ShangHai Recommendation!

[Niceman]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Hi Bro Niceman,
Thanks for your encouraging words (RED) here.
Lastly, wishing you all the best in your job hunting here to be relocated to Shanghai bro, be it for your SHA GF or for your career path & future....hope to catch you up soon! Cheerios............take care!

Snr Bro SGP,

Dun mention that lah. Btw hor... those are not encouraging words, those are "FACTS" that I always see in u. What liao eh, what U cant achieve?

Ya, agreed bro, so, I really hope to spend more time with her to better understand her. Her family still ok, not those materialistics type, I heng heng lor. She? Worst !! haha, she stingy type, very stingy on shopping and food, once a while eat at resturant (small one also can) is a must but no need always, only on those comestics to take care her face, not those "color pencils". A house I think is a must lah, but I not planning so far lah, cos my immediate plan is, u know what.

Keeping my finger cross lor, cos spoken to the big boss liao. He told me that he would ask her sec to keep in touch with me and even asked when would I be in SH soon? Yo Bro.... could you kindly read his mind by those words he said? I really need advice on this matter.

As for your Ms Dim Sum, ya, i can understand her urgency and eagerness. Bro, cant blame her, women reach her stage will requrie some form of security. But, I also understand your hold-back. Well.....no comments, cos I know u know what to do. Btw, I can guess the out-come liao. Wanna guess what I guessed? hehe....

Cheers Bro, take care, dun drink so much

[XuJiaHui]

Originally Posted by Niceman

Bro SGP,
logical lah, cos u older but look younger than me. Tall and yandao mah

Well said Bro, women are all the same indeed. If I cannot achieve what I looking for in 2months, i still stuck in Sillypore and end the story with Ms Jinqiao, which is the last thing I would wish for. So far so good when I with her, never had such great feeling, but no worry bro, I know where I stand and always expect the unexpected especially with a Sh ger, not mentioning a PRC. Their culture is very different from our ancestors now. Their feeling machiam like SH stock market.

Maybe u have been single for a long time or dun have the heart to settle down, whereas ur Ms Dim Sum is aging and concern about giving birth? U kana pressurize by her huh? Am sure u have a way, I have faith in you bro.

Cannot be mentor? hey hey, u humble again. Wah liao eh, mai ke ki lah. I always look up to you for advices.

You take good care bro. If this trip not fruitful, my next trip will be a pure holiday cum ending trip.

Bro SGP, I am sure you have gone through every part in life. Be frank, we all learn from you as the life and the route that you have gone now is not easy.
All girls when they are at the certain age need security and life partner. They are not like us ... Guy even up to 60 70 like Yang Zhen Ning can even have a 20 yo wife.. Hahaha
I know you have gone thru those part and parcel in life ... Do not be scared in facing it lah... It is a route that we got to walk right...

Bro, facing the reality .. I believe you definitely have the wisdom to solve the problems

[XuJiaHui]

Originally Posted by holein1

bro, no issue. good on your ROI stuff.. haha. just be careful when you are dealing with a shanghaiese, especially. haha. you can consult me lei, on that one. i can write a book on Sleeping with Shanghaiese for Dummies liao..dare not say i am the ultimate scholar, but at least trust me, i went through the super hard way of courting from spore (against cb big spenders) and choosing to quit my job in spore and come to shanghai to showdown and till now, with a kid and all's quite well.

not easy, but i made it, and will continue to make sure i do.

btw, if you come to shanghai, look for me bro..

hin1

Hi Bro, you actually have a SH wife ? How you think of it ? FUN ?

I am confusing here whether to get closer with SH girl or not... but I told myself if I found one then I should start commit myself.. Sometimes I am too scared to fall into the trap.

Sometime I like SH girl because they are so smart but sometime I am so scared that they will harm me..
What to do ?? Any advice ???

I guess remain single is always good in China... Any idea on the issue ?

[holein1]

Originally Posted by Niceman

Hey hey.... that's what I have looking for bro.!!!

errr...... how come I see a reflection of myself? kekekek... i also quiting my job in Sillypore and wanting to settle down here in SH, maybe ppl may think is cos of woman, but that has been my dream since donkey years ago. She is my "reward" and "push factor"

check PM bro.

haha. so where did you get to know yours? anyway, you dont have to make her your reward or push factor. remember you come here because the red mao paper is your reward and push factor, she is just side dish. no matter what and how she becomes, the blood of chinese (from china) still flows in her. this one, unfortunately, you can never change.

they are very good at being nice at the right moment and squeezing you like sugar cane when the need arises. i am sure you know. you just have to go through the act cos they just want to feel that.

....wow..i didnt expect you to call me when i am writing this ...haha. anyway, nice talking to you, and do keep in touch.

[holein1]

Originally Posted by XuJiaHui

Hi Bro, you actually have a SH wife ? How you think of it ? FUN ?

I am confusing here whether to get closer with SH girl or not... but I told myself if I found one then I should start commit myself.. Sometimes I am too scared to fall into the trap.

Sometime I like SH girl because they are so smart but sometime I am so scared that they will harm me..
What to do ?? Any advice ???

I guess remain single is always good in China... Any idea on the issue ?

