Missed Signals

[newbie22]

Over the years, i have missed a number of signals. Some obvious, some not obvious. What are yours? Let's hear it. I'll start.

During my tertiary years, I am very close with a classmate of mine, lets call her Jane. Jane stayed near me and we both always went to school and went home together. As we both drive our parent's car, we will take turns to fetch each other.

Over the time in school, Jane and I, we became closer. We did many projects together and always hang out after school too. We played mahjong, we went drinking, you name it. We were the best of friends. So close, we watched porn together but did nothing sexual with each other.

After a while, we both have our girlfriend/boyfriend and that didnt stop our routine. We carried on our daily routine and remained extremely close. Unfortunately, I broke up with my girlfriend and I was devastated. Jane was always there for me to listen to me and gave me a comforting shoulder to cry on. She was my best friend.

During our final year, she was having issues with her boyfriend. She talked to me on how big a problem she was having. Soon after, she switched on porn and we were watching it. She told me "if I have a chance to cheat on my boyfriend, I will definitely do so.". And what did I reply her? Nothing. I just kept quiet. Not because I was afraid, but the stupid me was thinking "Wow you must be very sad.". Not a single moment did I tbink that she wants to fuck me. Worse of all, I only realise this was one of the MANY signs she gave me that she wants to be with me. Stupid me only realise it 10 years later... Sigh...

So whats yours? Let's hear them.

[ah rat]

Ts, can't turn back the time.
I too encounter this with my colleagues.
Went out with her to settle her problems.
After that I asked her where she want to go.
She replied hotel in a very soft manner.
That time I still ask her to repeat it.
Confirm the word hotel.
Pretend hear wrongly.
Hahaha! I sent her back home.

[daring70]

wah this one really missed opportunity

[bigmannow]

I’ve got a few also overseas and one or two came over sg also but now cannot travel cannot make amends Liao sian

[Piledriver]

Originally Posted by newbie22

Over the years, i have missed a number of signals. Some obvious, some not obvious. What are yours? Let's hear it. I'll start.

Over the time in school, Jane and I, we became closer. We did many projects together and always hang out after school too. We played mahjong, we went drinking, you name it. We were the best of friends. So close, we watched porn together but did nothing sexual with each other.

During our final year, she was having issues with her boyfriend. She talked to me on how big a problem she was having. Soon after, she switched on porn and we were watching it. She told me "if I have a chance to cheat on my boyfriend, I will definitely do so.". And what did I reply her? Nothing. I just kept quiet. Not because I was afraid, but the stupid me was thinking "Wow you must be very sad.". Not a single moment did I tbink that she wants to fuck me. Worse of all, I only realise this was one of the MANY signs she gave me that she wants to be with me. Stupid me only realise it 10 years later... Sigh...

So whats yours? Let's hear them.

Holy shit, bro. Sounds like you blew it big time. You could have fucked her like a porn star and watching porn at the same time. That will be so fun.

Okay, here's my own sharing. This happened a few years ago at my previous company. Went out with a fellow colleague to celebrate birthday together, because our birthdays are close to each other's.

She's divorced with a kid. Always wear very sexy when working. That day, we had a simple dinner at Astons'. After that, bought a cake, some candles and drinks and then went over to Esplanade park to celebrate. Had a good time chatting about all the fun times we had when young.

Then she asked to use the washroom. So we went over to Fullerton to use the ground floor toilet. I am done in 5 mins, and waited for her outside. Waited, and waited. What's taking her so long? Then she finally came out.

Then she asked, where shall we go next? I was a bit tired actually, so I said we go back. She replied, you don't want to go "somewhere else"? That was the cue. But I didn't pick it up. So I did the dumb thing and sent her back. Yeah, fuck me.

Then it hit me that she was probably taking her time to clean up her pussy in the toilet, so that she can let me to ravish it later at a hotel.

During that time, I was fucking around with some other FBs, so this loss was nothing to me. But still, I could have missed out on a mind-blowing blowjob or an amazing fucking session that ends with a creampie.

So Sammy bros, always remember this: can eat, don't waste!

