Depressed girl

[DannyBoy4]

Originally Posted by Thanks

Hey guys

Thanks all for your words of comfort, advices, well wishes..

Everytime I visit this thread, I am really touched from the bottom of my heart,

We do not know each other but u are willing to spend time reading and replying... Thank you so much..,.

It's amazing how I felt this after posting the thread , it's like talking to an old fren about my ugly past , and realise my vent up emotions..

I don't know when my bf will find out, also dont know if I would ever muster enough courage to tell him the truth...

But If one day he finds out and decides to leave me, I hope he would read this thread and understand The emotional struggle I faced during this period ...

And to girls who are reading , I hope you learn from my mistake. It's hard for u to leave the line definitely... Yes u earn tens of thousands in less than a year... But eventually u need to settle down and how do u expect your bf to feel when u give him a BJ ?

I can think of a million reasons to prove u that this money is not worth earning, but u have to make The decision yourself... The next sentence I am saying may make u angry, but I still wanna say this...

Stop cheapening yourself. Leave this line.

Thanks.

Dear sis.. I know you are very young, but I salute you that you have the commitment to leave the line.. and even more.. you have this gut to warn other your girls not to enter the line.... salute...

You may read from my old postings that I am very interested to know how girls entered (and later are trapped) in this line... If you could share your stories (not to flame the old fire again), but rather to share from your side what attracted you to enter the business in the first place... Money?? Many people say yes... but is it all.. Or were you trapped into a situation..

Thanks sis.

[DannyBoy4]

Originally Posted by Iemanishere

.. God bless

Wow that's a strong word bro.. Glad you said it...

[Derra69]

Sorry if I offend anyone,

But depressed,
the more u post / confess, the more u are leaving clues for your ex Clients to identify u.

Unless u intend to get back to this trade, u are better off closing this thread n deleting your account totally.

Already, I know which blogspot was it posted n when was it made private.

Please read my pm to u.

[Ecuader]

Originally Posted by Thanks

Hi..
I definitely wish he will never know this... But somehow my sixth sense tells me somehow someday he will know...
I have no intention not to trust my bf's buddy.. (hey if u are reading this, I'm saying the truth- I TRUST U)

You are in a lose-lose situation. your bf's buddy might use that to blackmail u in future. and in this world, there is no such things as friends forever. they might cease as friends 1 day. you'll never know.

I suggest u come clean with your bf. Its better than he find out himself.

In today's world, having a girlfriend who have a bad past and willing to change is better than having a wife who cheats on her husband after they got married which is very common in today's society. for eg having a bf at her work place without husband's knowledge. *sad world*

[Derra69]

It is a very bad idea to come clean, even with a trusted boyfriend.

Who is to guarantee that the boyfriend will not use it against her next time when things don't work out.

And must she then confess to every new bf subsequently, n hope that one of them will finally accept her?

If nobody accepts her, then she will have no end to her confession right?

[Derra69]

Originally Posted by Ecuader

I suggest u come clean with your bf. Its better than he find out himself.
*

Unless u confess. Nobody will be able to find out what happens in the privacy of bedrooms many years ago -- when you are younger too.

There are so many lookalikes n photoshop photos these days. I will encourage her to deny it all the way. Even when confronted with an actual photo, just show a shocked, alarmed n or disgusted face, and exclaimed "Wah, this girl really look like me! Wonder who is she ?"

Deflect the attention away n turn to question the person with the photo "is that you (your penis ) in the photo?

[36F-23-36]

GAL, I think wanna some benefits from you.

IF I were u, I will deny it all the way.
IF show to my current bf, I will deny. IF really can't deny, then claim is my exbf.

Everyone has a past. IF your bf can't accept it, then let him go.
He don't love u enough.

No pt let others blackmail u n u give in. Coz normally your bf will find out eventually n tt will b worse as now u r attached with him.

[goodpartner]

Originally Posted by Thanks

Hi..
I definitely wish he will never know this... But somehow my sixth sense tells me somehow someday he will know...

There you go again. Why worry for the uncertain or unknown?
This is a phobia thingy you've acquired.

You should spend effort on how to eliminate this phobia instead of thinking about what happens IF (not WHEN) it happens. Again, for all you know, it won't happen.

Now, even IF it will happen, what can you do now that will help? Nothing. You can only react to it IF it do come along, and how you can react will depends...

There is global warming and depletion of the ozone layer; do you worry about when the world will come to an end and keep scaring yourself on whether it will happen in your life time? No. So do the same with your current situation.

Originally Posted by Derra69

It is a very bad idea to come clean, even with a trusted boyfriend.

I concur too; and I'm a male

Given what I said, it's not a wise idea to "find trouble" now when trouble do not find you...

Just relax and get on with life - focus on creating more happy moments with him!!

[pidaras]

what does "FL" mean?

[Thanks]

Originally Posted by Derra69

Sorry if I offend anyone,

But depressed,
the more u post / confess, the more u are leaving clues for your ex Clients to identify u.

Unless u intend to get back to this trade, u are better off closing this thread n deleting your account totally.

Already, I know which blogspot was it posted n when was it made private.

Please read my pm to u.

Dear Derra69,

Thanks for your message.

I have read your PM and given it serious thoughts

I may have to disappoint u that I can't do it..

Thanks

[Derra69]

Originally Posted by Thanks

Dear Derra69,

Thanks for your message.

I have read your PM and given it serious thoughts

I may have to disappoint u that I can't do it..

Thanks

Dear depressed,

I don't know which action u can't do it.

If u can't choose to deny ( at all circumstances when confronted in future, if ever) then u will have to better choose to admit it now ASAP. Delaying telling a truth till you are ever caught with your pants down is never a good consequences.

It is your life n your future. U must decide and hold the power within u do decide what is the best course of action to take. Good luck with your life.

[PassingbyJ]

Agree with Derra69,
There is only 2 action end of the day. Admit or deny.
Rest of the stuff whether to deny account, or even more overseas are just additional considerations.
If deny, deny all the way. If admit, admit early. It will only cause more damage if you deny for a few years then became forced to admit.

[kevinlee]

Unless the pictures are crystal clear, you should deny all the way because the truth will always hurt. Anyway, if you need any legal help, you can always PM me.

[long]

Originally Posted by emperor11

Derra is correct, i'm suspecting who you are in my mind already too, plus the way you typed. Whatever it is, quit this forum, honest with him and move on. Everyone makes mistake.

yup, and pray for him... he is gonna need it when his time comes

[lglg666]

Just move on with your life and don't look back. Time heal all wounds and it is better since you are young. Just don't repeat your mistake.

My 2 cents worth....do take care and stay strong