Sexless Marriage...

[MMM88]

not surprising .....sexless marriage will lead to divorce......
8 years ago ....i know of 6 happily married couples (including me lah).....now only 2 couples remains (including me lah).......
Man....wtf is tis world becuming ???

[Assworshipper]

Since so many wives here started not having sex after giving birth, it makes me wonder whether is it a physical problem where their hormones begin to change or a psychological one where they just feel that they are a mother now so they must be pure and chaste???

[Castrol]

Originally Posted by sugardad

I am somewhat consider not too bad. Own business, with OK income, a semi-D house, got maids, 3 cars and two shop to collect rental. .

wow bro... this is "not too bad" only ah?

[sugardad]

Well if its converted in SG$, then the income is just above average. Maybe only can afford a apt and may two smaller car lo. Anyway thats not the point.

Was talking to my Girlfriend abt it.... Not Grilfriend type of girlfriend but A close friend that happen to be a female..... Kinda difficult to explain the sexless part...... but she was suprise when I said this had been going on for a few years but later understand why there were different chicks all the time.

Well guys, I lose sex with wife but gain a hell lots of freedom. Maybe my girlfriend was right, If wife doesn't know that I am flirting around, its OK.

Currently , wife is making lots of woo-Ha over me meeting my ex-gal for lunch . At least there is a new excuse for wife to go another 3 months without sex n am sick n tired over the same excuse she was making. For your info, I met up with my ex-gal cos she was wondering whether or not to send me a pink bomb for her wedding. Guess what, I am not going to tell my wife abt it.

Sian la, maybe go and wack some golf balls later.

Cheers.

[KingBong]

Curious to know, why does she want to remain celibate??
Biological or emotional reasons?

Originally Posted by sugardad

Well... , I so damn happy that I now realised that my wife is not the special one. Ok, let me put it this way.

This is what is wrong. I am lucky if I hav it from her 12times a year!!!!!

A little background will help you guys to figure out whats wrong.
...

[game10199]

Originally Posted by sugardad

Currently , wife is making lots of woo-Ha over me meeting my ex-gal for lunch .
Sian la, maybe go and wack some golf balls later.

Cheers.

bro sugardad,

*clap, clap clap*

Woman dam good at giving excuse for don't want sex!

And I agree - best solution: hit the range and prepare to earn some money in the next 18 holes.

best regards,
game10199

[InnocentBaby]

Hmmm... I'm not sure am i suppose to be respone about this threat. Just try to talk about wats my opinion about 'Sexless Marriage'. Besides, I'm still single here.
Well... Sometime, i do admit bout myself really desperate for an 'indulgence' from a guy. Most of my friend thinks i'm really tat desperate for a bf. (Yeah i do need a BF pls!!) But when things come to the sex part, seriously have to say tat I need someone who can satisfy me well to be my future hubby. Hahaha... I know its sounds kinky, or mayb it sounds really 'bitchy'. I'm not a FL here neither not a One-Nighter. I'm open minded enuff to talk about anything (in the other way, we call tat 'ke-poh' in everything! haha) but open minded doesnt mean we are 24hours free for sex rite? (Atleast tats wat i think about myself)
I can be very really innocent n sincere to a guy, when i really fall to tat someone. But when if i found tat he cant satisfy me... awh god, i cant stand to be pretending to say 'please... do it slowly, i'm still new...' when i'm on the bed.. I know there is still 'some' gals who wanna keep thier virginity for thier 1 n only future hubby. Well, tats wat make thm think thier hubby are the 'ONLY ONE' (if tat is a Happy Family) But i guess tis kind of 'species' had left not much. Dude, I dun think guys now days prefer to have tis kind of 'species' too either, dont u think so?
Wat i try to say is... Yeah, i know some guy do mind about how many man thier future wife had sex with, even women do mind about the same thing too. But how if the 'wifey' tat you had married, are experience enuff to satisfy u, wondering tat how 'wonderfull tis family are' < dont u think so? haha...
Tats how the 'Sexless Marriage' happen when you found the 'wifey' aint satisfying u. *headache*

[last_mohican]

