ?

[Lawrencegan]

Lol just found one of the angpai Fl (s**a) from dome 1 who came just before covid keep saying she love me whatsoever even come stay with me 1 day before start work, tell me go up to find her after last slot, don’t charge me money for overnight now also shotgun and get married to Thai man

End up same story over and over

[Laofuzi8888]

Originally Posted by Dotafan98

I don't know about that but based on my own observation from years of walking from house to house at night when geylang was super crowded before COVID (when no one wearing mask), can confirm that most guys I see are unattractive.

Like me. Looked like laofuzi

[unfit]

Originally Posted by Laofuzi8888

Like me. Looked like laofuzi

old master cute better than big potato

[Therealdeal69x]

Consider every interaction as a fling. Comforting at first but because you let her feel comforted and not so alone in a foreign place, just like a typical love story, is it true love or just infatuation? As far as I’m concern, these SW probably ‘have feelings’ for you because you probably treated them with dignity, which is so easy to win over these ladies in the workplace that treats them like object. Like some bro said above, once you’re a seasoned visitor, you’ll be able to control your emotions and feelings.

[Dotafan98]

Gave up on romantic love and both my life and my chionging experience have been uphill ever since

[peeboy75]

Managing your emotions when chionging is like flying kite.. Must sometimes let go and sometimes pull back. Everytime just fuck and fuck off also boring after a while.. If can get one who gam with you and go out with her on her off days once in a while also fun... Treat like FWB but once more than that then must let go already...

[Lisaann]

Just give her like a test to see wat she is really like. Sometimes, when too much seeing each other, feelings do develop

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by peeboy75

Managing your emotions when chionging is like flying kite.. Must sometimes let go and sometimes pull back. Everytime just fuck and fuck off also boring after a while.. If can get one who gam with you and go out with her on her off days once in a while also fun... Treat like FWB but once more than that then must let go already...

There is so much wisdom in your words. And poetically stated also.

Suppress your emotions too much and for too long and I can guarantee you, cause you more discomfort and pain in the long run. Or eat you up from inside and don't even know it.

These days I think that when someone dies before their time, say in their 50s or 60s, then their health etc is one thing, but how much of it is caused by unresolved issues, pain, trauma and other things.

[Dignified69]

Originally Posted by lovestobonk

Hmmm somehow i never get this feeling before, in all the 15 years of chionging time.. maybe i didnt have great sex

Maybe your love language is different. One of my guy friends told me, his wife hug him, kiss him, he still don't feel horny. He has to think of the nice things she has done for him, then only he is in the mood.

His love language is clearly 'acts of service'.

The 5 love languages book is maybe one of the most important and useful books I have read in my life. Recommend for everyone, to understand ourselves and this who we pursue.

Life - Recommending book on love language in sex forum. But then, sex is the most direct expression of love for many men.

[ahha2011]

Recently my regular wl asked me to buy something for her as a gift, 800+???!!!! I believe she is crazy of asking me that.. with this 800, I can go around 4 session with different wl.. with that, I said to myself, sourcing for other better wl..

[Laofuzi8888]

Originally Posted by unfit

old master cute better than big potato

Haha. May be bro dotafan98 saw me walking around at night at Geylang.

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by Dignified69

Maybe your love language is different. One of my guy friends told me, his wife hug him, kiss him, he still don't feel horny. He has to think of the nice things she has done for him, then only he is in the mood.

His love language is clearly 'acts of service'.

The 5 love languages book is maybe one of the most important and useful books I have read in my life. Recommend for everyone, to understand ourselves and this who we pursue.

Life - Recommending book on love language in sex forum. But then, sex is the most direct expression of love for many men.

I think ALL guy's love languageis "Acts of pornstar service" right? LOL!