PRC asked me to marry her...Yes or no???

[NewandLost]

Originally Posted by mike1304k

Firstly I would like to come out and say that not all WL are bad. Some are doing it truly because their family just cannot afford and really need the money. Some are tired of the line and just want someone to love them and to give them a way out.

But I would like to say one thing. Marrying a PRC in Singapore is hard, marrying an ex WL is even harder. Ask yourself if you can actually live with the fact that the one you have chosen was a "public toilet" and or that one day some guy some where will laugh in a demeaning manner and say that you are the biggest Robert. Can you tahan? Can you look over the past? Next is, as a PRC, she will also have a really bad time her in Singapore as they do have a really bad rep. Even housewives' tongues will wag non stop. Is she and you willing to accept that life?

TS, I would suggest one thing.... If she is willing to end her present life for you, ask her if she would do it back in China. This is the ultimate test and also the ultimate end play. Tell her to go back and prepare for you going there. It could be for a few years, it could be for a few months. But in the meantime, you will remit whatever you can for her and also visit her. See what her reaction is. If she rants and raves that she wants to stay here, then you know she is out for your passport. During the time apart, you will also see if she remains faithful and loving. If she changes, she is gone and is already out of your life. If not, you have found your wonder lady.

Just my two cents worth.

Braddah, telling this guy to ask her to go back to CH and mailing her money without having to see him is not a good idea. I think she would be overjoyed versus staying here in SG and having to see him all the time is she is KCing him. Its not a test. It's foolishness.

[jekyll69]

eh bro
DUN BE STUPID
go read bro ahkel's post 600 times
http://sbf.today/matters...y-thai-fl.html

now!

[warrior2013]

Originally Posted by Mrxhub

Imaging she is the upcoming "SHU QI", will you marry her, which you did not know her real past! It better for you to lower down the fire btwn both of you, or else she will really committing suicide...for sure, she will cut on her waist....

Instead, I also have a PRC gf, going to get marry soon in beijing.....her past is a ??? to me....when I asked her, she don answer much...now she become model/biz minded....same fact, bcos now in sg, you know her status what she doing...but in china, she is a normal babe enjoying her peaceful life........

Q: Would you accept her? it all depend on your mindset....If can't, it better for you to let her know rather than pulling time. PRC babe culture and thinking is different from SG babe.....I can answer to this FACTS. I been in PRC for 2yrs staying there.Out of 10 PRC babe, 8 are listed as below

1) PRC babe commit more love/feeling than local babe.
2) 1 day you are broke, PRC babe will still standby with you, even help u to clear your debt, as for SG babe, out of 10, 3 will stay.
3) SG babe want better living standard more than PRC, even you give her a lousy enviroment.
4) PRC education is not high, they only know how to satisfy their men needs.
5) Even u go outside womenise, PRC can accept sure deeds you did, but SG babe will file for divorce.
6) PRC are prettier than SG in terms of look/figure/skin.

Anyway, I been in HK/PRC/SG/TW.....nowsadays many guys are marrying PRC babes., esp. HK/TW actors.....the trends now is PRC. Why HK/TW actors still married PRC, don they afraid of been conned/KC......infact, they have..but they will still label as above...life have to go on....every1 learnt from mistakes, everyday you are learning new things....so c'mon....no pain no gain....I'm a live example, I'm pop in PRC...out of 10 babe, 8 like/love me....many of them thought I'm a HK/TW guy, as my dressing and speeching is almost the same....many PRC babes who never came SG b4, even ask do all SG look like me....guess what I answer them!

Cool ! I have read and contributed some posts in the past over the last couple of years. You probably have the Daniel wu or Vanesse wu appeal for the prc to be so smitten by u. Some of the posts pertaining to regular sg guys who married the prc ladies and settled down ( fortunate aspect ) and more so the burnt and charred during the kc process "statistics" ( unfortunate aspects ) showed a vast variety of different scenarios. Guess many wld want the outcome u enjoyed but alas... the world we live in and traverse is often more of an epic scenario like " SOn of Rome " and " The witcher " than the likes of " final fantasy" IMHO. Respect to u nonetheless.. u made it. Cheers!

