Need a help(Serious Issue)

[Bangster]

Originally Posted by =LatexDolly=

This could not have been elaborated more succinctly. I applaud you, Bangster. RESPECT. 101%.

I just needed to get it off my chest at that point of time.

Never have I read something so frustratingly difficult.

It was eating me up inside as Im sure it TS...albeit from different aspects.

But TS has not replied, so I take it that this thread is dead already. Let's just give him a chance to change, and to grow up and to show our sincerity in helping him, let's not rake this thing up anymore.

[wodemama]

Originally Posted by The_Rules

^i know,bro,but i just wanna know whether my look is somewhere that below average or what ??and actually i came from a decent family which can afford a good rides,branded clothes and big house.

Looks, how you want to measure? What is the yardstick you would use to measure your looks with?

Originally Posted by The_Rules

1.18
2.im taking a degree at collage,which i can see a very brilliant future at my upcoming life
3.i have a couple of friends,but we just out for smoke,drink and hanging around at arcade.Im also a member of my local gang,but only 1 of my friend(which is my best brother) got in with me,i seldom roll out with them.

Its college, not collage. Collage is a work of formal art, primarily in the visual arts, made from an assemblage of different forms, thus creating a new whole.
I don't see how being a samseng has got a brilliant future now in this world. Come on this is not the 70s,80s where being an ah beng can still survive well.

Originally Posted by The_Rules

Bro,its a serious thread,as i stated,im not come here to show off,everything im tellin you brothers are true, and i didnt say that im SO rich,its just slightly better than other of my friends,and all i want is to attract a girl by my own ability ,not my own money.

The bros here have already given you their ADVICE, but you're still rejecting it, prefering to focus on the less important aspect of life-looks. Rich? i doubt so, its your parents who are rich.

Originally Posted by The_Rules

what???was that an ironic ??

Should be irony, not ironic.

Originally Posted by The_Rules

maybe i shouldn't think too much about gettin a hot girls ,and hell yea, your right,rich ,sucessful ,expensive cars,i can get them all by myself easily one day,which will turn into all of haters get jealous about my success .

So confident of getting expensive cars/being sucessful/rich but not confident enough to hook up girls? Don't see any reason to be jealous over your success(if you ever will be successful).

Originally Posted by EtherC

1. You are a big whiny baby. Quit whining about how you look?
2. Its not how you look its just that you have the mentality of a loser.
3. Enrol in a business course or some other course where there are loads of girls. If you're surrounded by them day in day out you will have the confidence to talk to them eventually.
4. Have some cool hobbies. Not what is cool for you but what girls think is cool. Like adventure sports: rock climbing, scuba diving, ab sailing, canoeing etc. Things you can teach a girl.
5.If you're smart (which I don't think you are) you should try to top the class and tutor them.
6. If I see one more whiny post from you again. I'll zap you. AGAIN & AGAIN!

Good 1 bro. these words should wake him up from his bloody idea

Originally Posted by The_Rules

u did made some straight points out there,brother,but i dont need no sympathetic from u.

Correction. Should be sympathy. You sure you in college? Cuz your spelling makes me wonder otherwise.

Originally Posted by colins

Exactly, after all the advice, turn around & brand everybody as losers. How many bros have written to help when he asked for it? 18 is already man enough bro to talk properly, speaking like this is like 8.

The showing of face is not to prove his genuity, it's for self-assurance. Whats with the holiday thing? Does that make any difference here?

He only care about his looks, despite numerous bros saying that even the most fugly guy can get the hottest chick around.

Originally Posted by Bangster

I just needed to get it off my chest at that point of time.

Never have I read something so frustratingly difficult.

It was eating me up inside as Im sure it TS...albeit from different aspects.

But TS has not replied, so I take it that this thread is dead already. Let's just give him a chance to change, and to grow up and to show our sincerity in helping him, let's not rake this thing up anymore.

this thread is as good as dead, TS is probaby some where thinking whether to go for surgery anot



P.S, im 18 too, nvr had a gf b4, overweight but hey i have no problems talking to girls and gettin them to laugh. Don't see a BIG problem here with looks.

[eu6en3]

Originally Posted by wodemama

P.S, im 18 too, nvr had a gf b4, overweight but hey i have no problems talking to girls and gettin them to laugh. Don't see a BIG problem here with looks.

Hey bro Wodemama, pls allow me to tell you his problem. He is in his pulicity age and he had joined a gang.

All his "frens" have girls or gf, only him being left alone at a corner. SO naturely being a gangster and at the age of 18yr old, this seem to be a very very serious issue for him!(No face & envy mah)

Maybe this is one of the reason tat stop him from meeting his gangster's frens.

This is a period of boy turning to a man.

[wodemama]

Originally Posted by eu6en3

Hey bro Wodemama, pls allow me to tell you his problem. He is in his pulicity age and he had joined a gang.

All his "frens" have girls or gf, only him being left alone at a corner. SO naturely being a gangster and at the age of 18yr old, this seem to be a very very serious issue for him!(No face & envy mah)

Maybe this is one of the reason tat stop him from meeting his gangster's frens.

This is a period of boy turning to a man.

Yea, guess no point we saying so much anyway. Yea its a "disgrace" not to have girlfrens but not disgracful when whining away here in a forum.

[The_Rules]

ok,lets deal with this straightly.first of all,i want to make an apologize to all of the sammyboy members because of all the bullshits i have done at here,hope u guys can forgive me and let it go.

second,its all about my life.yes,i admit that im cocerned about my whole life,and i dont want my life to be a failure or get screwed up.one of the things that im concerned about is "how to get a good looking girls without of paying to the whorehouse",thats the thing yall know.and the other one is "how to get rich".honestly,i quited my high school when back then i was secondary 5.now, about 1 year later,im starting to concern,should i get back to the school and take my spm exam???(something like a or o level in singapore).cause i really want to be wealthy and i want to be the best one,i dont want to work under the ppl at my whole life.also my dream job is to be a businessman,but im totally dont know what kind of business is the most effective way to make me be a multi-millionaire,and i've read somewhere that u dont need a degree to be a wealthy human being,but i rly have no idea that "how should i get into the business world if i dont have a degree","what kind of steps should i walk in??"and at the same time,i've heard that few of the people told me that if u have a high school degree,u can go to the college and take something like "business management".then the few of screwed up shits kept popping in my mind again."if i have a business management degree holder,is that a better way than i starting my business without a degree holder?","will i be a forever employee if i finish my college degree?","is it too late for me to get into the college??(cause i'll probably finish my course slower than the other people)?"



and yes,i be taking some technician course at some particular college which u can study it without a high school degree holder,but i know that i cant get a good future if i walk through that way.better yet,i dont find it interesting too.

but life is too short,i know its hard to handle up all of the problems at the same time.but i want to settle it up.anyway,can somebody please give me a few good advices that what should i do at next????how can i hit the right place at the right time???this is rly some serious business to deal with it by myself.im rly getting confuse and confuse everyday in my life.i rly put my bets all on here.

and i promise that i aint gonna make out some stupid comments no more,thx.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by The_Rules

i promise that i aint gonna make out some stupid comments no more,thx.

aye young man. u should be at ur 20s right or younger... well u ask for advices from bros here pple will sure give to u but if ur thinking of making fast money and trying to hook pretty girls then forget it. dont even need to ask...

If a person really wanna work hard n earn a honest living whether u are a cleaner or a CEO. most important u must be happy in what u doing and proud of ur job if u telling me u wanna get rich then there is no such thing as overnight success unless u wanna do something bad like selling drug then nothing to said.

even doing this have a risk also whether the risk u taking is it worth taking. n u will be look down by pple...

U can study at the same time work. work urself way up once u get ur cert u see what u can do.

I myself dont have a dip or a deg. i work myself way up spending 13yrs gaining exp and climb the ladder as a Manager. nothing is for free it all about hard works.

as for girls must get pretty girl then can ah. there is no such things lar bud. u slowly grow up then u know what kind of girl or wife u want lar. now too early to said....

chokdee krup

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

aye young man. u should be at ur 20s right or younger... well u ask for advices from bros here pple will sure give to u but if ur thinking of making fast money and trying to hook pretty girls then forget it. dont even need to ask...

If a person really wanna work hard n earn a honest living whether u are a cleaner or a CEO. most important u must be happy in what u doing and proud of ur job if u telling me u wanna get rich then there is no such thing as overnight success unless u wanna do something bad like selling drug then nothing to said.

even doing this have a risk is whether what u want to take the risk. unless u want pple to look u down or see u up...

U can study at the same time work. work urself way up once u get ur cert u see what u can do.

I myself dont have a dip or a deg. i work myself way up spending 13yrs gaining exp and climb the ladder as a Manager. nothing is for free it all about hard works.

as for girls must get pretty girl then can ah. there is no such things lar bud. u slowly grow up then u know what kind of girl or wife u want lar. now too early to said....

chokdee krup

im not meaning to be a mafia,drug dealer or something like that.a lot of people can be successful without a degree holder.but i rly have no clue whether a degree holder can be successful a not.and if u choose a 25 years old degree holder on the street and a 25 years old without degree holder on the street,im sure that the former 1 is earning more than that with degree holder 1.im 18 by the way.

[milkshake00]

Dun worry u are still young, some guys up till age 30 also no gfs and still virgin.

Well if u want to avoid that fate and if are ugly and no money, there is only 1 thing u can do to get gals. that is be persistance, no many how many time gal reject u try and try again. if u try 100 times sure will 1 gal be move by u.

My friend from sec school also like u, abit fat and CMI. But he is a nice guy and we all like him, and he never gives up when chasing gal. now he got a chio gf and getting married liao.

Btw i say be persistance but dun be obnoxious ok. try to be good to the gals, not all but some gals will appreciate yr thoughfulness

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by milkshake00

Dun worry u are still young, some guys up till age 30 also no gfs and still virgin.

Well if u want to avoid that fate and if are ugly and no money, there is only 1 thing u can do to get gals. that is be persistance, no many how many time gal reject u try and try again. if u try 100 times sure will 1 gal be move by u.

My friend from sec school also like u, abit fat and CMI. But he is a nice guy and we all like him, and he never gives up when chasing gal. now he got a chio gf and getting married liao.

Btw i say be persistance but dun be obnoxious ok. try to be good to the gals, not all but some gals will appreciate yr thoughfulness

but my target is not only how to get a girl.i want to be a successful man in my life and i want to let my lovely family to have a good life.i want to know whats the main key.

[pussyman72]

Originally Posted by The_Rules

but my target is not only how to get a girl.i want to be a successful man in my life and i want to let my lovely family to have a good life.i want to know whats the main key.

to be successful have many way it depends what u want. have a stable job earn decent money and take care ur family also consider successful.

about the degree. personally when i employ pple i dont see their certs so much. i see 3 main things exp, char, then last is the cert. but not all company will allow non degree holder to take up the job role if the job is for degree holders.

that is why study is still the best. just gain the cert and then find a better job n pay.

i tell u one thing. family value is more important then anything. u can have alot of money but no time for them then do u think u are sucessful i dont think so.

you are still young one step at a time. u had to plan it slowly of course not ask u take ur time to plan. example plan for study what u want like to do. such as if u like computers then maybe u wanna take up a diploma in IT or if u like accounts then u like to take up accounts.

