PRC asked me to marry her...Yes or no???

[BKnight]

Originally Posted by jchongking
Wait till u hear my story - 4 jude girls from Zhuhai calling me non-stop begging me to marry them! Can u answer my big Q? Guess price Singaporeans have to pay for being kind, generous and gentleman!

Originally Posted by HCKing

read yr story in other section b4 abt yr merlion keychain, tshirt and handphone gifts to yr zhuhai girls while they cheer and scream head over toe at u whenever they spot u in zhuhai. gotta thank u 4 sharing yr story cos it proves to be a superb joke to use whenever i run out of humour entertaining ppl out there.

Bro jchongking - aiyo, I tot guessed what price! so its 4 merlion keychains, 4 tshirts and 4 handphones? I am not the least surprise that they scream head over toe whenever they see you la, did they also throw their shoes at you ? Dont be offended by their action. It is customary for us, chinese to return gifts - 4 pairs of shoes....HAHAHA....

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by BKnight

Bro jchongking - aiyo, I tot guessed what price! so its 4 merlion keychains, 4 tshirts and 4 handphones? I am not the least surprise that they scream head over toe whenever they see you la, did they also throw their shoes at you ? Dont be offended by their action. It is customary for us, chinese to return gifts - 4 pairs of shoes....HAHAHA....

er, u mean like this?

http://sbf.today/adult-d...ml#post3365809

[BKnight]

Originally Posted by HCKing

er, u mean like this?

http://sbf.today/adult-d...ml#post3365809

Hahaha..that was good. Great minds indeed!

[snakehead]

never ever marry a prc !!!

[colins]

Originally Posted by jchongking

Wait till u hear my story - 4 jude girls from Zhuhai calling me non-stop begging me to marry them!
Can u answer my big Q? Guess price Singaporeans have to pay for being kind, generous and gentleman!

Oh thanks for reminding me, I almost forgot to zap you.

Dun know why 4 jude girls wanna beg you non-stop, if that really is your big Q, it doesn't matter anyway. All I wonder about is why you need to beg everybody for attention, that's my small Q.

[jaynick]

Bro, don't be stupid lah. They usually are after two things. One is money and another is PR.
So if you don't have money and is married, you think they will be interested in you?

[voydoy]

Haha .. so much for all this shit... i did rather spend my time and money to go after a local babe den a prc ... They always have something in their mind ... THEIR HOMETOWN .... the china ppl always think very highly of their own hometowns and provinces or cities. ppl from south side don`t like ppl from north side... these what i heard from my china pals in my school last time..

[Torch_Man]

whoever our life partner may b.
its important 2 meet, know, converse, understand, discuss his or her family members/relatives cultures & backgrounds......

not includin countries' legal matters (citizenship or watever it mayb), it would b better usin our EQ rather our heart...... cos eventually he or she will bcum our life partner (LOVE or passion cannot last 4ever)

jz sharin

[lblittlebear]

I agree that not all hookers are bad, but the chances of you meeting one is 10x harder than striking TOTO 10 times

True, some PRCs may say they don't want your money if you marry them. But many of them shown the fox tail after marriage

Also, think of the legal implication - the moment you married her, as your legal wife, she is entitled to at least 50% of all your CPF money + HDB flat etc etc

Something similar happened to my late friend. Before marriage, his story is almost as yours. After marriage, it's quarrels over money everyday

After his death, because my friend did not make a new nomination, his PRC wife got the bulk of his CPF money. His parents and kids from the previous marriage, all add up, also not as much as the PRC wife.

Still not the worse, the wife insisted on selling the HDB flats and kicked out his kids and parents from the house.

And legally, the whole family cannot do anything as she is the LEGAL wife.

My advice to you - just remain as boyfriend to her unless you're 100% sure of her love or you do not have any parents, kids etc such that all your CPF money will go back to Government in case anything happen to you.

[lblittlebear]

OK, 3 tricks for her to leave u peacefully

(1) Pretend to be broke - let her foot the bill each time - condo + hotel

(2) Pretend to be impotent

(3) Introduce her to someone who is much richer than you ....

Originally Posted by Titleist

Many thanks to all bros here giving sound advice...Seems like most of the votes casted are "NO"...I am not against PRCs but the impression and image that they have projected here (be it man or woman...holding decent or indecent jobs) are really bad for themselves...They hanker after small petty gains, sometimes really beat us handsdown in terms of kiasuism...For instance, I was with another WL in supermarket buying grocery...She would choose pepper chilli and pluck off all the stems...I know that she is trying to save money by cutting down on the weight of those unwanted parts but imagine by plucking off 3-5 stems, how much can you save??? Not even local kiasu aunties would do that in supermarket...Only they are capable of such tricks...

