Will you marry KTV whore if you love her ?

[SDX5]

Bro Bigfoot

Now you know why the stmt "Love is blind"! But thanks to many brothers, some may be able to "wake you"...

Looking at what you have said, she only think about herself and her "plan" to marry you is simply to get a PR and work in the same industry for money. If she really loves you, she would have care about your feeling and be prepare to look for a more appropriate job - though $ may be low. But at least a simple life with you...supporting her aged parents back home doesnt need lots of $.

Would you like her (after becoming your wife) to work in KTV and share with other men? (I certainly would not like that to happen)

Personally, if I love the gal, I can accept her past if she stops doing after getting together to start a new life. (I known of a KTV gal who also sleeps with customers but she stopped and ceased all contacts when a man proposed to her - this is what you should be looking at as sign of commitment)

Yes, you can said that she is telling you the truth and she can simply hide them; but she is not committed to you and so the reln will not last.

So if you can't leave her, then continue to see her and pay her within your means.....else stop the reln and look for someone else who is prepared to walk the journey of life with you.

best regards

[KratosGOW]

Whatever you do, think of the consequences and don't regret. Don't live a life full of regrets

[sun814]

haha, here we are still replying to TS post (but in actual fact most of them are off-topic), but TS seems to have MIA already at least for 2 weeks, no further posts from n i think that was his last login date also.

[fazer6s]

Originally Posted by sun814

haha, here we are still replying to TS post (but in actual fact most of them are off-topic), but TS seems to have MIA already at least for 2 weeks, no further posts from n i think that was his last login date also.

TS finally decided to go with his heart and have a happy ending with his KTV partner

The End

[denilson76]

Bro TS,

I am one good example of what happen mentione above. She will find reasons to quarrel with you after she save enough from the money you gave her, then run back home even after got baby.

Then she will return to Singapore with her PR status. Imagine 1 customer $100 - $150. How much would she be able to earn per month if she can service 3-4 customers a day? What is $1500 to her? By that time you try to persuade her to come back by saying that you are wrong (guy is always wrong no matter whose fault is it), she would have much more saving than you have. By then if you want to divorce her, she can engage a top lawyer or she can even renew her PR by herself.

But first of all, initially, she must have a marriage cert and a sponsor for the first time applying for PR. Do you know that most of the girls working in massage parlours in Singapore(eg, Alush spa 2) are foreigner who got their PR in this manner and, I can say, 99% of them are divorcee who own HDB flat or car. Yet we Singaporean are struggling to earn a living and paying off our loan. Because after divorce, they will be entitled to 50% of the husband's asset including houses.

So don't be a fool, else, in the end, you will be financially broke and heartbroken if you really put all your feeling into this girl.

[hamsapkwai]

Originally Posted by fazer6s

TS finally decided to go with his heart and have a happy ending with his KTV partner

The End

maybe he is having difficulty trying to log in at IMH so hence no recent posting or sighting .

[maxsee]

U should change ur name to Big Carrot not Big Foot la...cheez dun be a prick la...><"

[makemecum]

1) got same proposal married & continue work; at lis she say she pay token sum to me
2) got another say bluff marriage; i say no ; she say real marriage.... sigh
3) got yet another one, still want part time ktv but no go out one...only sit, drink sing and play dice?

as for TS case, 1.5 k SGD
in PRC terms = 7.5 k rmb
ave prc income 1k rmb
so muz b jokin 2 ol palent cant rely on 7.5k rmb...how million other PRCs survive one?

agree if gf den sld stop working ktv find decent jobjus earn token allowance and pass time ; anyway eat drink sleep on TS wat?

[RealEstateGuy]

Brother, I hope you aborted and stay away from the KTV gal. It's simply a bad situation for you. You just cant see it. Try rereading what you wrote to us and you will see how crazy it is.

Ask not what SG society can do for you but what you can do for SG society.

[TigerB]

Bro,
Since you say she is a whore,
She can sleep with anyone.
Are you able to upkeep her? Are you rich?
If not, there is always a chance that she will红杏出墙。
Please 三思而后行。

[HCKing]

Originally Posted by hamsapkwai

maybe he is having difficulty trying to log in at IMH so hence no recent posting or sighting .

seen too many such 'got head no tail' threads, oledi pretty used to it liao.