Gals please respond

[nickyboy74]

I think that I am on the same boat with wife that hardly ever wants sex. And if we ever did have any sex, its the same position and pattern.

The problem is not that I do not want to be advertureous but having being with my wife for many years (seven in my case), changing your style may invite more questions.... Quite a catch 22...

So end up, I have a FB who suits my needs better. The sad part is that now I get satisfied eslewhere and she do not seems to have the need, we havent have sex for the past half year. Situation quite unheathlty...

End of the day I felt maybe when we chose our spouse we should have given sexual compatability a much higher weighting rather than like all our cheonger bros here, looking outside eagerly for excitement...

Quite resign to my fate, unless summon up enough courage for the big "D". So TS cheer up, we are in the same boat.

[darylcch]

Originally Posted by nickyboy74

I think that I am on the same boat with wife that hardly ever wants sex. And if we ever did have any sex, its the same position and pattern.

The problem is not that I do not want to be advertureous but having being with my wife for many years (seven in my case), changing your style may invite more questions.... Quite a catch 22...

So end up, I have a FB who suits my needs better. The sad part is that now I get satisfied eslewhere and she do not seems to have the need, we havent have sex for the past half year. Situation quite unheathlty...

End of the day I felt maybe when we chose our spouse we should have given sexual compatability a much higher weighting rather than like all our cheonger bros here, looking outside eagerly for excitement...

Quite resign to my fate, unless summon up enough courage for the big "D". So TS cheer up, we are in the same boat.

At least you have someone to cuddle and release with...i have to do it myself....you are still a bit better than me...

[Athenawishes]

Originally Posted by Robinhood688

I think gals have just as many heads, 奶头，手指头，and without a doubt the clitoris, which is also a head.

That said, gals' heart are "protected" by 2 meat loufs unlike that of guys. It will take more to touch their hearts as compared to guys, therefore the saying that gals are needs to feel love before having sex unlike guys, who are the opp. The truth is that guys too need attachment before having sex. We dun have sex with any Ann, June or April. The particular saying is about relativity, not in absolute terms. : )

Just sharing my view.

LOL.. keke these "heads" u tokin abt..
guys also have leh.. we r in common..
ok la the clitoris is an exception..

but we dun use "our clit overcome our big heads" right??
keke.. usually is the guys using tat statement..
their small head overcome their big head.. the lust tat the small head gets..

hmmm to me.. doubt ALL guys need the same amount of attachment as compared to gals.. guys MIGHT sex wif those Ann, June or April.. provided they have the service tat sextisfy the guys.. in return.. $$ is provided ma..
this also shows y there is an increasing number of pros in GL.. keke.. right?
thus i do agree ur views to an extend..
r u those tat... hmmmm put love first?? keke.. =X

[Robinhood688]

Originally Posted by Athenawishes

LOL.. keke these "heads" u tokin abt..
guys also have leh.. we r in common..
ok la the clitoris is an exception..

but we dun use "our clit overcome our big heads" right??
keke.. usually is the guys using tat statement..
their small head overcome their big head.. the lust tat the small head gets..

hmmm to me.. doubt ALL guys need the same amount of attachment as compared to gals.. guys MIGHT sex wif those Ann, June or April.. provided they have the service tat sextisfy the guys.. in return.. $$ is provided ma..
this also shows y there is an increasing number of pros in GL.. keke.. right?
thus i do agree ur views to an extend..
r u those tat... hmmmm put love first?? keke.. =X

Hahaha, looks like we r going to have a debate between the two of us....

Hmm....I will surely need to feel some form of attachment before going further. A gal could be very good at sex but I will not be able to go further if I dun even haf a slight liking of her (tested and proven).

On the contrary some gals are really those NAB-new age babes, they could really get along with anyone to sextisfied their desire. : )

So which one do you belong to, NAB or otherwise?

[Sting]

I been married for 10 years and with a 9 year old kid.

My wife always reject to have sex. Reason : tired from work. tired from study.

I am also tired. The cooking and washing is done by me. Me also have to bring back $$$.

Sometimes hug her she will just reject.

We had sex on during Satursdys. but not every sat. it can be 2-3 months once.

Sometimes think of it. You don't give me and don't let me eat outside. How can life go on? I always can live without sex with you. That why sometimes I feel guilty for pay and fuck off session.

But me too is also a victim. Before marriage we had wonderful sex life after our child is born, it become a routine job.

I am sick and tired of this kind of marriage life.

[kitten_lucifer]

Hmmm, sex is the thing that keeps me & my bf relationship going strong. Its very important in a relationship.

[BiAndPretty]

Originally Posted by Sting

Sometimes think of it. You don't give me and don't let me eat outside. How can life go on? I always can live without sex with you. That why sometimes I feel guilty for pay and fuck off session.