Basically, I know that I have no intention of marrying a WL as I cannot accept their past...Not many guys would be able to accept that a wife has been laid, bonk and suck many different dicks in her life...In fact, I did actually scolded her for being such a loose woman...There is a time when I asked her if she did reach orgasm during sex with bros here and she said yes, at times when she feels horny...I told her that you are not even fit to be a whore...If she feel disgusted, at least there is still hope for her but to reach orgasm just by being f**k by strangers??? So I told her that you are destined to be a whore in your life as you seemed to enjoy your job very much...My intention is to make her angry with me and leave me on her own accord...

But no, she replied that I make her see what she was previously and she is ashamed and disgusted with herself...All she wants now is to settle down quietly here and be a home-maker...Looking after my needs, bore me children, blah blah blah...She may have really fallen for me but all along I am just toying with her feelings...Would any guys here volunteer to wash and clean a public toilet after you had use it??? I believe the answer is no...

My fear and concern is that if I were to reject her, she might do things to damage my reputation or hurt herself physically...She has a past record of committing suicide over her past PRC bf (she showed me the scar on her wrist)...She said that she cannot accept me leaving her...It is as good as ending her life...What should I do to make her leave for in a amicable manner? Something like a golden handshake? I had once tried to offer her a sum of money to leave me but she just stare at me hard and later breakdown and cry...She said that she will not be taking my money but if she really commits suicide, she would make sure that I would feel remorseful for the rest of my life...

Any advice from bros here???

[FromBoy2Man]

Originally Posted by Titleist

So should I marry her? If not, how to avoid her without getting too nasty or out of hand? Awaiting for bros advice here...

Now you already know that she is a whore but wait how about if you don't know that she is a whore? Will you still marry her?

Nowadays in a relationship, there comes sex. A whore is getting paid to do the job but a girlfriend doing out of love or sometimes needs/lust. What is the different between them, I see no different. So if one is mind about her profession then how about the girlfriends who had done it with her previous let's say 20 over boyfriends or maybe 3 boyfriends? Doing it in whatever reason is still doing it, the final product will be the release of sperm. See the recent hk actress cases, if no photo taken, nobody knows but what's the different, man will still married them without knowing what's their past and moverover it is their past. There is no different by doing it when during a r/s or before the r/s, it is still called fucking. Whore also the same, it is their past. Marriage is about getting the correct partner to reach another stage in life be it rich or be it poor. More important is the urge to be in love and get enough of each other as days goes by. So what is the meaning of happy marriage, see some appear to be happy, but there lies the cheating/take things for granted/restricted/lost of freedom/cannot confide in each other and when things happens, it explode and divorce. But one things is loving someone is to let go and lt them fly high. Threaten to die or something worst makes no purpose.

[Gaofar]

Hmm... I'll like to add "some" words from me as I've been through such issues and lived through it and thus as from a 过来人's point of view.

I've followed the pages patiently and have gathered enough thoughts for TS. Let me make clear that the following things I'm going to talk about are purely based on my experience and my thoughts.

For you to say that PRC whores are like public toilets are uncalled for. That's the first cut from me. No humans ought to be called that generally as it's really typecasting and words of provoking humiliation. Yes, I've seen my fair share of PRCs prostitutes who are really "out there" to earn money shamelessly (that's the strongest word I'll use for these type of girls) as they really just like to get quick-cash (or quick bucks if you would) and they are really willing to let go of their self-esteem / pride (whichever you call it) and dive straight down into this oldest profession in the world. You can call or threaten to call AV and they will still wanna dive right back in if they can come back through any means possible... Still, there's no need to call them names as it's rather demeaning. And the use of comparison of items to them is frustrating, what usage like public toilet, everyone use, will you clean it, stuff like that is pointless and looking from afar, is very irritating.

On issue of whether should you marry her or not, which you've already answered, but for the sake of debating on the point (for fun...) and also to tell-off those newbies whom I've seems to see that their immediate answer is not to marry (however shallow their arguments might be), let me propose you a situation instead (actually already kenna said by bro FromBoy2Man but I feel can be re-emphasied. Sorry har bro! ): You mention that should you know a girl that is involved in this trade, becomes attached to you, wanted to be your wife and since you know of her past, you relegate her to as a toilet bowl. All's fine until if let's say you found another girl through "normal" channel (by means normal don't need me to explain right?.. Also TS I take it you don't have a steady girlfriend or wife thingy right?...), this time you love her and you court her. You guys spend years together happily and decided to tie the knot. On the day of wedding however, a couple of guys came up and confess that they still love your would-be wife and how they enjoy together "way past the time before yours did". Thus sort of "cat-out-of-the-bag stuff" happened.

