Married but has a new girlfriend

[Xia406]

Originally Posted by WastingTimeHere

Now shit really hit the fan
My gf, She’s pregnant

Both my wife and gf is Vietnamese if any of these matter

I honestly think you are an idiot.

You do not even know what you want in your life and your marriage, and now you have created an innocent life.

Idiocracy has no limits.

Be a responsible man and do the right thing.

[Davidsonsex]

Play is play. The child is innocent. Alamak

[178noobnoob]

I used to have a fling on my previous job. She knew i’m married.
We hang out without my wife knowing. We see each other almost everyday, go work together, go home together, eat together. When she’s on holiday, i will video call her whenever i can. She’s a PRC and her parents thought that i’m her first bf.
Really cherish whenever i can. But good things dont last when we knew we cant be together forever. Seeing each other everyday is also hurting. Decided to leave the company and spend more time with my family.
But till now, i still miss her.
Dont have the courage to drop her a text.
😭

[enzyme]

Originally Posted by 178noobnoob

She’s a PRC and her parents thought that i’m her first bf.

Really cherish whenever i can. But good things dont last when we knew we cant be together forever. Seeing each other everyday is also hurting.

But till now, i still miss her.

Dont have the courage to drop her a text.
😭

Bro I truly feel your statements above.

Same here same here.

[178noobnoob]

Originally Posted by enzyme

Bro I truly feel your statements above.

Same here same here.

Guess quite afew bro here all same same.

[Quanjinjin]

I had a friend same like this. One sg one China. Sg is the first wife. China one no status. He visit the China one twice a year. Surprisingly the China one did not find a new husband (from what I know). This relationship already lasted 15+years

[maleescort7]

A very simple answer:
If you think this new girl is the girl of your heart, tell her you are a married dick but i developed the true feelings towards you (and you are more than my wife for me) and see what she responds. She will either kick your greedy ass or continue to ride on your dick. If she is crazy enough to decide to be a part of your life, file a divorce for your wife and then marry this new girl.
I dont think you should hide it from your wife as well as this new girl if you really has a feeling for this girl. In this way, you infact hurt and cheat both the girls. Your wife dont deserve an asshole if her husband has more feelings for a fresh pussy. Perhaps she will find a gentleman who has a true feelings for her rather than spending a life with a crazy man.

[VDKR]

I have a friend like this and he always share with me. He's married but no kid cos the wife don't want to have kids yet.

He travels to VN frequently for work and he got to know some girls there. He uses a spare android phone to keep their wechat contacts and the wechat app itself has a security pin to launch.

He tells me stuff like

"Met this girl at a bar and to my surprise, she is the bar owner, very chio, we clicked, I bought a few drinks then exchange contact. Next day I went to find her again and brought her back to hotel later in the night. Fucked her 3 times until no more power. She wanted to fuck without protection but I said no cos don't want to accidentally have a baby. "

There are other stories which are similar where his staff will bring him go karaoke and then up same thing. He actually had a few girlfriends and he suspected his wife knew but didn't say anything. His brother-in-law had an affair with a PRC and the wife was pregnant at the time.

My friend's wife said to her brother "If want to play, don't play in the open and get caught". Until now my friend still play with his VN GFs, dating and fucking them but becomes a good husband when he reach home bringing her on dates and buying gifts.

I asked him, what changed? He told me he managed to set aside his feelings for the VN GFs when he is back in Singapore and concentrate on his wife. Because the feelings will be good and high for a while and they will go away eventually.

[Capricorn69]

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My friend's wife said to her brother "If want to play, don't play in the open and get caught". Until now my friend still play with his VN GFs, dating and fucking them but becomes a good husband when he reach home bringing her on dates and buying gifts.
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Well done. That' s how it should be

[Pinkielady]

Originally Posted by Quanjinjin

I had a friend same like this. One sg one China. Sg is the first wife. China one no status. He visit the China one twice a year. Surprisingly the China one did not find a new husband (from what I know). This relationship already lasted 15+years

Visit the China one twice a year !!!???
Do you really think that she do not need a dick to do spring cleaning for her water hole which might get itchy during the 180 days when your friend is not around...!!!????

Last time when I chiong Batam, those Batam kept women of Singapore's man, (their man will visit them on every Friday evening).
These kept ladies, they also Bei Tahan the itchy of their water holes..... every Wednesday ladies night at disco, they will sure flocked to disco to find some Sin Expats who sit inside the Disco waiting to Fish.

Well, I was among those Sin Expats sitting inside the Disco doing Fishing every Wednesday night.... back at those old days....

[bignehneh]

Originally Posted by Pinkielady

Visit the China one twice a year !!!???
Do you really think that she do not need a dick to do spring cleaning for her water hole which might get itchy during the 180 days when your friend is not around...!!!????

Last time when I chiong Batam, those Batam kept women of Singapore's man, (their man will visit them on every Friday evening).
These kept ladies, they also Bei Tahan the itchy of their water holes..... every Wednesday ladies night at disco, they will sure flocked to disco to find some Sin Expats who sit inside the Disco waiting to Fish.

Well, I was among those Sin Expats sitting inside the Disco doing Fishing every Wednesday night.... back at those old days....

The women chio or not? I think depending on the type of women. Some hungry for sex, needs to be fucked Everyday

[happykrabi]

Originally Posted by WastingTimeHere

Hi,

I’m married without kids for close to 3years
Due to work I travel quite abit

I kinda know this new girl
Which connected on almost all level compared to my wife
But having said it’s someone new, the feeling is fresh etc etc

I made the worst mistake by lying to the new girl that I’m not married
And I think she invested feeling into this relationship too

I think I like the new girl too, but it’s too early to tell.

Right now I don’t know what should I do...
I’m planning to keep the new girl and my wife in the dark about each other.

Or is there a better way to handle this situation

*this new girl is 2years younger than my wife ( not sure if this is relevant )

you should confess to your new girl so you could twist the relationship into a no strings attached 1.

[Johnsonviona]

I think you should let go both and start afresh. You are not suited for long term relationship. Pay the damages and work harder in the future.