[warrior2013]

In honest retrospection, I have encounter many prc babes who were kind and compassionate to me.. but none of the lovey dovey romance & happily ever after tales that many of u guys had ... sometimes I wondered... if they ( the prcs ) were just nursing my wounds like a vet treating a wounded beast... hmm.. not a bad turn of perception tho.

[roysux]

Nicely written....

[Saber1985]

IMO, you already mentioned you didn't want to get married with her.
So make your stand, to considerate to the enemy is being cruel to yourself. so even if she had to threaten, you will really have to stay firm and ignore all those threats, if she can get over her previous bf, what makes you think she cant get over this?

also IMO, PRC WL or whatever, she is still human being not a public toilet, like some other bros here mentioned, she shouldn't be treated as such. The problem also lies with you to be able to accept her or not. but as mentioned above, since u already decided, then there is no other ways around it.

but IMO I think WL should deserve a chance to be loved, they are still human beings after all. If she can really drop everything to come for you, y not consider too as well? if you are still so scared on it, you may set up some conditions with her like you get to keep your own money or whatever blah blah blah... that is also entirely up to u. nothing venture nothing gain. who knows maybe someday it might really work out? though the chances of it being unsuccessful is much higher than being successful this applies in our reality as well, you hear more unsuccessful business than those successful ones.

ultimately whatever the bros mentioned in this threads speaks some sense. the ultimate decision lies on you. if after serious consideration and you are unable to accept it then you must steel your heart not to falter when she goes crazy to do drastic stuffs, or harming your reputation. in any case SG already got lots of scandal, adding 1 more doesn't matter. no one gonna remember it after 3 mths.

[warrior2013]

Originally Posted by NewandLost

Braddah, telling this guy to ask her to go back to CH and mailing her money without having to see him is not a good idea. I think she would be overjoyed versus staying here in SG and having to see him all the time is she is KCing him. Its not a test. It's foolishness.

One cool story. Mine was hilarious come to think of it.
I had more boinks with my ML than I cld remember just before she got sent back due to the " u know the story " GFE then ( 2013 ) was at its peak, she wld go to my house to stay over for nights.. cos I know the boss. Just ensure that shes back safe in the day sufficed. Told her that shes the only one who went to my house tho. Guess she found out that she wasnt the only one lol. Paid her couple times that was it. She didnt want more.
Wasnt cheating her on monetary terms as she didnt ask for $ but well.... the part that she was the only one I invited over wasnt true tho.

I dunno how many bonksters take their fav MLs back home but yea I had several such experiences. It was kinda adventurous and heart warming. The stuff where I wld go out while shes still sleeping at my house and after a deal closed I wld be open the door to my room and there she is ..in between slumber and awakening welcoming me home. Send her back to the parlor n go on my way to my frens KTV pub for a bucket of heineken. Good ol days memoirs.

Fast forward a mth later... She used one of the most intricate tricks in the books. No $ stuff, no hanky panky talk, no ever after BS. She wanted a baby to prove my sincerity and I was not to be found out being spotted by her sisters in SG at other parlors. I fell for that shit. Despite being a testosterone overloaded beast I had to endure nights on ends for weeks of not going elsewhere. My roid and natural rage went thru the roof and so did my business deals... lol

Her communication became more and more distant and I cld sense something was going awry..

Septembers visit to wuhan got dragged till close to december. My mood was 90% gone and I was nearly sent to the station due to my on going bouts of rage.

The having a baby thing etc was a strategic mind blast operation. Be warned.

What started off as romance became a vicious mind game.

Finally.. after I realized that this was a " ML vigilante mission " as I wld call it... lol ... when she said " wo zhi dao zhe yang shi tai guo fen dan shi xi wang hai neng zuo peng you " I know I was over board but I hope we r still friends...