Now tell me, based on above situation, if you have already loved the woman and you knew she loved you truthfully and sincerely for the past times ever since you knew each other, are you still going for the "public-toilet-stunt" and dis-acknowledge her since you seems to stand-by the principle of "anyone open legs is toilet bowls stuff like that"? You mean to say your time, feelings, efforts will, no doubt, go to waste just based on your principle? Are you someone so shallow as to that "if I know her past I'll condemn her, if I don't know her past, all's well that ends well?" Who are you kidding with? I for one, don't think you'll give up this "fictitious woman" so easily when you are facing this particular scenario... The morale of the story is this: The past, however dark it may seems, is history. What's more important is how's the current stand, feeling and commitment to each other. Quality love always precedes anything else.

As for issue on how to break up with your "bundle-of-trouble", I've seriously have no say on it as it's really your own personal matters on how you are going to resolve it personally. As what bro DO_YOU_BJ says, just take the roller-coaster ride and enjoys it until it derails, subsequently submit report to us once you are back and alive that is...

[colins]

Actually bro Gaofar, I agree with you in the usage of the 'toilet bowl' or public toilet with respect to WL/FL. To me, naming a person that way is pass my bottomline. But to name a group of people, of cos in generalisation we address the profession instead of a single girl, is only slightly better. It is similar to addressing vietnamese WL as dogs, at times I feel it is quite silly to say those people are dogs and toilet bowls while many of us still run for it. It brings to a point where I feel that anybody not getting enough of it is more likely to call it names (not trying to point to any bros here), like sour grapes. And of cos, when used in context, like calling names in front of people who absolutely must love them and in return getting hurt by them, has a purpose of bringing them out of their cloudiness and ultimately out of their misery.

So I guess such words has it own context, some really uncomfortable, some can marginally accept.

I say the above, is in a way addressing the same issue as to how we connect to WL/FL. Taking the words off, leaving behind the definition, what does 'public toilet' mean? Are we degrading them or ourselves? Are we degrading the profession or the person we unwittingly love?

[Decent Looking]

Originally Posted by Titleist

no go, no matter how regular you are to her.

Recently, she told me that she wants to marry me and will quit this line for good...I told her bluntly that I will not support her financially and she said that since when did she ever talk to me about money? If money is all she wants, she would have gotten it easily from other guys. I believe this is true as I have seen with my own eyes that some guys are willing to "lend" her 2k as she had no money during the initial period to pay her agent...What she is asking for is that I remain sincere and faithful to her and to marry her and to start a family.

Based on my story, do you think she is true to me, or she is trying to KC me so that she can get married to me and gain PR status? Awaiting for bros sound and logical advice. By the way, I don't spent much on her except budget gifts and simple meals. My most exp gift is a hp that cost $100+ and I only buy her gifts occassionally whenever I feel like it. All her things are given to her by other guys.

So should I marry her? If not, how to avoid her without getting too nasty or out of hand? Awaiting for bros advice here...

Hi Bro:

My 2 cents worth. You test her now.

1. Help her quit this line NOW. Find her a job, get work permit.

2. Then help her get PR, after get the necessary qualifications.

3. Get her to sign pre-nuptial agreements.

If she agree to ALL 3, after 2 - 3 years, then this gal is worth you to marry.
Chinese Saying... Ri Jiu Jian Ren Xing...

[Gaofar]

Yo bro colins,

As for the coining of the words used on prostitutes, even if it's used on a generalisation basis, it's still not right to use it ever so direct and matter-of-factly, however jokingly you might want to refer to as... Still if needed to use the words as in to "wake" some one up then of course will have it's merits in it, but in TS sense of usage, it's anything but being put to correct usage...

Toilet bowl should just be a toilet bowl lah, no other hidden meaning behind it... And there's no need to use it to degrade anything else, unless you want to specifically...

Bro Decent Looking, even if anyone did the 3 things you mentioned (or more probably), it still does not guarantees you that she's the one for you 'cause the goals you set are tangible stuff, and to really test if she's the one for you, you got to have intangible goals for her to see if she dares to take: you have bills that needs to pay, get her to pay for you; willing to take you see her parents in her home village; she's willing to quit the trade and you escort her to police to surrender (if she's an over-stayer)...