Missed Signals

[randyrockhard]

Originally Posted by LordVader

Isn't sugarbook what it is?

I mean it's like going Geylang and telling everyone you miss the signals given by the working girls there?

Don't feed the troll.

[akira07]

Had a new female colleague at one of my previous jobs. She wasn't local and was of the same nationality as one of our long time colleagues. It was obvious he was trying to make a move on her even though we all knew she has a boyfriend. As me and her stayed not too far from each other, i offered to send her home as we ended work quite late that day. Upon reaching her block, she asked if i wanted to come up for some coffee. I declined. She added, 'my housemates won't be home tonight.' I declined again and walked home. Upon thinking again when i reached home, i just realised i missed a chance. No further chances as she resigned 2 weeks later.

[Piledriver]

Originally Posted by bigmannow

Last time I sprain my thumb the China reputable tcm milf doc first ask me if I’m married , then ask me lie on the bed , keep stroking my thumb joint ... then ask me if my below ok... I very blur why ask below ok or not ? She say below meaning my shitting n urinating .. I say ok .. all the while she kept stroking my thumb joint … and she like reluctant to let me go …

A While later she finally let me go Liao ... I should have ask if she Wan check further I show her my kkj and see what happen but too bad nvr … maybe could have got fwb…

I was wondering how did you manage to sprain your thumb? Did you use your thumb to rub your wife's clitoris so hard till you sprained it?

[rototime]

I never take any form of signal for granted, and in many situation, I tell myself. better to have missed the signal, and this has been proven in a few of the recent cases. ie, the PHV driver and the SMU undergrad?

I have in may instances had girls and women telling me how they worship their father, and love their "Daddy, and love hanging out with oldergr guys, one even told me she love the smell of second hand smoke coupled with a glass of ice cold beer, still remember the one many years back telling me she have never tried dating a guy doing the type of work I do.

I believe some are really asking for a good fuck, but also cannot rule out the possibility that they just wanted some companionship? yeah, watch netflix on bed together, share some drinks and tit bits, but that's it. Try to lay on top of her, and she may scream rape.. seriously. can happen.

I only pay attention to and react to signals, hit or miss from my partners. The kind of signal I always miss are when they subtlety grace their breast against my arm or sometime rubbing against my body, and I always take them as accidental touches, as it always only happen when either I am busy at work or we are in a group setting, and only until she shows the "I am really pissed" face.. then I realize.. but in all cases.. always a hit, after a miss.. LOL!!..

[tuyp]

Guys tell me if i missed this signal

Bumble date in SG pre-covid, Im Malaysian.

After dinner and drinks, went for walk around Esplanade, Marina all the way till 3am, she held my hand and said something along the lines of 'dont mind staying up late as long as my parents see me in my room the next day'.

Walked to a club and got her home via a cab not long after

I should have brought her home right?

[bigmannow]

Originally Posted by Piledriver

I was wondering how did you manage to sprain your thumb? Did you use your thumb to rub your wife's clitoris so hard till you sprained it?

Old injury but it’s a true story if u dun believe it I can’t say much

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by rototime

I never take any form of signal for granted, and in many situation, I tell myself. better to have missed the signal, and this has been proven in a few of the recent cases. ie, the PHV driver and the SMU undergrad?

I have in may instances had girls and women telling me how they worship their father, and love their "Daddy, and love hanging out with oldergr guys, one even told me she love the smell of second hand smoke coupled with a glass of ice cold beer, still remember the one many years back telling me she have never tried dating a guy doing the type of work I do.

I believe some are really asking for a good fuck, but also cannot rule out the possibility that they just wanted some companionship? yeah, watch netflix on bed together, share some drinks and tit bits, but that's it. Try to lay on top of her, and she may scream rape.. seriously. can happen.

I only pay attention to and react to signals, hit or miss from my partners. The kind of signal I always miss are when they subtlety grace their breast against my arm or sometime rubbing against my body, and I always take them as accidental touches, as it always only happen when either I am busy at work or we are in a group setting, and only until she shows the "I am really pissed" face.. then I realize.. but in all cases.. always a hit, after a miss.. LOL!!..

Agreed that some are just hanging bits of it to lure you.
Never take the first step. Never assume she wants something sexual unless she explicitly says she wants. Even when she says it, always be ready to retract any advance. If you can't find certainty, never do it. Never go to her place, never bring her to your place, always go to a hotel, let the cctv capture you two in intimate positions. If you are unsure, just avoid singaporean women.

[LordVader]

Originally Posted by randyrockhard

Don't feed the troll.

I just gave him the benefit of the doubt, of being dumb.

[rototime]

Looks like our local ladies have bad reps.. LOL!!.. Actually, not all lah.. Just avoid those millennials SPG wannabe, most others should be ok, especially those sporty type as they're more adventurous..

When possible. Taking the ladies back home will be safest, as they guy will be in a much better position to defend himself in case if the lady were to cry wolf.

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

Agreed that some are just hanging bits of it to lure you.
Never take the first step. Never assume she wants something sexual unless she explicitly says she wants. Even when she says it, always be ready to retract any advance. If you can't find certainty, never do it. Never go to her place, never bring her to your place, always go to a hotel, let the cctv capture you two in intimate positions. If you are unsure, just avoid singaporean women.

[hhlover]

The only Signal n chance missed is a few yrs ago, happen to meet this china lady owning n working an Mp.. she is married to a singaporean guy.. visit her to massage quite regularly.. from starting just HJ to finally getting full course with her as we become very friend, will go lunch or even company her go chinatown send money.. but good thing always come to an end as she soon stop working n sell away the Mp, as her husband dun really like..
But even after she not working anymore, we still keep in contact n texting each other chatting.. then one day we meet up for lunch, then coffee n shop around till 3plus, during conversation told me her husband today work late till 9plus, she will be alone. 1st hint she give me tat i miss.. then 4plus told me she abit tired, dun wan shop anymore, ask me where i wan to go, we can go together, still i miss her signal n didnt bring her go hotel..
Told her since she tired n not more place to go i send her home.. really send her home after tat.. then the next day, when we was chatting, she told me actually sometimes when she was doing with her husband, she will think of me..
From tat very moment then i know i miss my chance.. but everything already too late cos a wk later she n her husbnd went back to china for holiday, after she come back, she was pregnant, n we oso start to contact less..

[Olympig2014]

Originally Posted by akira07

Had a new female colleague at one of my previous jobs. She wasn't local and was of the same nationality as one of our long time colleagues. It was obvious he was trying to make a move on her even though we all knew she has a boyfriend. As me and her stayed not too far from each other, i offered to send her home as we ended work quite late that day. Upon reaching her block, she asked if i wanted to come up for some coffee. I declined. She added, 'my housemates won't be home tonight.' I declined again and walked home. Upon thinking again when i reached home, i just realised i missed a chance. No further chances as she resigned 2 weeks later.

Her hints very obvious!

[JasonPhang]

Originally Posted by entering

Since I commented so much let me also pen my missed signal. I had a china student. 23 years old taking A levels. She has a tattoo on her left thigh.

Everytime my class, she will wear a dress or skirt short enough to show that tattoo. So I always comment nice tattoo.

Best part is after a year, she will tell me where she go and eat supper. That place is the place i always go also.

Then she tells me her mother bring her go fortune teller say her first lover will be someone 20 years older than her and someone she admires. I'm 20 years older than her.

Actually if she's any other girl, I would have Grab her and bend her forward in the toilet and just fuck till we both cum.

But somehow, for her I just kept my distance. Maybe cuz of fear that she's my A level student or fear she may report but that said, now thinking back, she gave me all the signals and I didn't advance.

She got into law faculty after that and we lost contact. After that I had other students including another China girl that was also like her.

After that I never miss a signal anymore.

Forgot to ask back then,can tell us the other student story?

[WinterMelonTree]

Originally Posted by newbie22

Over the years, i have missed a number of signals. Some obvious, some not obvious. What are yours? Let's hear it. I'll start.

During my tertiary years, I am very close with a classmate of mine, lets call her Jane. Jane stayed near me and we both always went to school and went home together. As we both drive our parent's car, we will take turns to fetch each other.

