girlfriend/wife who doesn't like sex at all - Page 3

gotcraft30 · #31 12-10-2010, 10:41 AM

Not trying to be hao lian, but I have never had a gf who don't want sex with me. Most times, they are the ones who want it more than me.

Like the kurmit sing joke, "Sex is like digging your nose. When you dig which one more shiok? Finger or nose hole. Of course nose hole lah" I believe girls want sex MORE than guys, but they don't say it openly because society will think that they are sluts etc.

And girls want sex differently, they must feel you care about them rather than just their body. Talk to her lah, it could be anything from bad experience about sex to you not meeting needs etc. Leave the "eating outside" thought as the last one. Not healthy to have those thoughts if you are in a r/s

manny · #32 12-10-2010, 11:08 AM

no la.. i tink both parties also enjoy la.. nt jus the gals.. and its v true tat gals ask for more than just sex.. care and love is v impt... else jus f*ck, shoot, sleep.. realli v sianz.. and pls.. cannot finish case already turn to the other side of bed and sleep too! must cuddle!!

TheGreatOne · #33 12-10-2010, 11:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by manny

no la.. i tink both parties also enjoy la.. nt jus the gals.. and its v true tat gals ask for more than just sex.. care and love is v impt... else jus f*ck, shoot, sleep.. realli v sianz.. and pls.. cannot finish case already turn to the other side of bed and sleep too! must cuddle!!

aiya never mind la, at least your hubby not panda.

Panda: I eat shoots and leaves...

Translate: I eat, shoots, and leaves...

manny · #34 12-10-2010, 11:12 AM

posted reply but n not sure y it didnt show.. anyway, i tink both also enjoy.. not jus the gal..and u r rite, gals wan love and care more than just sex. if jus f*ck, shoot, sleep.. realli v sianz half.. and also cannot jus finish case, turn other side and sleep.. must cuddle to sleep!!

manny · #35 12-10-2010, 11:13 AM

lol.. ok.. if my hb ever does tat, i will tell him abt tis panda thing!

bfreemen · #36 12-10-2010, 11:27 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gotcraft30

Not trying to be hao lian, but I have never had a gf who don't want sex with me. Most times, they are the ones who want it more than me.

Like the kurmit sing joke, "Sex is like digging your nose. When you dig which one more shiok? Finger or nose hole. Of course nose hole lah" I believe girls want sex MORE than guys, but they don't say it openly because society will think that they are sluts etc.

And girls want sex differently, they must feel you care about them rather than just their body. Talk to her lah, it could be anything from bad experience about sex to you not meeting needs etc. Leave the "eating outside" thought as the last one. Not healthy to have those thoughts if you are in a r/s

guys can only cum once . girls can cum many times in one session

darylcch · #37 12-10-2010, 12:51 PM

same boat....

raiders · #38 12-10-2010, 01:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gotcraft30

Not trying to be hao lian, but I have never had a gf who don't want sex with me. Most times, they are the ones who want it more

I do have to agree on this point. Never in my life of dating or flings do I ever encounter a girl like what thread starter mentioned. All are willing to be fucked, all are willing to CIM, most are willing to swallow.
My brother threadstarter, some are born to click and the chemistry will be there without any trying. Some people simply have no fate with you no matter how hard you try. Just my thoughts.

Xgenre · #39 12-10-2010, 02:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gotcraft30

Like the kurmit sing joke, "Sex is like digging your nose. When you dig which one more shiok? Finger or nose hole. Of course nose hole lah" I believe girls want sex MORE than guys, but they don't say it openly because society will think that they are sluts etc.

I hope you didn't do that deliberately. That's mean. You know a frog turns into a Prince after the Princess kissed the frog? Well, he may not be a Prince but he's definitely not a frog.

superman67 · #40 12-10-2010, 04:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lightning

But first, let me enjoy life while I can, before settling down. Last but not least, It is also important to find a right partner who can take care of you and family. Also it is even better that she gives you minimal or no problems when living together.

When comes to sex, I think you could try to go for oversea holiday with her and make her happy first. Then slowly coax and entice her... if all these still fails, you make your own decisions.

Wow..thats a gd one bro..tks for sharing..

RoverX · #41 12-10-2010, 04:46 PM

Zoop bro, I sympatise with u. In the same boat many yrs back, tot will change after marriage...how wrong was I. Got worse over time... sex freq dops, many excuse...tired, children, no mood..... now a frustrated man, most of the time self service.

Conclusion....if your libro is high, you need to find someone of same level, then your honeymoon will last for many more yrs...You can expect women needs to drop with time, not the other way round.....Good luck..

jana · #42 12-10-2010, 04:51 PM

Frankly, TS bro you have my respect ah, if my gf tell me all this, i will ask her to look at for a spider and fuck it ah.

Dun you think that what she is saying is totally irrelevant?

Dun respect her if you demand for it? Then who respect you sia?

All those excuses actually boils down to 1 thing isnt it?

"Dun love you enough to see the need to please you."

I am not here to make you sad but what is with her that makes you so devoted?

She super pretty? She super sexy? Her Character damn good? She super rich?

None of those things above will be able to make up for your manhood needs, its natural instinct for man!
Why do you think we humans are not endangered species yet?

Frankly, some gals take you for granted when you are too nice to them hope you dun take this the wrong way but the amount of replies here should have already tell you the answer to your problem, the only issue is whether you want to listen or not.

gotcraft30 · #43 12-10-2010, 05:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Xgenre

I hope you didn't do that deliberately. That's mean. You know a frog turns into a Prince after the Princess kissed the frog? Well, he may not be a Prince but he's definitely not a frog.

no la bro, i don't mean to be funny. It was a widely distributed joke with the famous actor's name on it. I just didn't want to insult the famous actor.

Funky-Kuku · #44 12-10-2010, 06:07 PM

9 years is a long time in life. Are you sure you are really willing to give up 9 years of your life in return for a sex life? She may not like sex but i'm sure she's fine in other aspects right? After all, you and her made it past 9 years. What if you found another lady who loves sex but give you all sorts of other problems? Will you be happier?

I think in life, there's no perfect woman. Maybe you should outsource the sex part while staying on with her. Outsourcing the sex part allows you variety in partners too. After all, she gave you her blessings right?

coconutskin · #45 12-10-2010, 06:09 PM

sometimes its not the girl dont like sex, ite becasue the guy cant get her to climax, do a few times also sian liao, in reverse if we guy eveytime do , but didnt cum, how would feel? correct me if i am wrong in saying this.