Understanding Vietnamese Life Partner

[Crown]

Originally Posted by mao86

Speeding a bit lah.. whaha sometime up to 70km/hr

power bro the road here so many holes, a bike will suddenly come out from the small roads u can travel 70km/hr

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by mao86

Usually i will ride on a bike 4hr from saigon wif my girlfriend back to her home in Canto... Sianzz past few days my girlfriend and me keep having quarrel. Next yeAr i be getting married with her. Yet to know will it last!

quarrel common leh,my first few year after i marry,we quarrel more leh until almost thinking of divorce.

bro,after marry is different.a lot of understanding,patient and some close one eye situation is needed especially with your foreign spouse

there is a lot of different in marrying a foreign spouse compare to local one so learn more from this thread and u will be suprise that some things mention by us here might be your own case next time

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by mao86

aiyo u damm bad leh.. shouldnt let your kids suffer.. Ani way i am in bad mood brother. My gf quarrel with me this and that. Check with you whether when u know ur wife, how much do you give her every mnth.

yah i also feel i very bad sometime but sorry to say,i need to let her family have a impression that i am not a rich sg guy but a normal and stingy sg man.
no matter what they think of me,i dont care cos is for our own good.but so far i am fortunate that her mother is not demanding and treat me good when i was there

nowadays sometime my wife is more stingy than me.like i want to pamper ourself to go for a short oversea trip,she will say why go,better to save the money.when i was tired and when i know she was also more tired than me,she will insisted we take a bus or train back to save the money rather than taking taxi back

bro,u mean before marry is it on how much i give?

[Golden question]

for me is around $200 to $300 but is not every month before we marry.how much u give,can share cos i think it might be important for u since u are thinking of marrying next year

but dont give old man like me a shock and say 1k every month lah,later i no face and have to dig a hole to hide my face hahaha

[Crown]

Originally Posted by Golden question

for me is around $200 to $300 but is not every month before we marry.how much u give,can share cos i think it might be important for u since u are thinking of marrying next year

but dont give old man like me a shock and say 1k every month lah,later i no face and have to dig a hole to hide my face hahaha

bro, what about after marry how much do u give every month?

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Crown

bro, what about after marry how much do u give every month?

u mean for her family or my sg side?

[Crown]

Originally Posted by Golden question

u mean for her family or my sg side?

u give her and her family back in Viet also?

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Crown

u give her and her family back in Viet also?

after marriage,sometime i give around $300 plus when she or we went back to visit her mother.as a gesture cos when we just marry,my wife ask me how much will i give to her mom.i kind of fed up but after some understanding,i realised what she mean is only a gesture to her mom to show some respect to her.just a ang bao to a elderly,does not matter how much is inside.so for bro who want to marry them,sometime u must learn to be patient and know where they come from.dont always think that when she start to ask for money is something not good.from my experience,listen to them first,if really u cannot,tell them honestly.

i dont give every month to her side cos she is working.i tell her she have to give to support her mother and over here is my duty to support her.tell your future wife or present girlfriend honestly that u cannot support her family side if u really cant and dont promise that u can but after marry cannot.be reponsible to her cos money matters is one of the main thing that will surely occur

[Crown]

Originally Posted by Golden question

after marriage,sometime i give around $300 plus when she or we went back to visit her mother.as a gesture cos when we just marry,my wife ask me how much will i give to her mom.i kind of fed up but after some understanding,i realised what she mean is only a gesture to her mom to show some respect to her.just a ang bao to a elderly,does not matter how much is inside.so for bro who want to marry them,sometime u must learn to be patient and know where they come from.dont always think that when she start to ask for money is something not good.from my experience,listen to them first,if really u cannot,tell them honestly.

i dont give every month to her side cos she is working.i tell her she have to give to support her mother and over here is my duty to support her.tell your future wife or present girlfriend honestly that u cannot support her family side if u really cant and dont promise that u can but after marry cannot.be reponsible to her cos money matters is one of the main thing that will surely occur

Thanks for sharing, so only when u go back to Viet then give?

[Greatking]

Originally Posted by Golden question

quarrel common leh,my first few year after i marry,we quarrel more leh until almost thinking of divorce.

bro,after marry is different.a lot of understanding,patient and some close one eye situation is needed especially with your foreign spouse

there is a lot of different in marrying a foreign spouse compare to local one so learn more from this thread and u will be suprise that some things mention by us here might be your own case next time

Bro, just to do some ground check before thinking of helping my gf find job in Singapore. She doesn't understand English thro. Your wife working as what?

[shysaint]

Originally Posted by Greatking

Bro, just to do some ground check before thinking of helping my gf find job in Singapore. She doesn't understand English thro. Your wife working as what?

Bro ...

In order for your G/F to work here ... Chances Equal 0 .. Cannot Speak n Understand English ... Cannot understand Chinese ... No Diploma or Degree ... Don't even qualified for The lowest category of Work Permit ...

Most of the gals works here fall under the following category :

1. Diploma/Degree and above in education.
1.1. With the above . U should be able to converse in English and/or Chinese.
2. PR
2.1. PR with 1.1.
3. LTVP. Will be converted to Work Permit if got company employs.
3.1. LTVP with 1.1.

I have friends working:

1. Working in JC Restaurant - Work Permit converted from LTVP holder
2. Working in Nail Spa Salon - Work Permit converted from LTVPS holder
3. Working as Sales Associate in Lee Hwa - ???

So if u want getto work her ... 1st got to Marry her ...

Rgds.

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Greatking

Bro, just to do some ground check before thinking of helping my gf find job in Singapore. She doesn't understand English thro. Your wife working as what?

what is her qualification?if low or not educated is tough

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by Crown

Thanks for sharing, so only when u go back to Viet then give?

yah,not much per year but if she go back i will pass her some.i know every month she got give using her monthly salary so i only chip in when is really NECESSARY.

Dont give like u open the tap water and let the water flow cos the money will flow to her family member.she only support her mother as her sibling is all working but due to their low pay there,they cant support her mother so she support her

i once ask her to be careful and give as what she think is require,she told me she only give to her month to survive every month and none go to her sibling, so i was glad

[ilovedoggie]

Hi bros,

Can ask if vnmese sleeps early? those at province one... usually what time do the ppl sleep? bcuz my gal always say the ppl there sleep very early... usually around 9pm their time???

thanks,
Doggie

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by ilovedoggie

Hi bros,

Can ask if vnmese sleeps early? those at province one... usually what time do the ppl sleep? bcuz my gal always say the ppl there sleep very early... usually around 9pm their time???

thanks,
Doggie

Yah they sleep early cos their sun rise earlier,viet time 6pm,their sky there already dark already