Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner - Page 471

jackbl · #**7051** 11-04-2010, 02:18 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

why they find someone like me then its worth the trip? Khong hieu..
1) I believe you should saying find someone like VK... the CASH KING.
2) I xao nhieu nhieu...the STOLE HEART KING

Both sentences I agreed!!!

SingViet · #**7052** 11-04-2010, 06:48 PM

in every country, there are both good and bad ladies. Just that many of our fellow singaporean bros got to know their viet gal in pubs, discos and other night spots. These viet gals are normally WL. Not all WL are bad, some are kind hearted and really want to find a good husband to settle down. But often, their family do not let them lead peaceful life, frequently disturbing them and asking them for money and more money. This is also the first why they become WL in the first place, more money earned with little education. Trust is earned, not given. It takes time and lots of incidents to prove one's worth to be trusted. We cannot blame singaporean bros to doubt their viet gf/spouse in the first place, but after time and much incidents, if proven their worth to be trusted, we should trust them. Have good communication with your viet spouse, let them see no need to hide any thing from you, anything can be discussed.

As for bros who have started dating viet WL, don't give trust easily and be careful. But for those who has been with one for a long time and feel your gf can be trusted, give it to them. For those in between, waste no time, if you feel you still cannot trust her after a long time, then let her go. There are pletiful of them out there. We , singaporean man, are still more good natured and often , not smart enough to detect the lies and con job set up. Think with your head, not your dick head. This often helps.

jackbl · #**7053** 11-04-2010, 07:14 PM

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Originally Posted by hottip

I am actually surprised that there are more of them with English language capability in country than at JC. Another observation is that their written English is much better than the spoken language, must be just becos of the confidence levels.

Those who go thru proper learning know how to write well. Those learn from the streets may not know how to write well but speak well.

The same applies to singaporean who write/speak TV.

hottip · #**7054** 11-04-2010, 08:48 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

in every country, there are both good and bad ladies. Just that many of our fellow singaporean bros got to know their viet gal in pubs, discos and other night spots. These viet gals are normally WL. Not all WL are bad, some are kind hearted and really want to find a good husband to settle down. But often, their family do not let them lead peaceful life, frequently disturbing them and asking them for money and more money. This is also the first why they become WL in the first place, more money earned with little education. Trust is earned, not given. It takes time and lots of incidents to prove one's worth to be trusted. We cannot blame singaporean bros to doubt their viet gf/spouse in the first place, but after time and much incidents, if proven their worth to be trusted, we should trust them. Have good communication with your viet spouse, let them see no need to hide any thing from you, anything can be discussed.

As for bros who have started dating viet WL, don't give trust easily and be careful. But for those who has been with one for a long time and feel your gf can be trusted, give it to them. For those in between, waste no time, if you feel you still cannot trust her after a long time, then let her go. There are pletiful of them out there. We , singaporean man, are still more good natured and often , not smart enough to detect the lies and con job set up. Think with your head, not your dick head. This often helps.

True. If u fish in a goldfish tank, u catch goldfish. Thanks for your insights.

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Those who go thru proper learning know how to write well. Those learn from the streets may not know how to write well but speak well.

The same applies to singaporean who write/speak TV.

Agree. My bx's English sms's and emails are very good, but she refused to speak English becos she thinks it is not good enough. She understands me quite well when I speak English, but responses in Mandarin. Our conversations are quite convolutes. Hahaha...

ykhttq · #**7055** 11-04-2010, 11:29 PM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

http://sbf.today/interna...ml#post4732470

Thanks Bro. I knew about the M1 021 and have even approached the staff to enquire more about it. However I'm still tied to my contract with SingTel which is also my company's preferred telco.

I'm using a calling card right now which $10 gives me about 100 mins.

ykhttq · #**7056** 11-04-2010, 11:46 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

in every country, there are both good and bad ladies. We , singaporean man, are still more good natured and often , not smart enough to detect the lies and con job set up. Think with your head, not your dick head. This often helps.

Thank you, Bro SingViet. Since I've met my gf, I've kept reading all the posts in this thread and had finished all of them in about 10 days. Your various posts of advice are indeed very helpful but at times I have to admit that I started to waver and wondered if I've made a wrong move after reading some horror stories. But eventually I came to a conclusion that this is not unique to VBs but to all nationalities as well. One just have to open his eyes big when venturing in the unknown.

Only when I spent more and more time with my gf then I started to build up my trust in her. Of course I try my very best to think with my big head and not my dick head even till the day we got married!

jackbl · #**7057** 12-04-2010, 09:23 AM

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Originally Posted by ykhttq

Thanks Bro. I knew about the M1 021 and have even approached the staff to enquire more about it. However I'm still tied to my contract with SingTel which is also my company's preferred telco.

