Happily Married with an ex WL(VN)

[naemlo]

Originally Posted by birdie8819

Ya Ya 66 divided by 2 si bo .

Originally Posted by casannova03

agreed!!! hahahaa if you want 66 than i 99 lor!!!! hahaha

Nbzzz u 2 trying to make me look like baby??

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by casannova03

This thread is dedicated to the so many bros who have fallen in the quest for a partner from the WL realm.. It is never easy but its not hard. Serious!! You have to know what you are doing....who you are dealing with and what kind of a partner you want for the rest of your life...

A nice starting of this thread, to let all bros here know more things and the feeling when falling in love with a viet gal...It's not easy and its not hard either

Some feeling sounds relatively similar to mine too....^_^ Kudoooss to casannova

Camping here to hear more story !

[casannova03]

Continued...

....now i know that she is real, a whole lot of considerations came to my mind. I mean let's face it!! When you are in the honeymoon period, all you think of is being with your gal and worrying only about tomorrow...now that she really likes me, my considerations turns and took on a more mid-term plannings.

After the incident at the pub, i had a frank talk with her and she told me that what her friend said was true. She dun want me to be there when she's working because she do not know how i will think when other guys did what they did. Although, i must admit that sometimes i feel jealous and affected, in my mind, i knew she was not mine. She is here for a reason and that reason is money. So i have to put up with that...there is no other choice except that you can settle her problems and ask her to stop work. I could not......

Lesson: When you think you are real, and she's real, your presence at her work place is awkward. Reason being that you will see what you dun want to see and this will be etched in your memory whether you like it or not. So be considerate and dun appear at the work place.

So as agreed, i send her to her work and drop her off and find myself some place to chill out and wait to pick her up after work everyday. What she told me is that she has stop going 'upstairs' even before she met me...and its not due to me..due to some women's problem which i dun have to elaborate here.(not STDs or anything like that for the matter). I had my doubts but what can i say? what can i do? this is where trust comes in and i must admit that to trust a gal working that kinda work they are doing is a massive task. But somehow something inside me told me to trust her. I mean what do i stand to lose?? nothing ....in fact it was savings because i will save on the beer part of it...if she betrays this trust and i happen to find out somehow, then it can only be good for the relationship because then i will know who i am dealing with...no?

Well, as if my wife knows that i doubt her, she asked me along on the next appointment to the Gynae...its there and then that i realised that what she has said to me was true and i got rather concerned about her situation cos it seems quite serious..She had all along been seeking medical attention in Singapore even before i knew her so her records and patient's copy of reports were there for me to see...... from that day onwards, i never doubted her again....and after this incident, she has stuck strictly to her promise and never once broke it...some of you might say 'ya right' she behind your back do things you also dun know.. well, after you read the next part, you will know why i know....(no i didn't do any dectective work or anything like that if that's what you think)......

...At this point in time, i only knew her for about 1-2 months (cannot remember bros...that was five years ago!!). This is an awfully short time to know a person. So bros who think that they have hit the jackpot may wanna reconsider. Let's be true to ourself!! how much can you know from your singaporean girlfriend in 2 months muchless a VN gal?? i mean we have to consider that singapore gals speaks our language, have the same culture and does the same things that we do...so to say that you have found the one VN gal like you did in 2 months is, i'm afraid, gullible...if not ...self deceiving....

...Nevertheless, I was positive! I knew she likes me and well i like her too..but we have to progress on in order to find out more about each other.....

Lesson: While being happy at this stage, I guess you still have to be cautious because, different gals react to a man they like, differently. So my case may not be your case and dun happily take my experiences as your experiences. I hope you see how a gal who likes you makes sure that she gradually shares more and more of her personal issues with you...This i would say is the effort of the gal in trying to make a relationship work...and needless to say,this builds up your trust....Still, practice diligence and as the old saying goes, CAVEAT EMPTOR

[jackbl]

I heard that u also got many stories to tell (if others may not know, but i shd ), why not share with us like what Casannova did? I am sure we will benefit from it as much!!! As the leader of sbf in little hcmc(sgp branch) you must lead by example

Originally Posted by v.killers

Some feeling sounds relatively similar to mine too.... Kudoooss to casannova

Camping here to hear more story !

[Si Geena]

It's also important to manage expectations. Manage your own, and you won't find yourself in an emotional roller coaster, thinking too much. Manage hers, so that you will only be burdened by what you can promise.