..glurp. looks like i become marriage counsel liao. haha. anyway, i cant really answer your question. it depends on your and her status, and if we have the chance to talk, i can prob. only tell you the probabilities. and why should you think you are falling into a trap?

tell you one funny thing. in spore, when my friends got married, they happily plan all the buying of house together, not so much of kaobei (complains) from them. however, when they are with a chinese, all sorts of things come out. it's a natural "defense feeling" i guess. what i want to ask is, you mean you get married with a sporean no need to buy house? no need to do this ..that?
same what...right? and remember, if you offer only the same terms as the locals to her, then why must she accept you? might as well stick with the locals, right?

anyway, PM me and we'll talk more.

hin1

[holein1]

Originally Posted by SGPshanghai69

Yo Bro Holein1,
*snipped*
Keep you posted on my outcome.
Cheers.

yeah yeah, you take care too bro. and one of these days must go see that lazy doggie of yours..hei hei. and of course your big big house.. knn..so big.

hin1

[Niceman]

Bro XuJiaHui,

Dun care lah, follow ur heart. Just Do it man... I got nothing to share cos I not even stablise my relationship, just honeymoon period. And worst, I not even perm in SH.

Either Sh gers or not, expect the unexpected.

Cheers Bro

[PuTonRen]

Originally Posted by holein1

PTR, ma na o ko leng, tio bo (how can it be possible, right) ? maybe sometimes got pray la, but most of the time or everytime?

you know ppl like us (eg. sh69) who have the time and place advantage also dont dare to lay such claims...haha.

but hor PTR, you beware your camera lei..scarly one day i see you all over internet or baidu.. haha..PTR and Ah ..., PTR and C...., PTR and Furong Sister (oooops...).

Dear Bro holein1,

Thank you for spending your precious time to read my humble posts. Yes, I write them to constantly remind myself, and sincerely hope that they will be useful to brothers working in China. Granted that there are people who are really charming, charsimatic, rich and good looking, but when I read some of the posts, they are too good to be true. Spending such a long time in China, I have seen, heard and experience tiny part and learn a little bit about China. SGPshanghai69 and I, when we met, we usually chat about this guy posted what that guy posted what, and we really had some good times as some of the postings are really not true or overly exaggerated. We realise that one way for men to console themselves or to to self damage control, is to write the contrary... Sad.... Failure becomes full success that could be achieved with a look of Tom Cruise or a charm of Edison Chen.

If I have time, I shall compile all my failure stories (There are many of them) and share with you all.

With best regards.

[LonelyInChina]

Sent my wife and her family to 1 day trip to Hangzhou, and I am FREE again..!!!
Feeling bored then I called Jolin/Wanwan/Wenwen (same person).
Her number is one three nine one six one six nine six nine five (She loves to do 69).
She arrived in 30 minutes, and we chit chat for a while as I havent called her for 2 months.
Asked her permission to take her photos and told her that I am going to share the photos with all the bros in SBF, she said "okay..".

and these are her photos..... enjoy.....

[luvgangsta]

Hi brothers,

Long time no see bros. MIA long long time.

Anyway, log in to intro some new discoveries...

There is this KTV where the tip for girls is 200 each. tip for mamasan 200, tip for waiter 100, no waitresses (xiaomei). Package for small room, with fruit plate, beers and snacks is 400 nett. Girls looks range from 5 to 7.5

Thing is, this KTV is considered quite hap. They can strip to play games, and you can dig if you like. Almost all of them will at least give you a HJ to happy ending during your KTV session. I have also heard from the regulars there that they manage to score with the girls in the place. Just bring them to one of the empty rooms to do their deed. Sometimes pay sometimes free. The mamasans are quite cute and all can play one, can grab and all. It is more frequented by locals. As such the decor is a little older (like 7m but slightly better).

It is called CASABLANCA and it is right next to Long Hua Temple.

[luvgangsta]

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Sigh... I got my EOS 400D one week ago. The technology moves so fast. Yes, instead of cheonging, I would like to follow the foot step of SGP to do shooting... Hahahah.

PTR senior bro,

you all get cameras so advanced... SGP also, alamak, my stupid camera is like a toy compared to you all... don't dare to go phototaking sessions with you all leh.

[luvgangsta]

Dear senior bro PTR,

Please do not be too humble. In my times of despair your phone call really picked me up. The same go to SHASGP69 bro. Thank you guys for being there a couple of years back when I kenna shit.

Anyway, every dialect group/regional group have good and bad people. It is just that shanghainese have been brought up to be much more materialistic. However, the worst I met are not shanghainese actually. And I have some shanghainese friends who are really very very nice people. It all depends la. But in the end, when looking for a wife, make sure you are real careful. Find one that can take care of family. In the meantime, for gf or lovers, go all out to satisfy yourself in looks or skill, TNN ... etc.. but do not put too much Kamcheng in. Once in a while, the 2 subsets will intersect, that is when the stars align and you must be one lucky bastard.

Originally Posted by PuTonRen

Dear Bro holein1,

Thank you for spending your precious time to read my humble posts. Yes, I write them to constantly remind myself, and sincerely hope that they will be useful to brothers working in China. Granted that there are people who are really charming, charsimatic, rich and good looking, but when I read some of the posts, they are too good to be true. Spending such a long time in China, I have seen, heard and experience tiny part and learn a little bit about China. SGPshanghai69 and I, when we met, we usually chat about this guy posted what that guy posted what, and we really had some good times as some of the postings are really not true or overly exaggerated. We realise that one way for men to console themselves or to to self damage control, is to write the contrary... Sad.... Failure becomes full success that could be achieved with a look of Tom Cruise or a charm of Edison Chen.

If I have time, I shall compile all my failure stories (There are many of them) and share with you all.

With best regards.

[Ronaldo]

Wow... you took photos man!!
Wonder if SGPSHA69 has some artistic shots to share....

But I guess she is not my type... Nice tattoo though.....

Since your wife is coming back soon, I guess its "clearing evidence" time?

Hahaha..... Nice one dude!

[Ronaldo]

Bro LonelyinCHina,

Wow!! Where the post went!?!?!??!

[LonelyInChina]

Originally Posted by Ronaldo

Bro LonelyinCHina,

Wow!! Where the post went!?!?!??!

It's still there ... on page 644.
Thanks for the points