[YakunBoy]

Mine was back in my Uni days.. like almost 10 years ago. Had a close female friend who was recently attached. She was easily the top 5 hotest babe in the uni with many guys chasing her. She was looking for someone to travel with her in Europe as she just did her exchange program there. I agreed and I met her at the airport in one of the EU country. The closest encounter was we shared a queen bed, and she agreed to let me massage her. On the 1st night, she subtly removed her bra and hid under her pillow. While massaging, i kinda groped her sideboob but there wasnt any reaction or resistence.. i was having a hardon and tried to rub on her ass.. but no reaction too. Thinking back, there was no resistence too. I should have pushed further and perhaps try touch her pussy area more.. but also I didnt want things to turn sour and spoil the rest of our trip if she doesnt want it. Kinda regreted that years later. Oh well.

[ILoveV]

This brought back so many memories. I have a puppy love to share. It could have been more than a one night puppy love.

It was my JC classmate. That time, the guys just got into uni and the girls already senior year in college due to us going army. So we had some sort of class reunion party at Zouk. Mambo night in those days. The prettiest girl in my class just broke up with her boyfriend, so she was a bit wild, drinking a lot. As we stayed close by, I sent her home. She was quite drunk so she was leaning against me in the lift, breathing hard against my neck. I was totally aroused then but the stupid young boy then just think of being a gentleman and nothing else. When we reach her floor, she hestitated at the lift landing. She just held my hand and led me up the staircase to the alternate floor staircase area. In those days, lifts dont stop at every floor and there are huge staircase landings on certain floors. She just put her lips onto mine and kissed me. Then she put her hands around my shoulder and said she had always liked me and whether I liked her. She was looking at me dreamily with her eyes half closed. The stupid me then said, yes I like you but you are drunk now. I not sure if you know what you are saying. Maybe when you are sober and really like me, then we can be together because I like you too. After that I sent her home like a good gentleman.

Thinking back, I was the biggest idiot. If I had just closed in and kissed her there and then, I don’t think it would be difficult to grope her sexy body and maybe even more. I regret big time now.

Worse is, I messaged her “I love you” the next day. No response ever from her again. haha

[newbie22]

Nice reading fellow bros encounters. I have another to share.

I was working in a company who had dealings overseas. So here came a supplier, lets name her Jenny, from china. She was smoking hot. There was a convention in Expo and my company took one of the booths. As the convention was for four days, our days working together started the week before with all the preparations. Even though the convention was in Expo, my company booked her to stay in panpac city hall. I was the designated driver for her.

During that two weeks together, I will always fetch Jenny to office and send her back to her hotel lobby. After two days in Singapore, we began to have breakfast together and then dinner after work. Throughout this entire time, I didn't think much of bringing things further because she was of a high management position in the overseas branch. To me she is like a "boss" although she is not stationed in Singapore.

After the entire convention which ended on a Sunday, she was scheduled to leave Singapore on Monday. Likewise, as with our routine and my job as a designated driver, I will be sending her home after a sumptuous company dinner for celebration as it was a very successful convention and since it was a celebration, everyone, including Jenny, drank a lot except me(for obvious reason,). Upon reaching her hotel lobby, she asked if I can send her to her hotel room, which was something new as I usually drop her off in the lobby. The stupid me then was thinking "oh she is drunk, I better send her up for safety". On the way to her room, she was holding my hand, swinging it around playfully like how you would when you are with your gf/bf. Upon reaching her room, she asked me if I would like to see her room. I said ok. We then proceed to her room and I saw the city view and was like "wow so nice.".

We then chatted for a while and after some time, I said "you must be tired, I shall not disturb you anymore.". she was like "oh you can stay. no problem I am not tired.". AND THE STUPID ME REPLIED "You have a plane to catch tomorrow. Its ok. you rest. See you tomorrow.". She then send me to the door, holding my hand, hug me. and as I left, SHE PULLED MY HAND AS IF SHE DOESN'T WANT ME TO LEAVE. and what did I do? I FUCKING LEFT~~~ Thinking back, knn how can I be so stupid... it was such an obvious invitation...

So the next day when I was sending her to the airport, we chatted like nothing happened, well actually nothing happened......... but yea... before leaving, she gave me a gift. its was in something like a gift box, those hard cover type and told me I can only open it when I am alone. She gave me a hug, a kiss on the cheek and went into the airport.

I was so curious about the gift i opened it immediately when I was in the car. It was her underwear with some stain at her pussy area. I was fucking shock. I texted her and asked what does this mean? she said I missed a golden opportunity last night and she had to diy to satisfy her urge. ask me not to be so stupid in future when she is back. I began looking forward to the next time she come over singapore. unfortunately, not too long later, she resigned from the company and I never heard from her again. fml~~~

[JacqueMerlin]

Never missed a signal in my life but I fuck with caution.
I can share on one incident when a local girl i met on skout went out with me for dinner. She invited me to her home to watch netflix. I declined and sent her home. We continued communicating and then she asked if i was interested to visit her again to watch a horror movie at her home. I declined again. So she went direct and told me she was horny.

I declined again. I know she was offended by them. remember she asked if i was gay or something like that. But I told her I don't want to be caught in a situation of regret sex because I'm not a caucasian. She got extremely defensive and started calling my hypocrite etc...

No regrets rejecting her.

[afterburn]

Went to this tuina shop which is a OWO operation. Legit tuina, not those illegal ops, but the lady does give regulars something on the side, only hand action though.

Have been a regular with her for quite a few months, and grow comfortable enough that hand action now accompanied with roaming allowed sometimes to the point she has to grip the bed to steady herself and suppress her moans

Then recently during session it started raining very heavily outside. Finished, and it was still pouring cats and dogs. She ask me to stay on in the shop if i was not in a hurry. She had no further bookings and likely no more walk-in given the bad weather.

Somehow ..... maybe mind tired after a day's work ..... not thinking straight ........ i told her never mind, my car parked just behind the block, I won't get very soaked. She insisted again. And again I told her it's okay, i don't want to trouble her. Then she started rummaging behind the counter for an umbrella and told me to please at least take it with me.

Only later that night, with a clearer mind, start thinking, was that a missed signal? Should have stayed and found out what will happen?

[JacqueMerlin]

Originally Posted by afterburn

Went to this tuina shop which is a OWO operation. Legit tuina, not those illegal ops, but the lady does give regulars something on the side, only hand action though.

Have been a regular with her for quite a few months, and grow comfortable enough that hand action now accompanied with roaming allowed sometimes to the point she has to grip the bed to steady herself and suppress her moans

Then recently during session it started raining very heavily outside. Finished, and it was still pouring cats and dogs. She ask me to stay on in the shop if i was not in a hurry. She had no further bookings and likely no more walk-in given the bad weather.

Somehow ..... maybe mind tired after a day's work ..... not thinking straight ........ i told her never mind, my car parked just behind the block, I won't get very soaked. She insisted again. And again I told her it's okay, i don't want to trouble her. Then she started rummaging behind the counter for an umbrella and told me to please at least take it with me.

Only later that night, with a clearer mind, start thinking, was that a missed signal? Should have stayed and found out what will happen?

She gave you an umbrella. You didn't miss anything.

[expatamerican]

On a business trip to KL once my colleague (male) had made arrangements to meet a girl he met online and my GF from Singapore flew in to meet me. We all had dinner together and he went to the room with a girl, who was showing herself as a nice muslim girl and a virgin. My colleague tried with her but short of a little cuddle, didnt get any further.

Next time I went to KL I was alone and was bored so asked her to meet me for dinner. After dinner she came to my room but I still thought she was a good muslim virgin and didnt make a move. My GF told me not to believe that shit and the girl wanted me to fuck her. I didnt believe it. The same thing happened on my next trip to KL.

Finally one more trip to KL and the girl is in my room AGAIN. This time I made a move on her and nice muslim girl was not a virgin and very horny. So yeah I missed signals twice but scored the third time around. My GF was laughing her ass off telling me "I told you so" and how those muslim girls in Malaysia are all sluts.

[afterburn]

Originally Posted by JacqueMerlin

She gave you an umbrella. You didn't miss anything.

Maybe. But only after I insist to go. Real life does not play out like a porn movie, bro, although we all wish they do. Signals you encounter in actual settings are very subtle, that's why they can be missed.

[BroTrustMyWords]

Nice thread!

[bpafree39]

I had drinks with my ex schoolmates a few years ago, one of them brought their colleague along and introduced to us. She was from US, in her 30s looks ok and had a well maintained body. All my friends went home drunk and 2 of us were tipsy but still fine. In the end we decided to go for supper and shared a cab home. When we were reaching her apartment, she asked me gently whether I wanna go up with her? I politely declined as I was a little tired. And in the end nothing happened, 😂 felt really stupid when I reach home!