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Old 08-11-2010, 02:14 PM
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

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Everything that TS says above is valid too, if we replace all mention of "Men/guy/husband" <=> "Women/gal/wife", "FL/Whores/Hookers" <=> "Whoremongers" .

Of course, with this portion need to be rephrased to something like : "Better yet, imagine that a hundred times with different gals being fucked the living daylights by him, and him leaving with a smile after handed out the cash. Imagine the hundreds of different types of pussies he has painted from all the filthy bitches out there. Imagine all the times he and other whoremongers gangbanged the same pussy ( we all know your whoremonger husband has at one point in his whoremonging life). Now imagine YOU making love to him. How good does it feel to be shoved in your little pussy by your dirty husband's cock? "

Well, perhaps my argument does not hold, since there is no platform/forum for the general public to discuss this reversed topic. Or because it's generally acceptable that men can turn over a new leaf after having enough pussies (if ever)? Key difference is perhaps that men's whoremongering lifestyle is not in the open like a hooker's life is.

Sure, I can already expect responses coming back like "But she spread her legs just for money..." which we can equally say "He paid for pussies just for lust", OR "but she has a choice to work normally but chose to work as a hooker..." which we can say "He has a choice to fuck only his gf/wife but chose to pay for sex", etc.

This world is not black and white.
Every post above got it's point, but to swear and call others names just because you view the world from one angle is sick in its own way

Question to TS, as a whoremonger yourself, what do you think your wife will think of you given the above?
Oh, don't tell me just because she don't/won't know, it's OK and she's not clinically sick?



My own opinion on this is for a man as long as he doesn't tell anyone and isn't discovered to be a whore monger then nobody knows since nobody knows well then there's no grounds for gossip.

It's actually the same for the FLs too but it's slightly out of topic from this thread.


The title of this thread is falling in love with an FL. Meaning a man willingly falling in love with someone that works in the sex trade. It's not a man falling in love with a girl whom he thinks is pure or a virgin or just a normal gal only to discover she's an FL. It's willingly falling in love with an FL.

Pretty complex as to reasons why men do it and different men have different reasons but it's always grounds for gossip and controversy even in liberal countries like the US.



PS i watched one youtube vid about this man interviewing various FLs all over the world and he was interviewing this german fl and she mentioned she had a bf and he knows she's an fl but he doesn't mind as it's just a job to her. In some European countries they are much more liberal compared to the US. I'll see if i can find the link.
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

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PS i watched one youtube vid about this man interviewing various FLs all over the world and he was interviewing this german fl and she mentioned she had a bf and he knows she's an fl but he doesn't mind as it's just a job to her. In some European countries they are much more liberal compared to the US. I'll see if i can find the link.
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

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The title of this thread is falling in love with an FL. Meaning a man willingly falling in love with someone that works in the sex trade. It's not a man falling in love with a girl whom he thinks is pure or a virgin or just a normal gal only to discover she's an FL. It's willingly falling in love with an FL.
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Oh, don't tell me just because she don't/won't know, it's OK and she's not clinically sick?
So you're in the opinion that if one going into such a taboo r/s with "open eyes", he/she is clinically sick. Fine, it's a point too.

Ok, let's dwell on the reverse for a while again: If a wife catches the husband whoremongering outside, or discover his history of doing so, but later chose to forgive his past and accept him as he is and giving him a chance to turn over a new leaf (assuming leopard can change its spots) - is she sick?

I heard some women even allow their men to pay for sex as a form of release or whatever valid reason(s). Is this group of women sick too?

My opinion is that every case is different, every situation has its merit, and anyone with any sense of compassion, forgiveness and/or unconditional love COMBINE with a little...eh logic will not give a blanket sweeping statement and putting people in silos.
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

aiya FL oso human mah...
if true lov after that and she stop...then i see htere is potential lo...

what make you tin non-FL dun play u out?
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

There's nothing morally wrong with men who fall in love with FLs, but let's look at it from a risk management perspective.

Your reward is essentially the same as that achieved from dating a 'regular' girl: Love, romance, chemistry, sex.

I've left children out of the picture as they complicate things.

Your risk outlay however, is much higher in the following areas:

- Risk of catching STDs
- Risk of an unfaithful partner
- Risk of losing your wealth over time

In poker and investing terms, you are essentially betting more money for the same outcome. Of course, emotions are not as linear, but I think you'll get what I mean.

Looking at it as a ratio: your risk-reward outlay with a 'regular' girl is 1 : 1. With an FL, it increases to 1 : 3, 1 : 5, or whatever other figure there can be that depreciates your reward value.

In conclusion, you COULD potentially find love with an FL, but that's with the odds heavily stacked against you.
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

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There's nothing morally wrong with men who fall in love with FLs, but let's look at it from a risk management perspective.
I will say "falling in love" is a temporary phrase. Love never comes that fast, that is a much deeper feeling that can only come from truly knowing someone over a period of time. It's those endorphins in your body. There are cases of people constantly falling in love because of a drug they're using. Falling in love is stupid, anyway girls don't go for guys who 'love' them. They go for guys who excite them, frighten them, give them an adrenaline rush and can keep their little puzzies moist by acting like real men.
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Old 18-11-2010, 08:28 PM
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

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There's nothing morally wrong with men who fall in love with FLs, but let's look at it from a risk management perspective.

Your reward is essentially the same as that achieved from dating a 'regular' girl: Love, romance, chemistry, sex.

I've left children out of the picture as they complicate things.

Your risk outlay however, is much higher in the following areas:

- Risk of catching STDs
- Risk of an unfaithful partner
- Risk of losing your wealth over time

In poker and investing terms, you are essentially betting more money for the same outcome. Of course, emotions are not as linear, but I think you'll get what I mean.

Looking at it as a ratio: your risk-reward outlay with a 'regular' girl is 1 : 1. With an FL, it increases to 1 : 3, 1 : 5, or whatever other figure there can be that depreciates your reward value.

In conclusion, you COULD potentially find love with an FL, but that's with the odds heavily stacked against you.
Those i highlighted in bold are your assumptions only, maybe the first point of risk of catching STD is higher, but don't u think that some fls may even be more health conscious than the normal girl? the second and third assumptions are something which i don't agree. i say this base on my experience as i myself marries an ex-fl.
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

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Every man takes the limits of his own field of vision for the limits of the world.

- Arthur Schopenhauer, "Studies in Pessimism," Psychological Observations, 1851
All we're doing here, is simply defending our own stands, predisposed with the situations and experiences doled out to each and every individual.

And moreover, the argument thus far has been largely backed up by "what if?" assumptions and fervent chest-beating, sorely lacking in objectivity.

If anything, live and let be. Its your life; do what you wish with it, but pray with good knowledge and understanding of your partakings.

Just don't go round stamping your beliefs on every other joe you come across.

Just my humble $0.02.
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

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Those i highlighted in bold are your assumptions only, maybe the first point of risk of catching STD is higher, but don't u think that some fls may even be more health conscious than the normal girl? the second and third assumptions are something which i don't agree. i say this base on my experience as i myself marries an ex-fl.


It is obvious you did not read and comprehend my post in it's entirety.
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

I know an ex FL in real life (pls dun ask for her contact she quit already) and she is now happily in a relationship. I think most Fls have their own problems thats why they do this line. I think they are as deserving of a relationship as anyone. If they can find the right guy, why not? my 2c.
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Re: Men who fall in love with FL's are clinically sick!

From the title I thought you're sharing medical information but it seems you are just bashing for fun .
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