Can you forgive your gf/wife for cheating on u?

[havana]

Originally Posted by viewpanel

FYI, my ex eat out and was caught thrice by me and i only found out after 3 years that we had broken off that she actually was a FB to more than 10 guys...

I felt terribly sorry for u.....

[tomvoyeur]

Originally Posted by havana

I felt terribly sorry for u.....

hmmm.....are u one of them lol??

[Tai_zi21]

I can forgive but i cannot forget

[Sibeisong999]

Originally Posted by Tai_zi21

I can forgive but i cannot forget

I don't think much people able to forget. Usually will bring it out during quarrel again loh

[funtasy]

This is not a matter of mere wrong. It is a matter of betrayal. It is much easier to forget a wrong than a betrayal of trust.

[sexfrenzy]

Think in most situation, IF you really love your partner, you may be able to give her another chance. Sometimes pple got off the track.. can understand lah.

If second time, den ask her go fark off. One hat on the head enuff liao.. still wan to wear second one ar. Pui!

[yang punk]

Originally Posted by jnlover

My ex-gf cheated on me... and I left her after finding out.
1 yr later I met her and we hit off again as FB... the irony is that her husband is the very guy who snatched her away from me!!

I guess it's pay back time for the guy...

It's impossible to forget and forgive... so it's a blessing that I found out before our planned marriage.

Know what? She is just one fickle minded woman! She will have alot of other men besides you two!

[bloopz]

guess this thread is for guys to post but in my opinion, trust is very important in a r/s. would u be able to trust her again? if u cant then its time to let go.
but, r u having flings outside? i know of cases where wife knows that her husband is having flings outside therefore is out for revenge to let her husband have a taste of his own medi.

[crowleyking]

Its like a cracked porcelain vase.

No matter what, you will always be reminded of the crack.

My own humble take is, its hard to gain someone's trust already, but very often men tend to betray their lover's trust because of small head being in command.

[D_Silver]

Even if I can forgive, I won't be able to forget.

And.. I dunno how to put it, but after knowing your partner cheated, its like the r/s has changed.. even if I were to forgive and get back together no way it will be the same as before.

Probably after that I'd just start eating out myself .. then the r/s becomes kinda pointless liao.

[Gerald]

Sometimes you think that you are forget but it will invariably come back to haunt you again and again.