Originally Posted by InnocentBaby

Hmmm... I'm not sure am i suppose to be respone about this threat. Just try to talk about wats my opinion about 'Sexless Marriage'. Besides, I'm still single here.
Well... Sometime, i do admit bout myself really desperate for an 'indulgence' from a guy. Most of my friend thinks i'm really tat desperate for a bf. (Yeah i do need a BF pls!!) But when things come to the sex part, seriously have to say tat I need someone who can satisfy me well to be my future hubby. Hahaha... I know its sounds kinky, or mayb it sounds really 'bitchy'. I'm not a FL here neither not a One-Nighter. I'm open minded enuff to talk about anything (in the other way, we call tat 'ke-poh' in everything! haha) but open minded doesnt mean we are 24hours free for sex rite? (Atleast tats wat i think about myself)
I can be very really innocent n sincere to a guy, when i really fall to tat someone. But when if i found tat he cant satisfy me... awh god, i cant stand to be pretending to say 'please... do it slowly, i'm still new...' when i'm on the bed.. I know there is still 'some' gals who wanna keep thier virginity for thier 1 n only future hubby. Well, tats wat make thm think thier hubby are the 'ONLY ONE' (if tat is a Happy Family) But i guess tis kind of 'species' had left not much. Dude, I dun think guys now days prefer to have tis kind of 'species' too either, dont u think so?
Wat i try to say is... Yeah, i know some guy do mind about how many man thier future wife had sex with, even women do mind about the same thing too. But how if the 'wifey' tat you had married, are experience enuff to satisfy u, wondering tat how 'wonderfull tis family are' < dont u think so? haha...
Tats how the 'Sexless Marriage' happen when you found the 'wifey' aint satisfying u. *headache*

Wait till ur married babe... you will undergo a huge tranformation that totally beyond belief...you might not agree with me now b'cos you are young,attractive and sexually healthy but there will come a time that you will be a mother and SEX is totally not a priorty...I share Gent predicament..my words of advice to gent is to hang in there my dear Brader, cause 'patient pays'... "the first six years is the real test for all newlyweds" if you could overcome that hurdle i can assure you that overthing will be ok.
COMMUNICATION is the golden key brader Gent

[Oakley76]

COMMUNICATION is the golden key brader Gent[/QUOTE]

yo bro.. many have told me that communication is the golden key. I tried. And tried and tried so many times. Smooth talk, diplomatic talk and whatsoever. When things go wrong, I tried letting her understand the bigger picture. But dunno why, eversince we are married, there are no grounds for compromise. Will be accused of yelliing if talked a lil louder. As man, have to always mantain the nice smooth tone. Tone not right also kanna bombard. Then she will skip whatever we were discussing and said no mood to talk. Whenever she has an agenda to discuss, ah... she will show "black" face for few days first. Then start the usual unhappy, angry tone. Guess wat? I am supposed to go thru all that and answer all her queries... Sigh... understood from my buddies that women changes after marriage. You have such problems too?

[last_mohican]

Originally Posted by Oakley76

COMMUNICATION is the golden key brader Gent

yo bro.. many have told me that communication is the golden key. I tried. And tried and tried so many times. Smooth talk, diplomatic talk and whatsoever. When things go wrong, I tried letting her understand the bigger picture. But dunno why, eversince we are married, there are no grounds for compromise. Will be accused of yelliing if talked a lil louder. As man, have to always mantain the nice smooth tone. Tone not right also kanna bombard. Then she will skip whatever we were discussing and said no mood to talk. Whenever she has an agenda to discuss, ah... she will show "black" face for few days first. Then start the usual unhappy, angry tone. Guess wat? I am supposed to go thru all that and answer all her queries... Sigh... understood from my buddies that women changes after marriage. You have such problems too?[/QUOTE]

Ditto bradder ...but i'm on my 8th year running and we r much better now..well after counselling with a marriage counsellor...Women r such a DRAG after marriage...NO Woman No Cry!!!No Chee By I DIE!!!....ha ha

[emperor]

Originally Posted by sugardad

Well if its converted in SG$, then the income is just above average. Maybe only can afford a apt and may two smaller car lo. Anyway thats not the point.

Was talking to my Girlfriend abt it.... Not Grilfriend type of girlfriend but A close friend that happen to be a female..... Kinda difficult to explain the sexless part...... but she was suprise when I said this had been going on for a few years but later understand why there were different chicks all the time.

Well guys, I lose sex with wife but gain a hell lots of freedom. Maybe my girlfriend was right, If wife doesn't know that I am flirting around, its OK.

