Do you prefer to marry a PRC, M'sian, Thai, Indo, Viet, others or our local girl

[colins]

hey bro wodemama, before we start the SBF idol contest, I must say that you brought a lot of good points in as well. Thanks for the 'seeing me up'. The best thing is to have more contributions from more bros so we can have more objective views. Otherwise, this section will be thoroughly plagued with 2 old men's view (ok one old and one young, DYBJ can insist on being the latter).

Really applaud a lot of bro's no-hold-bars approach in sharing their own stories. We probably do not need to be very 'hornest' in our postings, but let's be honest at least to ourselves. Its always good to have someone to help and look into our situation with a 3rd party point of view. The least we guys can do, is to bring relief and a little humour which I believe, is what life is all about. cheerios mate!

[DO_YOU_BJ]

Do not be too eager wif having more than 2 wives.
It'll drain you big time.......sexually I mean...hahahaha
But not everyone can lead thins kinda life.
All i can say is, when you aint got it, u wished u did.
When u got it, u wished u aint got nottin.

Life....oh life.....

[Wooden_Handle]

But last time rich ppl all have many wives, that for showing their status too, but may be they treated them as WLs, so F and Forget so no headache reported..

Originally Posted by DO_YOU_BJ

But not everyone can lead thins kinda life.
All i can say is, when you aint got it, u wished u did.
When u got it, u wished u aint got nottin.

Life....oh life.....

[wodemama]

Originally Posted by Wooden_Handle

But last time rich ppl all have many wives, that for showing their status too, but may be they treated them as WLs, so F and Forget so no headache reported..

Last time is last time ma. Last time and now very different in terms of the standard of living and other stuffs.Now to get even one wife also difficult

[kiko]

I believe , no matter what race or country is the gal is , the gal go for u doesn't out to cheat u , or for your money... If she really deep inside her heart. she loves u , means she's worth your love.

[wodemama]

Originally Posted by kiko

I believe , no matter what race or country is the gal is , the gal go for u doesn't out to cheat u , or for your money... If she really deep inside her heart. she loves u , means she's worth your love.

Bro yup, as long as they really wan to get into a serious r/s then nationality doesnt matter. Most importantly that feeling must come from the heart.

[linixx]

Had a similar discussion with two of my close friends, in terms of nationalities, our preference are quite similar, Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, others then only lastly PRC.

Actually besides the usual Singaporean and Malaysians girls that most local guys will find comfortable with, Indonesian (Chinese) are quite good also. They make good wifey materials, gentle, not very demanding nor possessive, willing to work hard for the family.

PRC girls are the last on the list, due to the many bad stories heard about them, 2 of my good friends also had challenges with their PRC mate's family, although I had a friend who had a PRC wife for more than 5 years and he's quite happy with her, not much problems with her family constantly "demanding" money.

But I must admit that PRC "workers" are good, provide good "physical" services, and knows how to "boost" a man's ego (both physically and emotionally), that should be one that most bros in this forum would agree to.

[Malaysian Datuk]

For me ,of course pefer thai , but our bro parapara have own ego , him cant marry al 5 gals ,here the vote for him .thanks if guys make a vote ..

http://sbf.today/polls/9...ml#post3134354

[Greatking]

Vote for VB here!

[maxsee]

I prefer not to get marry...so that in the event of divorce no need face woman charter and give half my money away...imagine slogging half ur life away n end up giving away half ur wealth...how dumb can it gets....

[Greatking]

Haven't get married, stay to plan for divorce roi?!

Salute!


You have to cross the roads, everytime you go out.
Do you not plan to cross the roads cos the cars gonna knock you down?

Same methodology.

You do not want to get married because you are gonna end up divorcing.


Accept the risk, and minimize it. Makes one man wiser

[maxsee]

Different mah...woman if they divorce u...not matter wat they get to keep the money they earn mah...beside i prefer safety measures mah.....

Tat's why till this day i dun understand why guys are still being con to get married..then when divorce end up having to pay this n tat then wake up......

PS: For those who believes in marriage, i wholeheartedly wish u all have happy marriage life la...i mean i always believe in respecting different ppl view...but my view different only mah......

[Golden question]

Originally Posted by maxsee

Different mah...woman if they divorce u...not matter wat they get to keep the money they earn mah...beside i prefer safety measures mah.....

Tat's why till this day i dun understand why guys are still being con to get married..then when divorce end up having to pay this n tat then wake up......

PS: For those who believes in marriage, i wholeheartedly wish u all have happy marriage life la...i mean i always believe in respecting different ppl view...but my view different only mah......

Bro,i salute u,in life there is other happines that one can achieve and not only through marriage.Everybody is u see me good and i see u good,but end of the day they will not see what is going on behind

[maxsee]

Ya...i definitely agree that there are many other ways to achieve happiness other then marriage itself....

End of the day watever path we choose...we must choose it not becoz it is the society norm but becoz it will makes us happy....

[humtra]

Originally Posted by linixx

Had a similar discussion with two of my close friends, in terms of nationalities, our preference are quite similar, Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia, others then only lastly PRC.

Actually besides the usual Singaporean and Malaysians girls that most local guys will find comfortable with, Indonesian (Chinese) are quite good also. They make good wifey materials, gentle, not very demanding nor possessive, willing to work hard for the family.

PRC girls are the last on the list, due to the many bad stories heard about them, 2 of my good friends also had challenges with their PRC mate's family, although I had a friend who had a PRC wife for more than 5 years and he's quite happy with her, not much problems with her family constantly "demanding" money.

But I must admit that PRC "workers" are good, provide good "physical" services, and knows how to "boost" a man's ego (both physically and emotionally), that should be one that most bros in this forum would agree to.

Hi Linixx,
Having seen the outside and read so much in the forum, I am in total agreement with your choice of girls as in Singapore, Malaysia, Indonesia,etc.

The very most important consideration is your children that will be taken care of later.. in term of education, culture and care, Singapore mother would seem better suited unless that foreign lady is especially good.

No suspicion of them working in bar and prostituting outside, or had or having other bf. Also no worry about them or their relatives constant demand for money. I have a friend who used to cheong and subsequently got himself married to a vietnamese. He told me all that demure, sweetness and sexiness disappeared after marriage. Her constant asking for money left him poor and later she was reluctant to have sex with him too. He endured her and her constant bad temper because they had a baby girl. Eventually after 4 years she took the baby back to vietnam and ran away after he refused to divorce.

Of course not all are like that, but the risk is high and the different culture will surfaced more visibly later in marriage.

Although they may lose out in term of look and sexiness, Singapore, Malaysia and Indonesian ladies I like because culture wise more similar and understanding for long term.