I Lost My Virginity to an FL (Real Life Account)

[RonRon]

Opinions are aplenty so cmon people, give the guy a break.

Its easy to comment on peoples weaknesses when we're feeling all high and mighty. Im sure if anyone here reflects back, each would have gone thru moments of vulnerability as well.

Even the strongest men will feel weak occassionally, so lets just sit back and hear him vent this frustrations.

Like what sittingbull here may have commented, we will never really know if we are really what we claim to be, behind that monitor of ours. We can say we are physically or mentally strong, but actually weaker, however i really see no point comparing as such things are subjective to individuals. And those feel they are better than thou, there is still this thing call "humility".

[SittingBull]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Should be.... ".. need some ADVICE......"

"Advice" is a non countable noun, you do not add an "s" to make it a plural.

"Advice" is like "Rice". You say... "Please pass me the rice." You don't say "Please pass me the rices" because "rice", like "advice", is a non countable noun.

There are many other examples. To test your knowledge of non countable nouns, go to http://a4esl.org/q/j/ck/ch-countnouns.html and take the test.

Rather than going around scrutinizing in the most unbelievably fastidious of manners for potential errors in grammar, spelling or dictions, just to placate your swelling ego, surely time could be spend in a more meaningful way?

[watmidoin]

Once again, I thank all who made constructive comments and criticism and support. Some of you share my thoughts, others have a different opinion. As long as its written as an advice or discussion, I am open to it all. As for SittingBull, well, as the saying goes, you can bring a bull to water but you can't make it drink. Bro castrol, wah lan eh, you tackle from behind. I kana zam of course not happy. but you did it smartly and the referee kelong. so no choice. play on

[watmidoin]

Originally Posted by SittingBull

Rather than going around scrutinizing in the most unbelievably fastidious of manners for potential errors in grammar, spelling or dictions, just to placate your swelling ego, surely time could be spend in a more meaningful way?

I really really really wanted to end it. But I really really really cannot help it. This one is simply..... CLASSIC.

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by SittingBull

Rather than going around scrutinizing in the most unbelievably fastidious of manners for potential errors in grammar, spelling or dictions, just to placate your swelling ego, surely time could be spend in a more meaningful way?

It's automated. I don't have to do anything.

The only error the script keeps an eye out for is errors in the use of ADVICE/ADVISE. There are no grammar police here intent on hunting down each and every error. Look through any thread and you'll find Singlish, Hokkien expletives, slang words etc being used in abundance. Members are free to use whatever lingo is available to them to convey their thoughts and experiences.

The ONLY error which is pointed out is with regards to the appropriate use of "advice/advise".

Instead of getting all hot under the collar, you could actually thank me for helping you improve your English. That's what most other members do when the same error is pointed out.

[The_Unrepentant]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

Instead of getting all hot under the collar, you could actually thank me for helping you improve your English. That's what most other members do when the same error is pointed out.

they never thank me when i point out their mistake leh. y huh?

[The_Unrepentant]

谋事在人,成事在天
but remember the harder u work, the luckier u feel.

anyway, abt the luck part u can refer to this.....If you can read this message

[Berserk]

Originally Posted by The_Unrepentant

谋事在人,成事在天
but remember the harder u work, the luckier u feel.

anyway, abt the luck part u can refer to this.....If you can read this message

Read the acct on the threadstarter, whatmidoin, have mixed feelings while reading this. It remind me of the past.. me also lost my virgin to a Thai WL after my first break up with my ex. Girls always call us men as flirts but they never know that when a Man love a woman, they can love and get hurt deeply. I believe that every brother of us go through this stage and would understand the feelings and agony that our bro, whatmidoin is going through. Thus i really urge brothers to encourage him rather than judging him. Having said that i hope that the threadstarter would pick himself up again. it is k to feel hurt and rejected but there shd be a time frame to that. life still have to goes on. Cheer up bro!

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

It's automated. I don't have to do anything.

The only error the script keeps an eye out for is errors in the use of ADVICE/ADVISE.

boz so the reply i presume is also automated based on a standard template..

[SittingBull]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

It's automated. I don't have to do anything.

The only error the script keeps an eye out for is errors in the use of ADVICE/ADVISE. There are no grammar police here intent on hunting down each and every error. Look through any thread and you'll find Singlish, Hokkien expletives, slang words etc being used in abundance. Members are free to use whatever lingo is available to them to convey their thoughts and experiences.

The ONLY error which is pointed out is with regards to the appropriate use of "advice/advise".

Instead of getting all hot under the collar, you could actually thank me for helping you improve your English. That's what most other members do when the same error is pointed out.

"is errors" ??? should be "is error"

Likewise, i do hope you extend your appreciation to me, for pointing out your mistake, and giving you an English language proficiency lesson.

[Ronaldo]

Seems like sammboyfor like to correct fellow bros for this "advice,advise" usage. Whenever I used MS Outlook, the system tend to underline the word advise when I used it in, Could you please advise? Maybe thats the reason why many bros here have this problem?

Ok, back to the topic...
I am also one who believe in sharing my first time with someone whom I loved (well at least during that time of the session) and I should be her FIRST as well. I am lucky that my current gf is my first and she will become my wife soon. This is despite me having previous gfs.

I did flirted with the idea of losing it to a WL but decided against it. I will only become one of her statistics. It is so meaningless. Life can be more interesting if you have certain goals.

Looking back at my first time, it was full of comical scenes as we fumbled all the way. It was went I have my doubts of those video tapes I had watched previously. Luckily a good dosage of CLEO, Her World and such help in my understanding when it comes to sex. It was a good memory and shall be treasured.

I just hope the threadstarter would not be addicted to commercial sex after his first time. It will be totally meaningless. I guess many of us here are leading a normal decent life and go for commercial sex just to add some excitment into your current mundane life. Or at least that is what I believe.

Some of us may have fantastic FRs and may enticed those who had never tried to go into such fun. But we have to know that we are all sitting in front of a PC, (like wat Sittingbull said), we can be anyone or anything.

I would always stressed that commercial sex should not be a full time thing for you. For fun sometimes, it should be good. A normal life with wife and kids should be the way to go. If not one day, when you speak to normal lady whom you like, your first sentence could be "How much? Do you BBBJ?"

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by SittingBull

"is errors" ??? should be "is error"

Likewise, i do hope you extend your appreciation to me, for pointing out your mistake, and giving you an English language proficiency lesson.

If you were right, I would. Unfortunately, "is errors" is correct in this context. "errors in the the use of advise/advice" is treated as a single collective entity.

[voodoodick73]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

If you were right, I would. Unfortunately, "is errors" is correct in this context. "errors in the the use of advise/advice" is treated as a single collective entity.

Thanks boss, as Konfucius says... "he who points out my mistake is my teacher". bows to master...

[Paul Lam Par]

Originally Posted by sammyboyfor

If you were right, I would. Unfortunately, "is errors" is correct in this context. "errors in the the use of advise/advice" is treated as a single collective entity.

Boss u are simply the best. I saw another word which commonly ppl make mistake, can u set it to automated also.

Check out here
http://sbf.today/showpos...postcount=1243

[Paul Lam Par]

Originally Posted by Castrol

about the blaming god part... i read some sports news yesterday, about frank lampard blaming and saying sven made a mistake for not bringing a 5th striker, namely defoe. this coming from the biggest england flop... no offence.

I feel offended liao I think he is my brother leh.