Pubs along Joo Chiat - Page 609

lament · #**9121** 09-11-2005, 06:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Flying

My advice is not to ROM for the time being...maybe get engaged first and monitor her for 1 to 2 yrs before putting your thumbprint. Even if later got problem...want to part also not so messy.

thanks for the advice but then I am not young anymore and secondly since knowing her, i really feel the urge to settle down ......

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Originally Posted by Flying

Knowing each other expectations is not good enough...she might hide her problems until later...especially money problem...when later the problems surface...what can you do by then...either you help her settle or she settle herself...if you let her settle herself...how is she going to settle...she will have to work...and what kind of work can help her make money fast...u know I know...normally they will succumb to money. Can u live with it...if it happens. Sincerity...love...faith...commitment...blah blah blah...is not enough...money can be a cruel deciding factor in such a relationship. If she have no or only small money problem...then maybe your relationship might work out...but then again...she might hide it hoping to get the blue card first. If she got big money problem...then I don't think your relationship will last.

i understand wat u driving at .....

u guys know my situation ....this are some of the things that need to have a compromise .....

i understand her situation and so does she ..... thats y the negotiations are needed ....

i know wat i can accept & wat i cannot ...

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Originally Posted by Flying

The beginning is always sweet...but most of the time it ends sourly. As you yourself said...it takes time to see their true self. Should give yourself more time to find out more about her and her family before committing.

i know but somehow i am prepared to be a stupid idiot for once in my years of plying the viet zone. this is something i m prepared to put in with no regrets if things turn sour.

i have never really been so serious with a viet ger or any of my ex'es till i met her .......

lament · #**9122** 09-11-2005, 06:13 AM

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Originally Posted by MoonBlaze

Settling down does not means that you must sign on the dotted lines. I suggest you decides if you wanna do this after after going thr the honeymoon period.
Why would you want to sign on the dotted line for?
1) To remind yourself that you will stay faithful to her?
2) To remind her to stay faithful to you?
3) To start a family soon? Lament Junior?
Commitments if strong enough does not requires a contract.
See my PM.

frankly to answer your question .....

1) to let her be in sillypore for as long as i can keep her here cos when she is not around ...i really feel damn lonely .....

2) maybe yes maybe no ......a little secret .... the 2 weeks she not around ....we had a some quarrel ...i had 2 bowls of Viet noodles for venting my frustration ........

3) Not really till I sort out my own problems and as for Lament Junior if its meant to its meant to be .....

thanks for the advice though ............

lament · #**9123** 09-11-2005, 06:16 AM

Was trying to book for a date on ROM website and to my horror ...its fully booked till next year ........

well, i may be having the ceremony in my own house instead pending the JP availability .....still waiting for his call and I should finalised the date by 2molo ...

anyway for those who want to know ....my ger say she wanna think it over n give me her decision in due course .....i told her if she decide not to go ahead i'm fine with it ......

lament · #**9124** 09-11-2005, 06:20 AM

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Originally Posted by raintree

$500 test - didnt cos dun wan to spoil his illusion of a romance

end of the day ...its her own decision of how she wanna make her income cos i dun give her any ..... being from where she is ....

SingViet · #**9125** 09-11-2005, 06:53 AM

Bro lament,

Congrats for finding your ideal gal. Its about time. Good for you.

oahpekahsom · #**9126** 09-11-2005, 05:05 PM

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Originally Posted by lament

end of the day ...its her own decision

few months never read forum...ya getting married...wow

let me extend my hand in congrats first...
Second ya sure about this?
Think ya heard enogh of ya brudders' advise..
watever it is ...I wish you both all the best!!

blue_swatch · #**9127** 09-11-2005, 07:54 PM

Bro Lament, when the big day come, u must let me know. I will go support you

lament · #**9128** 11-11-2005, 07:02 PM

thanks a lot .....

the date is set for january but then still pending her decision whether to go ahead or not. she is still having 2nd thoughts about the whole issue and needs to think it over....

so i just have to wait for her to nod her head .....

naemlo · #**9129** 11-11-2005, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by lament

1) to let her be in sillypore for as long as i can keep her here cos when she is not around ...i really feel damn lonely .....

How they wish there r more Lament in SG. Getting a PR is so much easier. Get to know Lament, talk sweet, talk love then PR will be presented to her within mths.

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Originally Posted by lament

2) maybe yes maybe no ......a little secret .... the 2 weeks she not around ....we had a some quarrel ...i had 2 bowls of Viet noodles for venting my frustration ........

Not around?? How to quarrel..... no wonder u have this size. Frustration n eat 2 bowls of noodles.

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Originally Posted by lament

3) Not really till I sort out my own problems and as for Lament Junior if its meant to its meant to be .....

Main problem should be money....

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Originally Posted by lament

thanks for the advice though ............

Huh who bothers when u have make up your mind. I WANT TO GET MARRY.

naemlo · #**9130** 11-11-2005, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by lament

thanks for the advice but then I am not young anymore and secondly since knowing her, i really feel the urge to settle down ......

Old n urge to settle down?? Hmmmm............

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Originally Posted by lament

u guys know my situation ....this are some of the things that need to have a compromise .....

i understand her situation and so does she ..... thats y the negotiations are needed ....

Money will definitely solve the neg. Paying a partner to company an old man is common nowsadays.

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Originally Posted by lament

i have never really been so serious with a viet ger or any of my ex'es till i met her .......

Cos u might be still young, during that time.

naemlo · #**9131** 11-11-2005, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by lament

she is still having 2nd thoughts about the whole issue and needs to think it over....

Your money offer still not enough???

ralfhero · #**9132** 12-11-2005, 02:49 AM

Just came back from joo chiat and many gals up the lorry liao, bring my fren to joo chiat to enjoy but tio raid, bring them to BS but full house then end up going to fish tank to release my frustration

#**9133** 12-11-2005, 02:55 AM

Ya lor, I'm there barely less than 10mins just finished up my first mug of beer. Out of the sudden light up. Spolit my happy hour.

Retired from Joo Chiat for 2 weeks

Cheers

naemlo · #**9134** 12-11-2005, 03:12 AM

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Originally Posted by ralfhero

Just came back from joo chiat and many gals up the lorry liao, bring my fren to joo chiat to enjoy

I suppose to go JC but just too lazy to get out of the house. 11 plus a friend called n say JC kena raid. Immedately called Lament and he sounded very sad cos.......... hiazzzzz a new headache for him.

Flying · #**9135** 12-11-2005, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by naemlo

I suppose to go JC but just too lazy to get out of the house. 11 plus a friend called n say JC kena raid. Immedately called Lament and he sounded very sad cos.......... hiazzzzz a new headache for him.

Why so lazy? In HCMC still haven't sleep enuff huh?

His wife-to-be kenna up-lorry?