Then I went back to see one of the bosses friend and he said " She know la. .. Alot of the girls u bring back home...U also say they r the only one aiyah nvr mind la.. come again next time got ur type one..she really teach u a lesson..heeheeheheheee " and he can still laugh...l lol.. fucking hell...

When he realized that the ML from wuhan who almost made me lose my mind was the only ML who made me stay away from those shops for mths then he said " its like that la.. when u really set ur heart on that one its always that girl who will deliver the damage " well said... I thought to myself.

Till today I dunno why spilled the beans... but ah well... it doesnt matter now.

This Wuhan ML taught me one of the greatest lessons in the world of boinking. -- prefer to call it boinking than bonking
( If they r sweet to you, treasure the moments. It may nvr come back again.
If they do treat u well, do the same -which I did but I didnt say that they r the only one so well treated ) who wld say that right?
If they got into the lorry and came back to look for u the next day and spent the whole day with u till their time to go back to the airport , u found a gem.
If they wld go out with u and be seen as a familiar face at ur neighbourhood doing couple stuff like eating, holding hands, drinking, strolling, grocery shopping knowing that at that time u had serious obstacles in life, she have definitely left a foot print in ur heart. Dun deny it, it happens.
If they offer u the chance to fly with them back to PRcland, at the time I had many such offer, go if ur finances allow and make sure that it is all abt passion and controlled expenditure and sowing a seed for return if need be. If ur finances do not allow, be prepared for the passion to fizzle as the ML wld think that u are ready for the next one in SG n not believe that u are truly rebuilding ur career. They dun think into those realms.
I nvr flew back with them then even tho I had the financial capacity.
I was driven towards my work n training. I shld have on a few occasions to oblige them but its all gone now.
If you pay them $ in the morning before u go or they go n they stare at u with the glare and say " whats the meaning of this?! " U might just have a glimpse of the experience the protagonist had in the movie " gong tau" Lol not saying that the ML do that to u but u will get a picture of why they react this way after u pay them .. up side of the story is..
usually this kind of burning passion do not last. They r in SG not in their homeland so their focus goes back to making $ really fast n u can continue to pay them even if they do not want the $ , bad karma to not pay even if they do not want it at times. I wld remit $ to the ML for the sessions she refused payment even after she returned home. To me its not a score, its a bad karmic move and its not gonna be worth the retribution that comes later irregardless of ones faith and religious views.
If they do go back, be prepared for the dissolution of the bond u have developed with them no matter how strong it is.. unless u look like LuBu from Dynasty warriors, bang her like Ironman from marvel and make as much $ as the porn webmasters in South America. Its a hard fact bros.
Being the average guy on the streets I wld only say it was affinity and chance plus some kindred feelings and camaraderie.
Overnights with MLs with the arrangements of the boss or his friends was something uncommon when visiting MLs unless some rapport was present.
Whenever I get many such opportunities I wld say " Thank u Jesus " bad mistake cos David said the same prayer when he saw bathsheba bathing and banged bathsheba n had his fate dragged thru the shit. ( old testament )
Seen many sad stories revolving ard MLs n I felt sorry for the bros.
Then again in the realm of boinking. There r many layers of existence.
If I were to try get a lady at the KTV I probably become a joke.
If I tried the same with online FLs it usually starts very well and ends really terribly.
If I did the same at the WL houses I be banned real quick.
Its all abt camaraderie and timing, certain level of affinity apart from the ol standby of dollars and gifts. I do buy them ( MLs) branded perfumes and stuff but not the LV or Title deed. I aint loaded.

2014 was a year that I stayed off the scene and one of the reasons was the fact that an ML successfully made me go berserk and I never had such shit happen in my 10 years of ML patronizing.
Hypothetically termed as " Going up the massage spa one too many times and one day u get the shiatsu the almost break ur power accupoints "
Boink amongst the MLs , eventually get the " Lethal massage of the mind "
Live n die by the sword they say.

If TS done none of the errors I made I guess its a gd risk to take and see how it goes..

For me.. I am done for.. .lol

Cheers !