Currently , wife is making lots of woo-Ha over me meeting my ex-gal for lunch . At least there is a new excuse for wife to go another 3 months without sex n am sick n tired over the same excuse she was making. For your info, I met up with my ex-gal cos she was wondering whether or not to send me a pink bomb for her wedding. Guess what, I am not going to tell my wife abt it.

Sian la, maybe go and wack some golf balls later.

Cheers.

Please see a good lawyer immediately. She's setting the stage for her hidden agenda.

Women typically love to operate this way - look for a catalyst to start a chain-reaction of events that will justify a course of action. A course of action she's always wanted to take but doing it this long winded way makes her look like the "victim" and you "the evil one".

Despite your "eating out", you're hell of a lot more straight and sincere than her. Protect yourself now! Start renaming/transfering assets and open offshore accounts for your money.

[sugardad]

Dear Emperor,

Believe me, thats a bad call, my wife are entitle to what I hav earn but these ground are covered. I not too worried abt that as she knew very well that if I am brought down she goes down as well.

Hidden agenda?? That can only happen if her whole family plus my own mother conspire against me. Possibibility ? yes but extremly unlikly.

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by sugardad

Hidden agenda?? That can only happen if her whole family plus my own mother conspire against me. Possibibility ? yes but extremly unlikly.

Well my mum hinted to my ex rsm that i "curi makan" outside, cos she does all my washing and there were a few ocassions when I had used my hanky to wipe my mouth after I "curi makan" but still slight traces of lip stick...but i guess she did it with good intentions as she didn't want to see our marriage breaking down and was hoping my ex rsm could salvage the situation before it got worse...

that why nowadays no more hankys for me only tissue paper...hehehe also good for wiping off sperm after cumming...

[wanker10]

Hi Bro,

Funny though, over here, we are all upset about sexless marriage but in China, as reported in today The New Paper, there are these agencies promoting sexless marriage & the response are quite good.

What has the world become???

[heatingup]

Gent & fellow bros in same shit,

1 more sorry plight.... sex LESS, then sexless marriage

I am married for 4 years, with a 1.5 year old kid.
For the first 3-4 months after our customary wedding and first penetration, we had sex 3 times a week. Then the frequency dropped to twice a week, sometimes every 4 days. My wife complained abt her work stress, long OT hours, tiredness, and housework and had little energy for sex. Sometimes an argument would lead to a cold war and a no-sex week.

My wife insisted sex must be on Fridays or Saturdays & must be before 11pm so that she won't be so tired the next day. Sex on Sundays is a no no. So sex became a weekly and weekend routine. I had been rejected many times because I crossed the timeline.

My wife had a miscarriage, followed by sex phobia. So no sex for next few months. Then we tried for baby again. There were spotting so gynae checked and told us we could not have sex during her pregnancy. For the sake of our baby, we had to endure. I didn't want her to BJ me for fear my semen would go into the baby (just in case). So most of the time I DIYed for she was too tired to give me handjobs.

In the first 3 months after our baby was born, we couldn't do it because of her wound and didn't do so due to tiredness of looking after our new-born.

I thought our sex life will slowly revert back to at least once a week now that my child is 1 year old. Guess what? My baby wants to sleep in between us. She needs that sense of security to fall asleep.

Next, other work & family troubles deplete my wife's energy everyday. So sex becomes a festive-it exists but seldom happen.

I desire sex 3 times a week, and I know I need it 2 times a week (to clear my water-tank). We only do it once a fortnight, and that it NOT the worst.

The lack of sex has caused a significant drop in my sex stamina. I don't last as long as before anymore and turned from an average to a fast shooter!!! Sometimes even less than 2 mins of penetration. That's the beginning of a man's nightmare. This problem persists & I mentioned my problem to her after putting up with it for quite sometime. She took my serious problem lightly and said, "No choice what!"

Sexperts recommend 'Practice makes perfect' but how about not having the chance to practice in the first place? My TCM doc recommended doing the seond round after a 1-2 hour interval and don't fall asleep during the break. He said the duration of the second round can be very longer. I told him, I didn't even have the chance to do the first round, how to do the second round?

Right now, no sex, no BJ. I DIY twice a week to clear my tank. Even during DIYs, i either come fast or my dick is only semi-hard.

Do anyone of you know how can I regain my penis hardness & stamina?
Thought of going for groin massage to improve blood circulation.... Any good masseuse to recommend? Many thanks