I'm using a calling card right now which $10 gives me about 100 mins.

"Instead, I bought a M1 pre-paid SIM and top up using the Super $130 value card. The cost is $28 and the value inside are $100 for local call and $30 for international call. I call VN using the 021 service and the charge is $0.16/$0.08 on peak/off-peak. "

SingViet · #**7058** 12-04-2010, 10:21 AM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

"Instead, I bought a M1 pre-paid SIM and top up using the Super $130 value card. The cost is $28 and the value inside are $100 for local call and $30 for international call. I call VN using the 021 service and the charge is $0.16/$0.08 on peak/off-peak. "

The bad point about M1 021 is that during peak hours, it may not be that clear. Sometimes, it may even be difficult to call Vietnam during peak hours, you may need to redial a few times before getting thru. As for those calling SGP from Vietnam, Viettel offers cheap rates. I am not too sure of the rates, but calling from Viettel phone by dialing 0065- is much cheaper than mobiphone of vinaphone. Best of all, its clear too

naemlo · #**7059** 12-04-2010, 10:29 AM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

I am not too sure of the rates, but calling from Viettel phone by dialing 0065- is much cheaper than mobiphone of vinaphone. Best of all, its clear too

I'm using mobi, 1717. quite cheap too. A short conversation less than 1 min is abt 5000VND

Hurricane88 · #**7060** 12-04-2010, 03:10 PM

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Originally Posted by SingViet

The bad point about M1 021 is that during peak hours, it may not be that clear. Sometimes, it may even be difficult to call Vietnam during peak hours, you may need to redial a few times before getting thru. As for those calling SGP from Vietnam, Viettel offers cheap rates. I am not too sure of the rates, but calling from Viettel phone by dialing 0065- is much cheaper than mobiphone of vinaphone. Best of all, its clear too

Mobiphone really sucks now...their lines are over subscribed...sms cannot receive...sucks big time...

dodgyboi69 · #**7061** 12-04-2010, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Dun sms her la. Once a while call her over phone. Her incoming calls are FREE

Tried calling her bro.. But we end up lost in translation.. A lot of long pauses and all.. With out the hand signals and facial expressions, I think smses or emails are the best.. Her written English is better than her spoken English..

KangTuo · #**7062** 12-04-2010, 05:29 PM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

Originally Posted by KangTuo
why they find someone like me then its worth the trip? Khong hieu..
1) I believe you should saying find someone like VK... the CASH KING.
2) I xao nhieu nhieu...the STOLE HEART KING
Both sentences I agreed!!!

why you say me like this... I already had my retribution.
My heart is stolen by Linh. No more interest in KC other new vb at this moment...

1st time do a risky move in hcmc. I give Linh my vn hp number but tell her not to call me. I will call her when 'free'.

1st day she sms "em co the nc voi anh kg"... my galfriend saw this sms. But I just say a guy friend also coming to vn. We always sms in TV.

2nd day, I got chance to sneak out for 3 hours. Sms Linh to check if she returned to HCMC from her province. She did!! So I met up with Linh for 1.5 hours since it take her some times to travel from go vap to Q5.
My galfriend sms me saying that she never xao me anything and hope that I also don't xao her. She ask me to finish dinner and go back home soon.

I think she is suspecting but choose to keep quite after saying only once.

Hurricane88 · #**7063** 12-04-2010, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by KangTuo

why you say me like this... I already had my retribution.
My heart is stolen by Linh. No more interest in KC other new vb at this moment...

Hi bro...you are safely home on the morning Tiger flight...your bx with you too...

ykhttq · #**7064** 12-04-2010, 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by Hurricane88

Mobiphone really sucks now...their lines are over subscribed...sms cannot receive...sucks big time...

Bro, I got the same problem for about 1 month in Feb/Mar this year. I checked with SingTel and they said no problem while my gf checked with Mobi and they too said the same thing.

Worst is my gf got angry with me thinking that I started to take her for granted. I have to explain what I think for more than 1 week till she reluctantly accepted what I said. Problem is she sms my friend no problem while I sms her friend (Vina) also no problem. After that, she go get a Vina line just for communicating with me.

Now, mobi seems to able to receive my sms again on and off.

ykhttq · #**7065** 12-04-2010, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by jackbl

"Instead, I bought a M1 pre-paid SIM and top up using the Super $130 value card. The cost is $28 and the value inside are $100 for local call and $30 for international call. I call VN using the 021 service and the charge is $0.16/$0.08 on peak/off-peak. "

I did think of that but as my current contract with SingTel is quite new and I do not want to carry 2 phones around. Moreover, my boss 'hinted' strongly that he preferred SingTel as he always got problem contacting my colleague who's on M1 in the past. Now he also LL change to SingTel liao.

But I'm looking into that for my gf when she's here so that she can call her friends and families without much problem.