Vietnamisation Program - Page 49

naemlo · #**721** 10-04-2006, 10:41 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Peng You! Dun suddenly come in and jab me leh...tot u overseas working hard?

Just stepped into SG yesterday.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Every case of man and WL is an unique case individually but they just share the very common direction....false illusion of love and heartache in the end.

A lot of guys reason out his ger is special leh. Different from the rest of the WL.

Quote:

Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Find love at these entertainment spots from WL is a mistake right at the beginning.

Not mistake, it is putting your 1 leg into coffin

Osama · #**722** 10-04-2006, 01:41 PM

(It's the "little head" speaking)

Looks like it's time to hear another side of the story??

Bro axcel, think it's kind of obvious the gal the does not truly like you and it's time for you to move on BUT if you want to get into this "game" you must be prepared for this kind of things. What I mean is even if the gal really likes you, she will still be hugging some other guy...going to hotel with some other guy. It's their "job" unless you can afford to pay her the same kind of money, this is something you must be able to accept or else you shouldn't start at all.

Back to main topic, let me start by telling you a little story. There is a guy who went into this relationship with this SG gal for like 5 yrs. The guy was devoted to her, buy her expensive gifts during her birthday, valentine's day, christmas, take her on holidays, wine her...dine her...and in the end. The gal got tired of taking the bus with him and dumped him for a guy who drives a nice BMW. He is a human, of course he will be sad initially but after that, how should he feel?? Should he feel cheated and curse the gal for wasting 5 yrs of his time and money?? Or forget about it and think back on all the nice time he had with the gal for the past 5 yrs??

Someone once said in the chatroom, "there are a lot of bro here who got cheated by WL and got nothing in return". My qns to him was, what are you expecting in return in the first place?? You see, it's up to you whether if you feel cheated or not. e.g you want a cup of coke, you pay $1 expecting to get a cup of coke only to get shortchanged and find the cup is 3/4 filled with ice. Some ppl might argue with the seller...some might just accept the fact that this is how business is done now...

So I want to ask the bros here, when you go into a "relationship" with a WL, what are you expecting in return?? Do you want to get married to her?? Do you want her to love you unconditionally devote herself to you?? Or do you just want something slightly more then what you can get in the KTVs...pubs?? Once you know what you are expecting, then you can decide whether you have been cheated or not. Yes you might not find the special gal, but do you actually need a special gal?? How do you win a man who has nothing to lose??

Now...the controversy. Can "true love" be found in such relationships. When I argue with the bros here over this, it's like me going against Singapore Pools, I'm at a distinct disadvantage because the chances of me losing is VERY high BUT I'm sure somebody does strike 4-D once in while?? So when the bros here keep saying, why get yourself into this kind of things?? Don't be stupid!! Think with your big head!! It's all just a big mistake. It's like telling someone....don't waste your money buying 4D every week, I buy 10 yrs already also never win anything...give me the money better...you will never strike. True enough, but can anyone be sure that he will never strike for the rest of his life??

So what I will say to bros who want to try their luck with WL and 4D is this. You don't want to buy also can...you want to buy I also wouldn't scold you for being stupid. Just do it in moderation and within your limit, don't spend insane amounts just buying 4D, continue working...don't just sit at home everyday pinning all your hopes on 4D cause you might never strike but who knows...you might get lucky 1 of these days. Don't worry, you are not alone and if you are prepared...it's not as bad as you think and I have seen grown men being manipulated in even worse ways around this forum. These kinds of things can happen anytime...anywhere...be it with a PRC...Viet...SG gals WL or no WL.

I know I'm fighting a losing battle here, but I must still say that there are still some humanity left in these gals. NOT ALL OF them are oscar winning actresses who has nothing on their mind except for money. If there was a thread here for these PRC...viet gals to post, you are going to hear a lot of stories of how they were cheated by SG men. How they hope to get a better life by devoting themselves to these men and in the end found out that he is already married with 2 children...that kind of things.

I know...I know...ppl like me should be left to die...should get my head hit by a wall a few times before I learn...I'm blinded by LOVE....thinking with my small head...."no medicine to cure" but we are humans with feelings after all...something feelings are hard to control. Just make sure you grow smarter from every mistake you make and never repeat the same dumb mistake and you will do just fine. Look at what neamlo did??

Anyway there is always more then 1 side to every story. I can't say what the rest said is totally wrong and I hope the rest don't say that about me. We can argue till the end of time and still not come to an agreement. So everybody just take it easy, there are millions of 4D..TOTO bets placed every week but with maybe only 50 winners?? Don't scold the thousands of ppl for being silly...it's up to you whether you want to take the chance or not and if you can afford to lose. Don't worry, you won't die...maybe can lose a bit to a lot of money but IF you learnt a valuable lesson I say you still gain something and is not a total loser. Good luck!! Cause you will be needing lots of it!!

To all the seniors bros...it's no use...remember how our parents used to nag everyday telling us to study hard?? How many of us actually listened?? It's only when we come out...hit the wall...then we will regret for not listening...let's just hope that it's not too late!!

I have said all I have wanted to say. There are sure to be some replies either disagreeing or agreeing to what I have said. I think I would rather not reply anymore as like I said...we can argue forever. So I will let you...the readers be the judge. Thanks for reading and feel free to comment and criticise!!

Don't hate the players!! Hate the game!!!

naemlo · #**723** 10-04-2006, 02:39 PM

Quote: