Vietnamisation Program

[lament]

Originally Posted by kumfusion

Knn...u teach me la...she came down all da way to find me then i tell her breakup meh? U never see yesterday she wear like go market like that...cos she don't intend to work ma. I also miss her too u know....how to don hug?

This kind of thing must plan slowly ma....I still want her as my friend...just don't wanna get too deeply involved!

then y break-up ..... keep it that way but drop down the no. of times u c each other .....even if once a week she will be ok ...... just say u busy mah ....

[kumfusion]

Originally Posted by lament

where got char bor to beo ......

was chatting with some old kakis mah, then kenna make to drink the liquor and after that boss blanjah another 1/2 bottle of Matell leh .... so cannot finish cannot go home theory ....

Actually yesterday quite jialat...i go uturn so many time, i think yesterday was one of the worst nights! But the 25 yr old gal sit with my friend, the girl u know one....her friend not bad ma...wear top with some sort of slowery prints and matching short skirt one. wa...not bad! But when i leaving i see her counting and counting her money...machiam $$$ face a bit turnoff.

[kumfusion]

Originally Posted by lament

then y break-up ..... keep it that way but drop down the no. of times u c each other .....even if once a week she will be ok ...... just say u busy mah ....

Ya...but my excuses will run out one day. As it is, she already asking me why every sat and sun i not working but don't spend time with her....sigh. See how la....Just go with the flow.

Nowadays i think we also a bit strained...she is not so prompt in replying me...avoids certain questions i ask her. And last night, she seems a lil upset but she refuses to tell me whats troubling her. I don like this feeling cos last time, everything she will tell me.

[casannova03]

Originally Posted by lament

tense not really ..... i'm getting tense liao .... nearing end of the month and yet to have new accounts open ...only see old accounts closing ..... argh.....

haha dun worry lah, the flow will never stop one.....haha...just make sure you are ready when the next high tide arrives lor...ahahha

[lament]

Originally Posted by kumfusion

Ya...but my excuses will run out one day. As it is, she already asking me why every sat and sun i not working but don't spend time with her....sigh. See how la....Just go with the flow.

Why give excuse ...remember what i said ...never lied to a viet...just tell her the truth that u have another gf b4 u know her.....

let me weave a story 4 u .....

when u 1st came here 2 drink, u just not keen on anything but then as u get to know her, u start 2 love her but it will not be fair if becos of her u dump ur gf mah.......

tell her u r done lying 2 her and wanna be truthful once & 4 all .... tell her 2 decide if she wanna carry on with u .....

try this lah ....i always advocate telling the truth policy ....

[lament]

Originally Posted by casannova03

haha dun worry lah, the flow will never stop one.....haha...just make sure you are ready when the next high tide arrives lor...ahahha

dun worry my size can withstand the overflowing tides

[lament]

Originally Posted by casannova03

haha dun worry lah, the flow will never stop one.....haha...just make sure you are ready when the next high tide arrives lor...ahahha

dun worry my size can withstand the overflowing tides

[Leeson]

Originally Posted by casannova03

haha dun worry lah, the flow will never stop one.....haha...just make sure you are ready when the next high tide arrives lor...ahahha

i will say... leave it to fate...

[Leeson]

Originally Posted by lament

try this lah ....i always advocate telling the truth policy ....

this i agree... works for me so far... but when the main one finds out then...

[lament]

Originally Posted by Leeson

this i agree... works for me so far... but when the main one finds out then...

well this is another skill of your gab .... just tell her that this ger likes u very much despite u telling her that u already have a gal ....

nothing happen between u n her ...purely just friendship .... then promise her on wat u will do ...

[lament]

for those about to rock vietnam .......

Tiger Airways have started a Rep office in HCMC so its a matter of time that they will start flkying in ...

So next time .....party destination Saigon

[lament]

Sometimes it takes a bit of loneliness to give one time to ponder about life and where it leads you.

This past week I have been feeling rather sentimental of things past. Two friends on different ocassion spoke to me of the same thing "Stop going around in circle, when u find a good one, grab and stop."

Thinking back, been in this area since 2002. Started from U-turn around April 2002. I move to 51 in late Nov 2002 and this place is where the vietnamisation program was started and perfected. I have dated and slept with countless of viets here but never gave my heart.

Until she came along and in december 2003, I decided to stop and prepared to marry her. I declared a short-lived retirement and move to the blue region cos she never like me there when she is around. Courtesy of to an itchy backside, i retracted my retirement.

We broke up in march 2004 but somehow a part of her still sticks in me and
Each time she back in town and in 51, I behave myself very much for fear of hurting her feelings if she see me hug or talk to other gals too much. This is 1 gal I have never make love to before due to some personal reasons , why do i bother so much about her feelings. The only thing being we are together for close to a year.

A couple of months ago when she came back, she told me she have a bf liao. So when she came back on a subsequent trip and as some things happen. I seek her help to explain some stuff to 1 of my gal. A casual conversation then became a heated argument. Remembered that my new gal said "I angry cos she say that if I want U, I can have U"

Remember on New Year Eve at 51, I was over at Bro Shagua table for a chit chat, she drop by and just plunge her head on my shoulders. That feeling was so comforting and warmth, without thinking I put my arms around her and hug her for a few minutes till I came to my senses that she belongs to someone else.

Saw her the past few days, she siting with a buddy of mine but then my buddy told me quite a few things that set my mind thinking ...... I would still pretty much love to have her back by my side but just afraid to make that move. All the hugs & bonks I got just cannot be compared to the feelings with her, crazy huh ....

Let think long & hard this weekend ......

P.S.:

Cassanova - what say u? U know her well too .... how ????

[Leeson]

Have no regrets

[Sha_Gua75]

Originally Posted by lament

Remember on New Year Eve at 51, I was over at Bro Shagua table for a chit chat, she drop by and just plunge her head on my shoulders.

hmmmm....i never see that....if it is the fighting nite....then i am high on that nite....

[kumfusion]

Originally Posted by lament

Saw her the past few days, she siting with a buddy of mine but then my buddy told me quite a few things that set my mind thinking ...... I would still pretty much love to have her back by my side but just afraid to make that move. All the hugs & bonks I got just cannot be compared to the feelings with her, crazy huh ....

Bro...all i can say is if u try, there is at least 50% chance of success...if u don't, 0%. Live life with no regrets man!