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#61
23-07-2009, 04:30 PM
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never in her book.... she is thinking she is doing everything right and i am not... thats why she always ended our discussion as; my whole brain only think about sex and i may be a pervert 
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#62
23-07-2009, 04:33 PM
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do we have the wait till she say ok..lets have sex....even though we are not in the mood..we have to do it since we have been thirsty for so many months...then the whole session becomes monotonous... blame us?...
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#63
23-07-2009, 04:35 PM
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since you are in this thread, please dont treat your husband like what we have been treated next time... even though you may think it is ok...deep in our guys heart..it is like millions knife poking in us..
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#64
23-07-2009, 04:40 PM
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sometimes..when i successfully closed a deal in my work or did something i felt proud of, i have the urge to get close to my wife...to hug her..to kiss her..to have sex with her... but whenever i tried to do it...she will say i am crazy.... and the whole mood dies off... so next time, please please take care of your hubby feeling ..we guys have feeling too..
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#65
23-07-2009, 04:44 PM
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after that...still reduce further... *shake head* and we poor guys need to be loyal and cannot think otherwise....
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#66
23-07-2009, 08:17 PM
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Take care kkz? =)
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#67
23-07-2009, 08:49 PM
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I understand what ur going through bro, sometimes with work btw both of us are working and with 2 young kids, 3yrs old and 1.5 yrs old, at the end of the day, it could be quite tiring.
Me being me after 8 years of marriage, my wife ask me why my sex drive still so high and i told her that u knew it the day u married me  There were instances where after the 2nd child, she was afraid that she would get pregnant again, after all my 2nd kid was an accident but we still luv her just as much. I will always assure her that i ain't gonna repeat history  Nowadays, we still have sex but sometimes about 2 - 3 times a month, not that often but better than nothing. She would always comment that she lost her figure after the 2nd pregnancy and i would always assure he by saying, regardless of what, " She'll always be the Woman i Married and the Mother of my Children ". U'll be surprised after saying that, sometimes i get lucky sometimes during the day, i just SMS her " Wanna ML 2nite " and sometimes i get a Positive answer 
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#68
24-07-2009, 06:35 PM
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Think we should just put away our vacuum cleaner, office problem, work stress, cooking and dish washing because such items are simply litter along the road to Great Sex and start communicating more with our partner, getting to know the anatomy of each other.
We must make sex exceptional, rather than merely functional. We must be fully and completely present during sexual experiences and be fully alive in one’s skin, engaging with our partner — Emotionally, Intellectually, Physically, Spiritually — In The Moment. We are not a person in a situation. We are it. We are the situation. We are the moment!
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26-07-2009, 01:45 PM
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26-07-2009, 06:04 PM
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interesting thread, soorry to TS im a guy hehe...but i do have some input to his concern ,like the saying man r frm mars, women frm venus....so true...there may be 1001 reasons for the lack of love making....but i noticed u said she even shrugs when u tried to hug her??? now dat is very wrong.....frm what i knw, no women turns away a hug, esp frm her loved ones. at the end of a hard n hectic working day, taking care of the kids etc.....a hug is most welcomed, i guess that applies for both men n women. i guess u just have to probe a little further..cos it seems to me she might be unhappy abt smthing, u knw women can be unhappy and not say it out...u'll be surprised how long they can keep mum...expecting u to find out. but instead of keep asking n probing, the 1 simple rule to make ur wife happy (and thus rewarding urself as well) is to love her unconditionally n truly ( and dat doesnt mean helping to do chores everyday) dats not loving her...in fact u might present urself as boring.....and the last thing u need in a marriage, esp after a few yrs with a few kids in tow, is mundane n same day to day routine.
lastly, u might wana surprise her with a weekend getaway, be spontaneous, give her a call during lunch time n say ...i miss u, pick her up frm her office without telling her...when u c her, tell her i cant wait to c u dats y im here....haha...anway just my 2 cents ya, hope u get a good bonk soon! (frm ur wife, not FLs ya!)
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#71
26-07-2009, 06:20 PM
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TS,
I know your problem, but I do not know about your wife background and perspective about marriage life and also about sexlife as a couple. On a general surface, I am sharing my to you. I will not go into much details but its the same as what you are facing too. I purposely did not even mentioned about making love(Sex), with her for about 1.5 year. Of course we still hugz, kiss and go out as lovey dovey. Instead of U trying to change it, why not make this time to rest and educate her about sexlife and what is sex and how to enjoy it and so on. I dare not say，I am at its best, but sure did better. after that 18months, we start to make it like the virgin hour again and also not that frequent, then being woman she also have her need, at time physical, at time to release stress from work, or house-chores and so on. I can only said that nowsday, when I am so tired and get my rest in bed. I was being rape.  but when I need it, she will just sleep  so I played the game, she want it and I just unplunge and starve her lol. hehe This is to say we must both mutually help to sextisfy. That all, pen-off here. Take care and whatever help, no harm trying. Method of approach is you figure out, read more, discuss more and so and on
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#73
27-07-2009, 11:24 AM
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Instead of asking why in this forum, have a good talk with her. Start off not about sex but rather how to find the old fire during the early days of marriage. I have two kids, my wife love me to hug her everyday even if it is just for few seconds. Sometimes sex follows, sometimes not. We love each other more than before. Some tips from my experience : - always tell her how beautiful she is especially like her eyes, lips, etc - show concern about her work or when she seems moody. - bring out the marriage photos and go through with her. - have short vacation. Either your wife is going through a rough patch without telling you (including hormonal changes which she may need go see a doc) or she has someone else outside. My 2-cents.
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#74
27-07-2009, 12:18 PM
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a pat on the back for u.. bro cheerz
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My First bonk in sbf - Dan Dan by Bro liquidacid The bonk tat lead mi to my chiong bubby-YF Aka BIngBIng My First love to a FL- Lele The Best Bonk Till date in my Life NaNa -DCH
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#75
23-12-2009, 03:33 PM
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I donno about you..
but all the FB i have is either :- 1) Doing it with hubby/bf very boring - same style same position no chemistry anymore 2) Very infrequent love-making with hubby/bf (like once every 2 months..etc) 3) Only have one hubby/bf and never have sex with another guy So for 1) they used me to sextisfy their fantasy 2) they used me to sextisfy their desire 3) they used me to sextisfy their curiousity For 1), they go back to their hubby/bf will avoid having sex with them.. coz their body now pwned by me.. that's what they say..
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