Girl suddenly sits on penis withouth condom

doitdonttalk · #1 16-06-2010, 05:37 PM

Hi i am new in the forum and just want to write what happened as i still have the situation in my mind. I am Caucasian or like you say ang moh and because of my job i need to travel a lot. When i have chance i visit Singapore but i am not living here.
Last night a girl on an open air beer bar Clarke Quai smiled to me. We talked a bit. She was a mixed between Laos and Germany. So could speak some German and new some smaller towns near my hometown. So i assume thats true. She says she work her as a singer and dancer and was not dressed like a hooker nor where any other hookers nearby. We talked a bit and she mentioned that she need some extra Money and would stay overnight in my hotel for 300SGD. On the way we went to 7eleven and bought some condoms and food for the night.
everything went normal we took shower then started foreplay. But then she suddenly sat on my dick without apply the condom first. I didn't expect this as many ladies like to play around first before the put the condom but never insert the bare penis.
Immediately i pulled out and pushed her away. After that i scold her. She said i was so nice to her so she want to make me a special joy. For me this action was the same like putting a knife in my back, so i was very angry. I just wanted to give her 150 and kick her out. She made a lots of drama because of the money she wanted the full amount and proposed to continue with condom. But of course i had no more mood for any action. Also she said her lubricant is prescribed by doctor and she can make it safe without condom. Of course this is big Bullshit. Further drama followed when she cried and said she need the money desperately at the end she became aggressive and which i got an infected. Then talk stopped and i forced her out of the room. I really think she has some mental problem. Also i realized its a bad idea to pick a girl from street. First i thought its got for both as the lady gets the full amount of money as there. Both i don't have any contact number or address of her. Also i think a Mamasan or escort service would not tolerate this behavior

I took many ladies in many places but never experienced something like that. Today early morning i went to clinic for counsel. As i put it out very quickly there is a good chance i can get away with it. But now i have to wait and stop all sexual activity for three months which i live in uncertainty.

Just hope you wont have same experience as me.

buiboy · #2 16-06-2010, 06:19 PM

Close call bro. dnt worry too much shldnt be life threatening since u are out of there quick.

aczeta76 · #3 16-06-2010, 06:26 PM

errhhh...

Tough luck. Well, wait for the window period to clear then

Cogent · #4 16-06-2010, 09:00 PM

Make time for this.

http://sbf.today/sexual-...ml#post4878531

doitdonttalk · #5 16-06-2010, 09:12 PM

Have to add the link for the clinic:

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I just showed up and got an appointment quite fast. Simple couldn't sit and wait so just went there. Better seek help from a professional specialist doctor and not consult the forum. Just write as a warning to mount raincoat asap.

naturegreen · #6 16-06-2010, 09:17 PM

Highly dangerous thing to do. Now you can only keep your fingers crossed and hope for the best after 3 months. We'll all pray for you. But remember to stay clear of girls for the time being and not bonk any in case you spread any diseases to them for safety's sake.

Xgenre · #7 17-06-2010, 12:36 AM

Thanks for the warning. There's nothing much we can do for you. If you can, post the name of the lady and the name of the pub here. We will know how to avoid her.

Xeno · #8 17-06-2010, 04:33 AM

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Originally Posted by doitdonttalk

Also she said her lubricant is prescribed by doctor and she can make it safe without condom.

Does anybody really fall for that ?

kgbkgb · #9 17-06-2010, 09:48 AM

iF u immediately pee & washed up with soap, chances of any infection should be slim

tatata21 · #10 17-06-2010, 10:48 AM

You made the right decision for your own safety.

It is a risky behaviour but not a devastating one which render a PEP. This being your exposure to RAW (if inserted) for only a mere few seconds.

However, you are encouraged to buy a peace of mind at 6 weeks and 3 months post exposure. You are quite likely to receive a negative result.

mark76 · #11 17-06-2010, 11:31 AM

best practise, before sex and after sex remove condom , wash penis , foreskin with detol and clean with fresh water...wipe dry.

peanut123 · #12 17-06-2010, 12:02 PM

TS, I don't think you need to be afraid. The chance of getting a HIV infection from having full unprotected sex with an infected woman is about 1 in 1000.

Since you didn't have full sex ( I presume you didn't even do any thrusting ), and she might not be infected at all, your chances of an infection are literally 1 in a million.

Don't worry about it, and be careful. Maybe next time be clear with the girl that condoms are a must.

AfA_hmor · #13 17-06-2010, 09:36 PM

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Originally Posted by kgbkgb

iF u immediately pee & washed up with soap, chances of any infection should be slim

That is a myth. It doesn't work.

hardone · #14 17-06-2010, 10:15 PM

Good luck TS, dont worry too much and continue enjoy sunny life here, just remember to do a check in 3 months time.

Dexial · #15 18-06-2010, 06:32 AM

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Originally Posted by peanut123

TS, I don't think you need to be afraid. The chance of getting a HIV infection from having full unprotected sex with an infected woman is about 1 in 1000.

I believe the stats are from a study conducted in Uganda more than 10 yrs ago. It's the only one I found while googling. I believe the odds could be much higher than that.