What was it that prompted your first indiscretion?

[surfer888]

Originally Posted by eforbidden

I was comtemplating to engage in indiscretion activities, and now having mixed feelings... Hahahah thanks to you fellas... (Dunno whether issit a blessing in disguise or what... ). I always have the thought of doing it at least once... But is 'once' ever enough?

Lastly, I still believe despite all these experience shared, some of us will still continue to engage in such activities and some may cut it off totally. Whatever it is, I'd think it's better to be mentally strong and know when to let it go when you've enough fun (Easier said than done!!), and still be responsible and take good care (emotional and physical needs) of our partners.

It's like smoking. Easy to pick up, difficult to quit. Just ask around and see if you know of many regular smokers who quit successfully... not too many, right?

Don't pick it up with the intention to stop later. That's how most smokers and serial philanderers like me get initiated.