How to confirm wife is eating outside

[senters89]

Originally Posted by Joe8888

Nowadays she listen to all my instructions, basically she is a obedient wife now, perhaps from the guilt, she will now gladly let me photo shoot or do whatever I want to her,

Bro, just be yourself, no need to listen what others suggested, the life is yours the wife is yours, if you can forgive and forget, then no need to worry so much. I understand how you feel. YOLO, so chill relax and enjoy the sweet time you have with your wife and kids.

IMHO: bros, maybe we should stop putting fire. let bro joe make his decision.

[harddisk]

Originally Posted by senters89

IMHO: bros, maybe we should stop putting fire. let bro joe make his decision.

Fully agree with this.

And also to TS, increased frequency of intimacy, videos of sex acts, obliging wife after she got exposed, more care and concern and communication between husband and wife. All these will last for a few months while you "repair" yourself of emotional the hurt.

After that, its entirely up to you how you want to deal with your marriage.

I personally am not optimistic about my marriage after all these so the direction I'm heading isn't something you want to follow.

Take care bro!

[sammyboyfor]

Originally Posted by senters89

IMHO: bros, maybe we should stop putting fire. let bro joe make his decision.

He came to this forum to ask for opinions and you're now suggesting we don't provide any??

[a2014]

Sometime when we give opinion we do also face certain problem. Someone will come here for advise on wife over SEX eating outside want to quit. Another will come here for advise on wife NO SEX cannot eat also want to quit.

One thing in common is that in general wife no issue, wife SEX preference is the issue. Husband no issue, husband emotion is an issue.

Looks like SEX is a very important factor and need to balance up either side.

[Joe8888]

All advice well taken, to me I should just move on, just forget and forgive, anyhow now I am the one who spend most time with her, I think she realized eating out is not good, life move on, now we are more emotionally attached and more sexual activity, which is good? Intimacy helps to put all the past behind us, guys and girls eat out, no need to compare anymore, nowadays am happier as i can feel more love and activity, I thank all bro for the nice concern, regarding the pictures, let me see whether my wife allowed me to share or not, surely will blank out certain areas, hehe.

[Xia406]

Originally Posted by Joe8888

Hi guys, as per tittle, how to confirm that wife is indeed fucking outside?

Sorry to be a wet blanket bro, but I noticed that it was just 13 days ago that you first posted your problems here.

How can you jump so quickly into conclusion that you are more emotionally attached and that she is feeling guilty already? Don't count your chickens before the egg hatches.

[demonhunter]

Originally Posted by Joe8888

Nowadays she listen to all my instructions, basically she is a obedient wife now, perhaps from the guilt, she will now gladly let me photo shoot or do whatever I want to her,

You should thank the other guy for training her well !

[Joe8888]

Thank the guy for the restarting my wife engine, before this it was just routine, lately it's been improving! Thank goodness!

[porscheclub]

This thread is getting interesting.

[porscheclub]

Originally Posted by Botakhead

He has to face the world, people's piercing eyes, unforgiving tongue waging, etc etc, because he as a Chinese guy had to bring up a 'dark' colored skinned child all on his own, he could not bear to leave the kid as he still have some humanity, now the kid is already taking care of him, giving him a feeling of a family filled with warmth, though they looked different from each other.

Heard of such stories before but sounds like your friend has a filial son afterall. God is kind.

[Joe8888]

Originally Posted by porscheclub

This thread is getting interesting.

Life is full of suprises, before this incident, life is so dull, normal day in and day out routine, after effects, now I know that love is so much more efforts needed, I honestly now blame myself, if I am good enough, my wife won't eat out, I guess guys and girls eat out for a reason, not simply lust, it will be something wrong somewhere

[harddisk]

Originally Posted by Joe8888

Life is full of suprises, before this incident, life is so dull, normal day in and day out routine, after effects, now I know that love is so much more efforts needed, I honestly now blame myself, if I am good enough, my wife won't eat out, I guess guys and girls eat out for a reason, not simply lust, it will be something wrong somewhere

Bro, why do you say until you're the one fully at fault?

Takes 2 hands to clap. Easy to put the blame on the guy when marriage turns sour but if both husband and wife manage their expectations well, no one will fault each other for anything that's lacking in the marriage.

[Joe8888]

Originally Posted by harddisk

Bro, why do you say until you're the one fully at fault?

Takes 2 hands to clap. Easy to put the blame on the guy when marriage turns sour but if both husband and wife manage their expectations well, no one will fault each other for anything that's lacking in the marriage.

Just say I too love my wife! And I have to forgive her and blame myself, this is what happen if u love someone too much, u tend to spoilt then in the progress as well, I try to console myself by saying guys fuck around, and it's normal for ladies to do so, as long she stopped doing ald, am happy and satisfied.

[Taketsuru]

Originally Posted by Joe8888

Will my wife do it without protection? Now you got me worried, sometimes when u least expected it, it happen, hopefully she did use protection, should I get myself check for STD? The more I think now, feel a bit disgusted, but a bit of me feels fine, just let her fuck, she will be a good girl at night come to me and please me, lately we had great sex, I guess she trying to please me more lately! Whatever I want to do with her, she will let me do it, like one of the bro here said, fuck her wildly! Bang n smack that pussy, bite her nipples! I should just fuck her every night, for the misery she caused me, and record down all the videos and pictures and share with you guys!

That's a sure sign that she ate outside. Maybe guilt but frm experience, once the sex is better after incident like this, quite sure got eat outside.

[Joe8888]

Update: I just found the spare phone that she uses to contact the guy, you guys will be amaze with all the messages store in the phone........ Speechless, as I said before, we cannot cover fire with paper, it will burn! Badly!