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by jackbl

I heard that u also got many stories to tell (if others may not know, but i shd), why not share with us like what Casannova did? I am sure we will benefit from it as much!!! As the leader of sbf in little hcmc(sgp branch) you must lead by example

Hmmm.....First of all, I would like to thank you for shooting this "BIG" Arrow at me Me only a small fly compared to many "lau jiaos and sifus" here!

As my "ENGLISH" is Pte Ltd I think better give it a miss and read other contribution !! ^_^

Sorry TS, for coming into your thread to TCSS

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by v.killers

Sorry TS, for coming into your thread to TCSS

No problem la.....every Tee Bee program also have commercial break ma...hahahaha..

if not my readers see postings after postings of long story, i confirm they 'tau gong gong' one ...hahaha ...and besides all you bro's postings in my thread help me fill up the gap when i not posting ma....so i appreciate it!!!

[CelestialBeing]

wah nice read bro, awaiting your next part of the story.

[Darkstorm]

Waiting for the next part

[casannova03]

Hot Tip from the Missus

Dun have the time to post the next part yet but i was talking with my wife about VN gals last night and she told me one thing....

9 out of 10 gals that come here to work are clever....meaning they know what they want over here ($$)

Only 1 out of 10 is the stupid one who gets cheated by man here...

Analysis= SEE??They have built around their heart, fortresses of defence so that they will not be KC easily...So bros who want to find your way thru these defences have to put in time and effort while at the same time with no guarantee of success...

AND,

If you are married, you are simply asking for trouble...that is you are inviting these gals to use your money...because they know they can never have a truthful and long term relationship with you..so since you are willing to give, ithey are willing to take....dun expect much from this type of relationship...

If you are single, they can still consider if you are the one for her. but their main priority will always come first - $$$. So this is where you have to look out for yourself and judge her words and her actions with you and see if she is for real.. and of course what she REALLY wants....

[xyz1001]

Originally Posted by casannova03

Only 1 out of 10 is the stupid one who gets cheated by man here...

Bro u are being generous. Guess what the stupid one do? She goes to forum.


Dear TS,

I know u are feeling very loved, feel like settling down, and that maybe he is the special one for u. Pls wake up, do not fall into the fantasy dream that u yourself cast on him. He may truly love u becoz u fulfilled his inner-most dream. BUT, one day, he will wake up, is just a matter of time. His frens will try to wake him up, his parents, family members, society... So when reality set in, what do u have left? Is he prepare to walk this dark, long road with u? Sad to say, the chances is really low. Remember Good man dun become cheongster.

KC is customer service. We provide good customer sevice so that they will come back for us. Do not mixed your feelings when working. Period.

Auntie Nicols


And there goes the 1/10...

[v.killers]

Originally Posted by casannova03

No problem la.....every Tee Bee program also have commercial break ma...hahahaha..

if not my readers see postings after postings of long story, i confirm they 'tau gong gong' one ...hahaha ...and besides all you bro's postings in my thread help me fill up the gap when i not posting ma....so i appreciate it!!!

Hahahaha...thank you very much

Keep coming your nice story leh

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by xyz1001

Bro u are being generous. Guess what the stupid one do? She goes to forum.


Dear TS,

I know u are feeling very loved, feel like settling down, and that maybe he is the special one for u. Pls wake up, do not fall into the fantasy dream that u yourself cast on him. He may truly love u becoz u fulfilled his inner-most dream. BUT, one day, he will wake up, is just a matter of time. His frens will try to wake him up, his parents, family members, society... So when reality set in, what do u have left? Is he prepare to walk this dark, long road with u? Sad to say, the chances is really low. Remember Good man dun become cheongster.

KC is customer service. We provide good customer sevice so that they will come back for us. Do not mixed your feelings when working. Period.

Auntie Nicols
And there goes the 1/10...

Bro...i dun understand you lei!!! you trying to tell me something or is this a cut out from some other threads that you trying to show me????

A bit no head no tail lei......

Can any other bros enlighten me on what bro xyz tring to say??

[jackbl]

He said that there no stupid gal.... even there is 1, she will be educated by old bird and then become cleverer...

Originally Posted by casannova03

A bit no head no tail lei......

Can any other bros enlighten me on what bro xyz tring to say??

[ekemono]

Originally Posted by jackbl

He said that there no stupid gal.... even there is 1, she will be educated by old bird and then become cleverer...

Yes. and the message itself also carries a refereshing change, for we have read of our humble local men being hurt by scheming, cold-hearted working gals but the message speaks of that "stupid gal" being hurt by the men instead.

Probably because poking too much public toilet, trash...etc.. blah blah and wat's worst that was mentioned, they became one themselves.