girlfriend/wife who doesn't like sex at all

[zoop]

Originally Posted by BiRd13

Bro... TS mentioned 9yrs never had sex with his gf... Doesn't mean during this 9yrs he never release outside... =D If he really nvr release outside... Then perhaps I will understand why his gf don't want to have sex with him...

Not 9 years without sex. But for past 2 years. the number of time can be counted with my fingers.

[zoop]

Still the same old shit. I am close to breaking down. My hand is still my best friend now. It's sad isn't it? Told her about it, she said she don't feel loved by me enough. I did so many things for her and yet she dare tell me this. She said I don't treat her tenderly enough.

So now everything becames my fault again for her refusal to have sex or even petting with me. I cannot touch her now, she will push me away or be angry with me.

[Tomb]

To be honest bro.. is this what you want for your future?
Think ahead and do a reality check.

U might just find someone who is more compatible for you.
Don just keep suffering and she even dare you to go look for other gals.

Sometimes, deep inside, you know what you want.

[zoop]

Originally Posted by Tomb

To be honest bro.. is this what you want for your future?
Think ahead and do a reality check.

U might just find someone who is more compatible for you.
Don just keep suffering and she even dare you to go look for other gals.

Sometimes, deep inside, you know what you want.

the problem is, i love her a lot, even more than myself...

[lightning]

Originally Posted by zoop

Still the same old shit. I am close to breaking down. My hand is still my best friend now. It's sad isn't it? Told her about it, she said she don't feel loved by me enough. I did so many things for her and yet she dare tell me this. She said I don't treat her tenderly enough.

So now everything becames my fault again for her refusal to have sex or even petting with me. I cannot touch her now, she will push me away or be angry with me.

Bloody hell when everything goes wrong. It is the Guys Fault??? Wake up ur idea??? That is lame excuse! I hate this kind of woman who just simply pushes blames entirely on men, when things goes wrong. I hate to say this but I feel that you have to date more ladies to find out what you want.

[lightning]

Originally Posted by zoop

the problem is, i love her a lot, even more than myself...

That is why you are a victim to be bullied by her Seriously she has to encounter more guys to know that she is the "abnormal" one. You got to date more ladies to discover what exactly you wanted. I speculate that you are of a high sex drive whereas she is not, so ur dick will die of withering like a plant and you will have to eat outside most of the time to ease yourself.

[thickhead]

I read 7 pages and am typing in the dark. I guess I am showing enough concern for your situation. What is to be said has been said. Let me list down the possibilities:

1. Seek professional help (counselling); maybe pre-marital counselling? 9 years in a relationship - surely marriage is a high possibility?

2. It is true that you love her more than she loves you. Question is: 10/20/30 years later, would you still want to accept this? heard of the 7-year itch?

3. It's what Cao Cao said "鸡肋骨" - 食之无味, 弃之可惜 - you are her chicken rib - not tasty, but a waste to throw away (especially when there are no better alternatives)

4. Leave her. If you are destined to be married, there has to be someone out there. (Not that I believe in fate ... just listing possibilities!)

5. You thought about leaving her; but the amount of investment from you does not justify (emotional, financial, time etc.). Think again, there are many instances whereby guys break-off from long relationships only to get married in a short time frame (rebound? or something much better).

6. Check if she thinks pre-marital sex is bad - maybe her upbringing conditioned her and made her reluctant; as to those instances when she did it - could be due to her desires or just to give you something so that at least you will not walk away

7. ... I guess other brothers may give more possibilities


On my part, I have once advised my friend to divorce his wife due to her infidelity - he did not. I think they are still together as they later had a baby. I felt bad giving that advice, even to this day (maybe that's why we have not been in touch for a while!) . As we get older, we become more responsible. I will not outright ask you to give up this relationship as there could be many unstated reasons why you should continue with her.

If you choose to remain in this relationship - do something to improve it. Think about the worst case scenario and check if it is acceptable for you.

If you choose to break-off, life will not be disastrous. You may have underestimated your emotional strength - you may be able to start a new life and have better luck!

Best Wishes - TH

[homeboy2010]

go and steal eat lo ...

[Frankiestine]

Originally Posted by zoop

Still the same old shit. I am close to breaking down. My hand is still my best friend now. It's sad isn't it? Told her about it, she said she don't feel loved by me enough. I did so many things for her and yet she dare tell me this. She said I don't treat her tenderly enough.

So now everything becames my fault again for her refusal to have sex or even petting with me. I cannot touch her now, she will push me away or be angry with me.

Bro fuck care them, why make ourselves miserable becos of this. I am now happily doing it with a pinoy FB.

[zoop]

the only day i can get out of this is either i don't love her any more or we ain't together.

its depressing. but there is nothing i can do. i ever though of going FL but my conscious is stopping me. i showed so much respect and love for her, in return, i hope she would show some love back to me.

now i can only envy other couples... when i am with her, i do not even look at other girls. but now i think i should. she didn't respect me or even try to change a bit. why should i continue to do so much for her.

i feel sad for myself. i can only imagine being close, being intimate with some imaginery person when i am lying in bed.

[samyboys]

no choice, this is a common problem we men faced

http://sbf.today/showthr...168710&page=17

[Pilot Preceda]

Originally Posted by zoop

the only day i can get out of this is either i don't love her any more or we ain't together.

its depressing. but there is nothing i can do. i ever though of going FL but my conscious is stopping me. i showed so much respect and love for her, in return, i hope she would show some love back to me.

now i can only envy other couples... when i am with her, i do not even look at other girls. but now i think i should. she didn't respect me or even try to change a bit. why should i continue to do so much for her.

i feel sad for myself. i can only imagine being close, being intimate with some imaginery person when i am lying in bed.

bro TS, your gf must be one hell of a looker...
if not how can you not straying your view to other chiobus...???

IMHO, i think she has some phobia maybe from past relationships...
go for a romantic getaway and throw her some pamper and love...

if everything fails, again IMHO you better get another better girl...
9 years you already complain so much but after marriage might be 40 years ahead...
you'll dry yourself up eventually if you choose to marry her...

[realman]

Originally Posted by aceone10

Something to share

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bro

how come i cannot view the video
thanks in advance

[VanGogh]

Originally Posted by zoop

She said I don't treat her tenderly enough.

So now everything becames my fault again for her refusal to have sex or even petting with me. I cannot touch her now, she will push me away or be angry with me.

Originally Posted by zoop

the problem is, i love her a lot, even more than myself...

I think after 9 yrs, you should seriously learn to let go... Nonetheless, wish you all the best

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by zoop

the problem is, i love her a lot, even more than myself...

should learn to love yrself more 1st b4 u talk abt loving the other half.

if not u will always be the pussy pleaser and the same shit will happen again when u r with the next girl.