But me too is also a victim. Before marriage we had wonderful sex life after our child is born, it become a routine job.

Oh please! If you forgotten that marriage is for better or for worse.....then perhaps the failing is also partly yours to shoulder.

When was the last time you set the mood for sex? Wash dishes, bring home $$$, blah blah blah. So, if your wife went out to work and you stay at home to be house daddy, does that mean she can go fuck outside?

If you want to pay for sex, then just do it and shut up. Don't complain. If you think it's wrong, then try to work things out with the wife.

[Robinhood688]

Originally Posted by BiAndPretty

Oh please! If you forgotten that marriage is for better or for worse.....then perhaps the failing is also partly yours to shoulder.

When was the last time you set the mood for sex? Wash dishes, bring home $$$, blah blah blah. So, if your wife went out to work and you stay at home to be house daddy, does that mean she can go fuck outside?

If you want to pay for sex, then just do it and shut up. Don't complain. If you think it's wrong, then try to work things out with the wife.

Well said! I think all if not most guys really want to be faithful. But lots of times we need to feel being reciprocated; of our hardwork and love. What in the world would be better than making two become one? Joint in body and spirit if one is physically able to.

Making love is not just an action to reap sextisfaction, it is also to communicate. We need that very much.

Saying that, we understand this thing about mood creation. We can understand and feel from the opp sex's point of view, our partners should do likewise. Two way traffic - communication......

"Plug in to get connected"

[natsuki]

Originally Posted by darylcch

How many gals here don't like to give sex to their husband/bf?
Is sex really a chore?
What's the thinking?

This is what my wife told me..which I really cannot accept.

Hmmm.... Deicided to drop by this thread cuz find it interesting...
Anyway... I luv my dear dear alot... So, as long as he tell me he wan it, i wun reject... Cuz i luv it too... but of coz, the person must be him.... The moment i think about him, im soooooo sexcited... He gave me the most loved feeling i had ever... Making love with him is different from other man... He treat me so sweet and the loved feeling... It's so hard to come by...

Anyway, sex is not a chore for me... It more lik communication n frequency... Maybe i'm still not married so i dun know... Well, till im married, then i guess i will have a better answer. Take care bros... =)

[Athenawishes]

Originally Posted by Robinhood688

Hahaha, looks like we r going to have a debate between the two of us....

Hmm....I will surely need to feel some form of attachment before going further. A gal could be very good at sex but I will not be able to go further if I dun even haf a slight liking of her (tested and proven).

On the contrary some gals are really those NAB-new age babes, they could really get along with anyone to sextisfied their desire. : )

So which one do you belong to, NAB or otherwise?

keke debate?? no la..
we r here to share our views ma..
den listen to wad views ppl has.. den learn & understand lo..

since urs is proven den i will take into account & keep as reference.. keke..
with that i can understand guys more.. right?
same for you.. hmmm btw wad is "NAB-new age babes"??
those gals tat jus wan sex? any "dick" also dun mind de ah??

keke from my ways of commenting.. which category do u think i should belong?? =X

[Robinhood688]

Originally Posted by Athenawishes

keke debate?? no la..
we r here to share our views ma..
den listen to wad views ppl has.. den learn & understand lo..

since urs is proven den i will take into account & keep as reference.. keke..
with that i can understand guys more.. right?
same for you.. hmmm btw wad is "NAB-new age babes"??
those gals tat jus wan sex? any "dick" also dun mind de ah??

keke from my ways of commenting.. which category do u think i should belong?? =X

Hmmm......not easy to guess. Some gals are really like onions, clothed with so many layers that it is impossible to have any clue what exactly they think at the core. hahaha

But reading through your posts, I think you could be somewhere in between. Someone not allergic to sex, but the caveat is to perform the ritual only with someone who can appreciate you.

[Miracle Bra]

Hi darylcch,

It could be due to hormone changes. The changes can greatly affect a woman physically and mentally.

A few years ago I was like your wife. My sex drive was extremely low. Nothing seems to turn me on and I hardly have the urge for sex. But after some councelling and advice I received, I am back to normal. Now my sexual drive is as high as my hubby.

So be patient to your wife. Talk to her more often and try to understand each others needs. I am sure one day your wife will realize that "Something" is amiss.

[carol888]

think girls, especially after guven birth..no need sex as much as guys do

[EVELEEN]

some girls like lots of hug hug & sweet words

some girls like it rough

some girls like it short and fast

some dun like it at all


hmmmmm......... I wonder which type am i

[too_hot]

Originally Posted by EVELEEN

some girls like lots of hug hug & sweet words

some girls like it rough

some girls like it short and fast

some dun like it at all


hmmmmm......... I wonder which type am i

Let me help u discover