How to know if she truly loves you or just wants your money

[Dotafan98]

Finding love and happiness is a very complicated subject..for me happiness I can always find from more safe stuff I enjoy doing like travelling, eating good food and playing basketball etc..better not from falling in love with a hooker..anw I feel the gfe are all fake de in commercial sex.. probably just to get u to RTF cos u are not a fk up customer..unless you are already popular among Sg girls and Sg girls always like to flirt with u, it's very hard to believe a wl is truly attracted to u when she gives u gfe..I saw a wl before waving happily goodbye to a customer and the moment she turn away, her face become very black and unhappy..

[Karaja]

Originally Posted by orche

扮猪吃老虎，欢场无真爱！

Next time she is going to tell her home is destroyed by flood or landslide, or her dearest sister lost all her money at Singapore casino, crowd funding from all her loyal patrons😂

Or either she will say in her kampong dog sick from giving birth, cow sick all the typical excuses just to suck your money dry.

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by Dotafan98

Finding love and happiness is a very complicated subject..for me happiness I can always find from more safe stuff I enjoy doing like travelling, eating good food and playing basketball etc..better not from falling in love with a hooker..anw I feel the gfe are all fake de in commercial sex.. probably just to get u to RTF cos u are not a fk up customer..unless you are already popular among Sg girls and Sg girls always like to flirt with u, it's very hard to believe a wl is truly attracted to u when she gives u gfe..I saw a wl before waving happily goodbye to a customer and the moment she turn away, her face become very black and unhappy..

You are totally right.

That is why I say that : It is all about do what that makes us happy.

YOLO. Life is short.

[bullterrier]

Originally Posted by Dignified69

Maybe your love language is different. One of my guy friends told me, his wife hug him, kiss him, he still don't feel horny. He has to think of the nice things she has done for him, then only he is in the mood.

His love language is clearly 'acts of service'.

The 5 love languages book is maybe one of the most important and useful books I have read in my life. Recommend for everyone, to understand ourselves and this who we pursue.

Life - Recommending book on love language in sex forum. But then, sex is the most direct expression of love for many men.

true wisdom. Salute

[Dotafan98]

Ultimately still wiser to go for Sg girl..some will argue that Sg girl are practical and hard to deal with but these wls are even more practical if u think abt it..and these wls may not be the same person u know them as when they servicing you

[WhiteMilk]

I think the covid period really broke us.

Before Covid, and for years spanning from my last teenage years, my whole 20s and to early 30s, GL was the only thin thread separating me from "Managable Life" to "Extremely Depressed and Frustrated I Wanna End My Life".

For all these years, it literally kept me afloat especially after particularly hard days, and at least it also gave me a day to look forward to, especially during my aforementioned late teens years when I was only able to afford to visit GL once a month. That day in each month was pretty much the only thing I looked forward to.

The best years was in my mid 20s when I was able to visit GL at least weekly or even 2-3x weekly when that week was particularly harsh at work and I really badly needed a release to prevent myself from doing "something stupid"

But COVID period destroyed us all, and I guess that's why there's always this thought creeping about "finding love", or "finding an actual girlfriend".

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by WhiteMilk

I think the covid period really broke us.

Before Covid, and for years spanning from my last teenage years, my whole 20s and to early 30s, GL was the only thin thread separating me from "Managable Life" to "Extremely Depressed and Frustrated I Wanna End My Life".

For all these years, it literally kept me afloat especially after particularly hard days, and at least it also gave me a day to look forward to, especially during my aforementioned late teens years when I was only able to afford to visit GL once a month. That day in each month was pretty much the only thing I looked forward to.

The best years was in my mid 20s when I was able to visit GL at least weekly or even 2-3x weekly when that week was particularly harsh at work and I really badly needed a release to prevent myself from doing "something stupid"

But COVID period destroyed us all, and I guess that's why there's always this thought creeping about "finding love", or "finding an actual girlfriend".

Men needs sex to feel love. Period.

That's why you see all the mistresses or whatever all begin with sex mah. You cannot imagine how powerful "giving good sex" does to a man.

The phrase 日久生情 is true especially when comes to good sex.

Many many marriages broke down because of the lack of sex. Most Sporean women are just not brought up put sex as a priority in relationship.

[GLexplorer]

Originally Posted by bradpitt968

Men needs sex to feel love. Period.

That's why you see all the mistresses or whatever all begin with sex mah. You cannot imagine how powerful "giving good sex" does to a man.

The phrase 日久生情 is true especially when comes to good sex.

Many many marriages broke down because of the lack of sex. Most Sporean women are just not brought up put sex as a priority in relationship.

Maslow's hierarchy of needs, lol.. never knew my degree can be put to good use here.

Btw, I don't agree fully, lust is temporary, fades off eventually, 1 week, 1 month or 10 years, it will eventually... That's why even the bust WL u will still rotate after awhile..
Love can exist without lust (maybe not totally without but mediocre lust) as long as other aspects are in-line..