Over the time in school, Jane and I, we became closer. We did many projects together and always hang out after school too. We played mahjong, we went drinking, you name it. We were the best of friends. So close, we watched porn together but did nothing sexual with each other.

After a while, we both have our girlfriend/boyfriend and that didnt stop our routine. We carried on our daily routine and remained extremely close. Unfortunately, I broke up with my girlfriend and I was devastated. Jane was always there for me to listen to me and gave me a comforting shoulder to cry on. She was my best friend.

During our final year, she was having issues with her boyfriend. She talked to me on how big a problem she was having. Soon after, she switched on porn and we were watching it. She told me "if I have a chance to cheat on my boyfriend, I will definitely do so.". And what did I reply her? Nothing. I just kept quiet. Not because I was afraid, but the stupid me was thinking "Wow you must be very sad.". Not a single moment did I tbink that she wants to fuck me. Worse of all, I only realise this was one of the MANY signs she gave me that she wants to be with me. Stupid me only realise it 10 years later... Sigh...

So whats yours? Let's hear them.

I think if you and Jane are really best friends, then missing the signal might be a good thing in disguise. Because after sex the friendship might be destroyed alr

[elune]

Was suppose to help a female colleague but in the end i didnt managed to help. So she texted me and say "its ok, next time treat you drink tea "

I didnt reply her. Now that i think back... maybe i missed the chance

[entering]

Originally Posted by JasonPhang

Forgot to ask back then,can tell us the other student story?

Just want to state clearly first that I don't target students. Partly cuz it used to be my rice bowl. Now not anymore but I still don't target them per se cuz I'm not into SYT, more into either married and/or matures (milf and some over 50s).

But some students, they actually target us, especially in cases where I'm a foreigner in their country. So, I realised it's the same in sg. Sg girls like to fuck Ang mohs it's just cuz they're foreigners. Also makes me not keen on sg girls anymore since they need a lot of work and little rewards.

So, there's this student I used to teach in Indonesia, where I was faculty head. This one was from a well to do family. Smart, slightly taller than me (well I'm short too), and very pretty.

Breast is like a full B and she likes to go spin class, so her butt is super perky and firm.

High cheekbone and intellectually very smart. So, she likes to ask me questions about her work etc and also likes to Jio me out for dinner so that she can ask me about work life, how to climb the corporate ladder etc.

About 2 years into their degree, they had to come sg for a 6 months immersion programme at our local uni (private uni which I don't want to say the name but you can guess which one) and when she came over, she met this Singaporean guy that she likes.

Turned out, he fucked her then broke up with her and she was depressed about it.

So, her classmates told me about the break up and asked me if I wanted to console her, since they felt she's more receptive to my so called words of wisdom, being someone she apparently look up to.

So, about 3 weeks before they have to return back to Indonesia, I Jio her out for supper and brought her to Adam Road for supper at about 1130pm, since next day there's no class.

We ate and as we talked, she's quite dramatic. But mostly, she's also quite opened, about her needing sex, cuz she enjoys it. Well, of course I replied, "you want sex, just call your classmates lah." And she's like, "no... Sir, my classmates are all lamed. I want a guy that's mature and good in bed..."

Me: you know you're talking about your sexual preference with your teacher right? Plus, need I remind you, I'm a mature guy too.

Her: Sir, I want to ask you something and you be honest with me ok?

Me: er... Depends on what you ask

Her (let's call her T): when you're in Surabaya, you were fucking lots of girls from the other unis right?

Me: er... (Nervous laugh) hahaha, who told you that rubbish. Besides, I like older women. Not so into college students.

T: don't bluff, cuz I know Sir. You fucked like a friend's friend from this xxx uni.

Me: how did you find out...?

T: Sir, she's the prettiest girl in that uni and when my friend told me that she was having a great time with a foreign teacher, I was curious who was it. I found out, it was you.

Me:... Nah, you got the wrong info, like look at me. I'm fat, ugly, short and I'm broke. Which girl in Surabaya wants me.

T: let me show you

Then she pulls out her phone and showed me a picture of me and the girl, in the hotel room, taking a wefie together.