After u finish study then u look for job n slowly plan for ur future.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by pussyman72

to be successful have many way it depends what u want. have a stable job earn decent money and take care ur family also consider successful.

about the degree. personally when i employ pple i dont see their certs so much. i see 3 main things exp, char, then last is the cert. but not all company will allow non degree holder to take up the job role if the job is for degree holders.

that is why study is still the best. just gain the cert and then find a better job n pay.

i tell u one thing. family value is more important then anything. u can have alot of money but no time for them then do u think u are sucessful i dont think so.

you are still young one step at a time. u had to plan it slowly of course not ask u take ur time to plan. example plan for study what u want like to do. such as if u like computers then maybe u wanna take up a diploma in IT or if u like accounts then u like to take up accounts.

After u finish study then u look for job n slowly plan for ur future.

so is "business management" has the greatest chance to be wealthy???success????earn more??the boss???cuz i personally dont think that i want to be something that require technical,skill.i want something like investment,sales etc etc.
by the way,is this a useful blog??
Wealth and Luck

[The_Rules]

and yeah,i have a communication problem too.i only have 3,4 friends in my life which i can barely talk to them.and that will screw me up in my future career .i know that marketing need to be good in communicating even thought i have a little mind of business.and i know that the importance of communication is use to benefit each other.

[gilagila100]

Originally Posted by The_Rules

so is "business management" has the greatest chance to be wealthy???success????earn more??the boss???cuz i personally dont think that i want to be something that require technical,skill.i want something like investment,sales etc etc.
by the way,is this a useful blog??
Wealth and Luck

My friend, there is NO SHORTCUT available for success ...

If you want to be a businessman, then the first step is to learn the business and truly love it.

If you like selling, then be a salesman and learn the ropes first before opening your first shop.

If you like fashion, then be a fashion apprentice first and then open your own boutique.

Etc etc etc ... If you go read the biographies of successful, you'll notice one similarity. They start early and their success is the accumulation of years of really hard work.

Even Bill Gates stay up nights after nights to build his first Windows software.

Lee Ka Shing even sell "tikam" to kids before he even started selling his first real estate.

Uncle Lim of Genting Highlands was a carpenter before he got his first contract.

They all started when they were younger than you (around 14 - 16 years old). You are 18 so you probably have 2-3 years of catchup to do.

So fixed your mind on something worthwhile and work on it. Don't keep thinking I want to be rich.

To be honest, there are tonnes of ppl like you in the world and I can't really stand guys like this. So consider this post a favor from me. The next time you whine and ask for "get rich fast" tips and tricks, I am going to zap your points.

[The_Rules]

Originally Posted by gilagila100

My friend, there is NO SHORTCUT available for success ...

If you want to be a businessman, then the first step is to learn the business and truly love it.

If you like selling, then be a salesman and learn the ropes first before opening your first shop.

If you like fashion, then be a fashion apprentice first and then open your own boutique.

Etc etc etc ... If you go read the biographies of successful, you'll notice one similarity. They start early and their success is the accumulation of years of really hard work.

Even Bill Gates stay up nights after nights to build his first Windows software.

Lee Ka Shing even sell "tikam" to kids before he even started selling his first real estate.

Uncle Lim of Genting Highlands was a carpenter before he got his first contract.

They all started when they were younger than you (around 14 - 16 years old). You are 18 so you probably have 2-3 years of catchup to do.

So fixed your mind on something worthwhile and work on it. Don't keep thinking I want to be rich.

To be honest, there are tonnes of ppl like you in the world and I can't really stand guys like this. So consider this post a favor from me. The next time you whine and ask for "get rich fast" tips and tricks, I am going to zap your points.

u mean i should go out and get a part time job so that i can see through the whole world more ???but those guys u mentioned are from 60s and 70s.i aint saying that the way that these guys got rich are useless at today generation.but now is 2000s,im sure a lot of things have changed at these days.and i aint asking for tips and tricks to get rich fast,im asking for the more effective ways and higher chances to get rich,i dont want to take a wrong step.and business is a large deal,i rly dont know how to get it started.

[specific]

hi bro,

"Winners never quit and quitters never win."........

Everything/anything, the HEART counts...including love

cheers