[bradpitt968]

Originally Posted by GLexplorer

Maslow's hierarchy of needs, lol.. never knew my degree can be put to good use here.

Btw, I don't agree fully, lust is temporary, fades off eventually, 1 week, 1 month or 10 years, it will eventually... That's why even the bust WL u will still rotate after awhile..
Love can exist without lust (maybe not totally without but mediocre lust) as long as other aspects are in-line..

Yes. You are right. Lust is temporary. But sexual needs is essential to men. Different men will have different level of sexual appetite tho.

Love can exist without lust - Yes. But if you say "Love can exist without sex" for men, then I would say No.

When men have sex, oxytocin is release in our body which creates bond. Whereas, women have various avenues to get oxytocin. Men doesn't.

[BerryAirlearn]

if they dowan your money they become working girl and suck you off and let you poke for what? love?

[Sabxteur]

Originally Posted by Pussydestroy

I recently met this FL at one of this house. She was amazing and i have been frequenting her for this past 1 week, every time i’m here she is always so happy to see me. She kept asking me if i have enough for myself if i kept coming to her. I couldn’t afford expensive gifts for her so i only bought her favourite soft toy and some snacks. I overnight once with her but the feeling of leaving the next day eats me up so i only choose to spend 1 hour with her and maybe have supper with her after she end work. We went out for a few times together and she always paid for the meals. Told me not to spend so much on her as she is very guilty. She doesn’t know how to repay me. Shares her life stories with me, even though i told her honestly that i cannot provide for her. Idk if this is all just her plot or is she truly in love with me. One thing i made it clear to her is that I’m a poor dude. I cannot provide things she needs. She assured me it’s fine she doesn’t need expensive stuff. Tells me she loves me. So who’s cheating who?

Wow this is literally a recipe for disaster, sound like you got KC-ed real bad.....

[WhiteMilk]

Originally Posted by Sabxteur

Wow this is literally a recipe for disaster, sound like you got KC-ed real bad.....

Personally, throuhgout my active years cheonging, whether in Legal GL scene, FL scenes, or even cheonging overseas, I have never experienced any KC Trap or anything of this sort whatsoever.

At most is, I bonk the gal, then I asked them for their numbers, and they usually gave me their Line/Wechat/Whatsapp (for GL gals), and Instagram (for gals in overseas scenes).

But then usually when I tried to chat them up, usually they just give me sibeh cold treatment then stop replying altogether, and when they do reply they just ask "when u coming again to see me?" type of thing and very straightforward exactly as I typed there.

Overseas is even more weird, like I said they gave me their insta and/or Facebook, then I added them in front of them

then when I got home, when I wanted to check out their profiles, they already blocked me immediately

Not sure why, maybe I am not yandao enough? Or I guess because in my active years, I was on the very young side, so those gals think that I am not rich towkay or anything and thus nothing to squeeze out of me?

But then again once I saw in a GL house, a very young dude just finished his session, then he came out with his gal, and left the joint starting up his maserati parked right outside the house. That gal, followed by other gals in the house all huddled in front of the house window, checking out the car and talking amongst themselves excitedly.

Very funny scene.

[p u r e]

Originally Posted by WhiteMilk

Personally, throuhgout my active years cheonging, whether in Legal GL scene, FL scenes, or even cheonging overseas, I have never experienced any KC Trap or anything of this sort whatsoever.

At most is, I bonk the gal, then I asked them for their numbers, and they usually gave me their Line/Wechat/Whatsapp (for GL gals), and Instagram (for gals in overseas scenes).

But then usually when I tried to chat them up, usually they just give me sibeh cold treatment then stop replying altogether, and when they do reply they just ask "when u coming again to see me?" type of thing and very straightforward exactly as I typed there.

Overseas is even more weird, like I said they gave me their insta and/or Facebook, then I added them in front of them

then when I got home, when I wanted to check out their profiles, they already blocked me immediately

Not sure why, maybe I am not yandao enough? Or I guess because in my active years, I was on the very young side, so those gals think that I am not rich towkay or anything and thus nothing to squeeze out of me?

But then again once I saw in a GL house, a very young dude just finished his session, then he came out with his gal, and left the joint starting up his maserati parked right outside the house. That gal, followed by other gals in the house all huddled in front of the house window, checking out the car and talking amongst themselves excitedly.

Very funny scene.

so rich still come GL.

if i were that rich i would go FL all the way or have a bunch of regular fuck buddies.

[Lawrencegan]

Originally Posted by p u r e

so rich still come GL.

if i were that rich i would go FL all the way or have a bunch of regular fuck buddies.

To each his own. I can easily do dome 3 fl everyday but I still do dome1 and even go down to geylang cat 50 at times. Variety…

[iicecube]

Originally Posted by Pussydestroy

I recently met this FL at one of this house.

First you already using money for exchange of "F" that mean nothing to do with love, if your wallet is big enough than maybe a better service from her the most. After you leave the session she will service next bros and this dont define as love.
Citizenship scam is very common so you gap you wanna be poor or F like a happy man your choice.