Depressed girl

[ktcabi54]

Dear sis...

I believe u should tell yr BF about the whole issue and yr past ... Who dun have a past everybody has one ....like wat other bro say, u must have your own reason for being a FL, so explain to yr BF the reason and u have quit. If a person truly love u ... he/she will accept yr past and accept who u are...

Once u have told yr bf about the whole issue... i am sure u will be in a better state of mind to tackle the problem .... like wat other bro say here ... report the person to the police and dun be hold ransom by it.

Take care and be strong

[newyorker88]

Originally Posted by collin_23

Everyone has a past , don't worry . The more u worry the more depressed u will be . If your current bf is really true to u , he won't care anyway as u no longer working in this line . It takes more lies to cover 1 lie only so it is better that u be frank with him . If he can't accept it than he is a dickhead and u r better off without him .

Do not be held ransom by anyone because of those pics u did in your moment of folly , trust me that the demands will be endless especially in the hands of wrong people .

Another way will be to say that the customer is a 1 time fling only . If anyone ask , just tell them that u dump him after the session as he has a short dick and zero skills , that is y he has to take pictures to console himself .

Cheers

IN total agreement. When you did it as FL, you have your reasons. If your current BF cannot accept it, you are better off without him for long run. Also, you earn your way by a trade. You did not cheat, steal or rob. There is nothing to be ashame of, in front of your BF.

Just make it clear to him that you STOP THIS TRADE FOR GOOD, and NEVER TURN BACK to it.

[zyspt]

by the way, don't give in to whatever the guy's demand. even if he say will remove the picture from the net. once picture is uploaded into the net it will multiply within seconds, look at edison's incident, it can never be removed cleanly from the net.

so making police report will be wise, so in future anyone tries to do something to u regarding this incident, u just need to go to the police, the police will handle them more efficiently keeping you safe.

[Bally]

Silly gal you shouldn't have admit the photo is you to your BF friend. Anyway if you can denied pls do so. Just will he ever used it to demand things from you? Next is to report the issue regards the idiot that post the photo of you to the men in blue. Let them handle it unless you want others to handle. Do take care

[Frankiestine]

As with the rest, my advice is the same. Make a police report NOW! For your bf, its up to you whether you want to come clean with him. Its your past not his.

[geckoSG]

File report to police. Also, you may want to consider telling your BF, if you
have a difficult reason that forced you to FL, your BF should understand.
If he cannot accept, move on... There's lots of men out there.

Just dun give in to the guy who posted your photo online or anyone at all.
Anyone who tries to threaten you, just file police report.

Woman charter very "powderful" in SG.

[kurios]

Sorry to hear your sad incident.

But, got so heng. One post online and the current could see the picture?
They same gang one? Seriousy, how down to luck, you can't be so heng that your bf just a few click on the explorer and saw your picture.

There are thousands of website that host photo, let alone the xxx rate site.

Anyway, you heard of photoshop? Your head could had superimposed over the dick...nothing is impossible for photoshop.

[blohsg]

Honesty is the best policy between you and your bf ...

If its out in the open, this person would not have a chance to Blackmail you.

[sexmatrix03]

Sis, I can understand that listening to all these advises from all the Bros and doing what is best is very very difficult.

U are already scared and is already lost of idea on what to do, but u have to somehow put an end to all these and move on.

I suggest u find someone u trust fully to help u in this matter, if not, then you will have to really take that first step to prevent a disaster in your life.

Take Care and be brave!!

[philipsho]

oh man.... sick loser!!!... u should let ur current bf know, and if he really love u he will understand and forgive u... (there is no virgin in this world now.... come on he is so pure mah??)

never give in to the demand as it will just be pour fuel into the fire and he be asking for more and more.....

sorry to hear about ur case.... always look on the bright side

[Yardstick]

Everyone has a past that he or she is uncomfortable to share with. However, If this guy is the guy you want to be with for the rest of your life, then you will need to come clean.

It is always better to come clean then to have someone else tell it to him. Trust is one of the fundamental of a relationship. Without it, a relationship is no more than one build on sex and mutual needs.

If he loves you enough, he will be able to look past it.

Good luck.

[BigGuy]

What's there to be honest? Your bf virgin? Never date before, smooch or touch a girl? If yes then come clean.

Anyone attached would still do stupid thing like take pictures ig getting or giving bj, bbbj, hj n fj etc. Only diff w FL u get paid to do for whatever readon. Right you are no longer in this libe then leave.

You want to be safe, like all who advise. Make a police report.

[2centsworth]

Never ever tell your boyfriend the truth. Please... stop being innocent (like how you let your client take a photo of you). If your boyfriend can accept you, then all is well.

If he can't, then how? Is he likely to break up with you if he cannot accept the truth? Surely people will ask why the two of you break up right? If he's so angry and he tell your common friends he broke up with you because he realises that you were once a Fl and that your photos are online, wouldn't it make things worse?

Ignorance is bliss. I think telling him the truth is a gamble you shouldn't take.

[Thanks]

Dear all...

I actually wanted to leave this thread quietly but I feel very bad as you guys have shared your time to offer me valuable advices .

These few days.. I rec pm everyday, from guys and gals...

The opinion from girls were not to say... Cos we have this feeling Tat what u don't know can't hurt u....

I'm sorry to say that until now, I am still unable to come to a decision.

But my purpose of posting here is to update a good news. Thanks to many bros for advising me to lodge police report , my ex client is now aware that he is wrong. He SMS me to apologize and say he has since deleted my pics. I responded that I do not blame him, and I mean it. I am too troubled with the mess and glad that at least one issue is resolved.

As for my bf, I need time to think over.

That's all the update for now.

Thanks you all so much.

[demonorc]

I can only say this.

Since your bf friend has downloaded the pictures and i am sure those pictures are floating around.

Lets just hope that things dun go to blackmail especially when you are married one day.

that is all i can say.