Possible to befriend and fall for an FL?

[kabul]

You loser lah you. Call yourself a man. Just put a ring on it already lah. If not you fuck off and don’t come back. You understand?

Originally Posted by Penguin23

Maybe a slightly different answer compared to the ones already on this thread.

I fucked a KTV girl a number of times before, but ended up being friends with her instead. And we have maintained this friendship over the last 6 years, the last time I fucked her was over 5 years ago.

On the surface the girl was nice enough - snow white skin, pleasant face and super willing to please. She really wanted me, and I believe that until today she is just waiting for the day that I break up with my current gf (whom I have been with for the last 5 years)

But since 6 years ago, I somehow knew that we have no sexual chemistry. I find it hard to explain, but after banging her I don't feel like doing it again. There's really nothing wrong with her - she was 23 then, and had the flawless snow white skin that is the hallmark of Northern Vietnamese women. She was once upon a time a primary school student here, unfortunately after PSLE her family fell on hard times and she had to return to Vietnam. She returned years later, to work as a KTV girl. Due to her background, she speaks near-perfect singlish and understands Singaporean mannerisms well.

You would think, that finding such a KTV girl would be a gift from heaven, so different from the multitude of KTV girls with thick Viet accents....for some strange reason I never found myself attracted to her. So me maintained a friendship all these years with me sometimes helping her out with money (which she always pays back) and many times with admin matters.

She is now pushing 30, and I must say, time is particularly unkind to women. She has done a multitude of jobs across Dubai, Cambodia, Laos and a few stints here as a KTV girl plus some attempts at fake marriages. I still meet her a couple of times a year, just to ask her how she is doing and what her plans are. It is really quite sad, that for women their "market value" plunges so fast and so far once age starts showing on their faces......

[ghostcow]

First time I get asked by FL whether can follow her go immigration to sign a form that say I am her boyfriend. I just siam far far, say I got work cannot go.

If I sign already and next time she anything happen, I need to lim kopi already. Wondering if any gong tao bros really go sign for FL...

I RTF her 2 times because good to fuck, not good to love.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

First time I get asked by FL whether can follow her go immigration to sign a form that say I am her boyfriend. I just siam far far, say I got work cannot go.

If I sign already and next time she anything happen, I need to lim kopi already. Wondering if any gong tao bros really go sign for FL...

I RTF her 2 times because good to fuck, not good to love.

there will some bros who go back so much, they cannot control and they will "fall into love"

yeah some will sign for them, but they will be trapped as well.

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

there will some bros who go back so much, they cannot control and they will "fall into love"

yeah some will sign for them, but they will be trapped as well.

Feel sad for the bros who got trapped, but it is unavoidable since sex is involved

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Feel sad for the bros who got trapped, but it is unavoidable since sex is involved

I was there. falling in love with a FL is a never ending world of pain and sadness. If anyone is listening, don't do it.

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

I was there. falling in love with a FL is a never ending world of pain and sadness. If anyone is listening, don't do it.

Multiple FLs that you fell in love with? You Rtf till you developed feelings over time I guess

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Multiple FLs that you fell in love with? You Rtf till you developed feelings over time I guess

nope just one, almost ruined me. but still standing strong

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by Shadow_warrior

nope just one, almost ruined me. but still standing strong

Salute you bro for bouncing back strong. Lesson learn, best to fuck and go

[Tentaikun]

I got trapped many times but still didn't learnt my lesson. Maybe I'm too emotional or too desperate for love.

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by Tentaikun

I got trapped many times but still didn't learnt my lesson. Maybe I'm too emotional or too desperate for love.

Hi bro care to elaborate more? The FL you visited multiple times? And they ask you for $$ is it?

[Tentaikun]

Originally Posted by ghostcow

Hi bro care to elaborate more? The FL you visited multiple times? And they ask you for $$ is it?

Yah some i visited multiple times. Then they charge me cheaper alot. So it makes me feels like they like me because I'm not handsome and not a ladies man thats why need to find FL. No they didn't ask me money. Got 1 spend money on me and i like her alot. But i know is no outcome one. So i just enjoy whatever happens because i believe in the phrase 'Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened'.

[ghostcow]

Originally Posted by Tentaikun

Yah some i visited multiple times. Then they charge me cheaper alot. So it makes me feels like they like me because I'm not handsome and not a ladies man thats why need to find FL. No they didn't ask me money. Got 1 spend money on me and i like her alot. But i know is no outcome one. So i just enjoy whatever happens because i believe in the phrase 'Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened'.

The charge cheaper and spend money on you don’t seem like FL trapped you bro.

[Shadow_warrior]

Originally Posted by Tentaikun

I got trapped many times but still didn't learnt my lesson. Maybe I'm too emotional or too desperate for love.

bro, we should support each other. tell us more about your predicament

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by Tentaikun

I got trapped many times but still didn't learnt my lesson. Maybe I'm too emotional or too desperate for love.

I got into relationship with 5 different FLs over course of years. Super painful. 3 gave up being FL to be with me but its painful journey with lots of uncertainties

[Rubbaking]

Originally Posted by EtherC

Indeed, the meat market is merciless. Like it or not beauty is a renewable resource for men of means. She was looking in the wrong place for love & stability.

Very well said