How to choose a wife?

robbie · #1 22-07-2006, 09:32 PM

Hi all Samsters,

I hope Im not being to irrelevant here, but I have no one really wise or old enough to pose this question to. Im at a crossroad in my life, having been in a tumultous relationship of 2 yrs. Im now deciding to end it coz it seems we would most probably end in divorce if we do decide to marry.

Anyways, samsters who are married, happily or not, could give pointers to us young guys who are going to marry or searching for a mate, on what to look out for in a wife? Also any danger signs that we should be on the watch for, to show that the woman is not good wife material?

I thank all samsters in advance!

"Do no choose your wife at a dance, but in the field among the harvesters"
Czech proverb

michael8330 · #2 23-07-2006, 05:11 PM

if she can take bus with u , then take motor bike regards rain or shines ,if u are able to buy car ,she must be the one sitting beside u

dirtymonk82 · #3 23-07-2006, 05:20 PM

whether she could sweat with u in a hawker centre for a meal

weixiang · #4 23-07-2006, 05:26 PM

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Originally Posted by michael8330

if she can take bus with u , then take motor bike regards rain or shines ,if u are able to buy car ,she must be the one sitting beside u

very good poijnt bro, hahaha

YellowHummerH2 · #5 23-07-2006, 05:46 PM

Bro, try asking her what is her definition of backpacking....

The one backpacking experience I had was... Plane to airport, airport to car rental, car rental to 4star hotel...the rest you can guess...now she is nolonger with me....I GOT DUMP.....

Sexup1st · #6 23-07-2006, 05:48 PM

heard this at Oprah, something like this

"To find someone who would share a limousine is easy, but more important is the person is willing to share a bus ride if the limo break down"

dragos · #7 23-07-2006, 06:01 PM

one who sticks with u when u are down..

S|eep|ess · #8 23-07-2006, 07:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Sexup1st

heard this at Oprah, something like this

"To find someone who would share a limousine is easy, but more important is the person is willing to share a bus ride if the limo break down"

Very well define...

In Singapore context would be:

"To have someone who would share meals with you, but more importantly willing to share on a single plate in bad times"

tittyhawk · #9 23-07-2006, 07:33 PM

Bro Robbie

There r many threads on the subject, however, as a "been there done that" sort of person, I would like to share some of my thoughts.

Getting married is a big step (seems to be easier said than done), its a big step coz you've decided that this woman is gona be by your side for life thru thick n thin. Thru thick n thin together for anyone is not an easy task. So you muz be really sure she is the kind whom will go thru that with you.

Secondly, you've known that she can assist you as a wife, a friend and a life partner. As a wife means she can bear your successors, and breed and groom them to be the very reasons why you guys take this step to be together till death do you apart. As a friend means, she can heal and console in times of grief and agony, laught and smile with you in times of joy and glory. Trust me, not many human can do this. As a life partner means marriage vows - thru thick n thin.

Now, all that is the emotional part. It has to be firmly established first. For the physical part (sex), it can get substantially dull thru time. Make sure its not an impulsive moment of lust and passion that you want to marry the person just coz you can have great sex, it extends more than this.

Below is my thread on wat's life after being married:

http://sbf.today/showthread.php?t=51542

tittyhawk · #10 23-07-2006, 08:14 PM

to the bro who deduct my 1 pt, u can deduct all u wan, send an army over for all i care.

i merely sharing my experiences also offend u meh?

u worthless piece of soul, pts can buy u happiness or boost ur ego? then i give them all to you...

AgentSmith · #11 23-07-2006, 08:23 PM

Just my 5 cents worth..... A lot of my friends played wedding march in song that are focusing on just LOVE ........

I chose the song by Adam Sandler - :Growing Old With YOu. The lyrics reflects how i feels....

" Yon LOVE the woman you MARRY,
BUT you don't MARRY the Women you LOVE"......

IMHO.

ok69 · #12 23-07-2006, 08:25 PM

marry the girl that love you
but not marry the girl that you love

Raidster1 · #13 23-07-2006, 08:51 PM

i know a china girl working at a factory here.

According to her friends, she wants a singaporean with a house.

would this girl love a singaporean guy truly in her heart???

Sorry, don't mean to hijack this thread.

mahalosux · #14 23-07-2006, 08:52 PM

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Originally Posted by tittyhawk

to the bro who deduct my 1 pt, u can deduct all u wan, send an army over for all i care.

i merely sharing my experiences also offend u meh?

u worthless piece of soul, pts can buy u happiness or boost ur ego? then i give them all to you...

bro TTH,

wat is 1 pt outta ur 700+ collections...

i guess the person who zapped u..must hv an unsuccessful marriage..or the wife give him wear the 'green hat' to wear..

just let it be, i noe i will get zapped by the joker who zapped u..so be it.. i just wanna voice out..if u not happy wif someone else posting..u betta voiced it..y the hell act like a bloody coward and do those 'small action'...

tittyhawk · #15 23-07-2006, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by mahalosux

bro TTH,

wat is 1 pt outta ur 700+ collections...

i guess the person who zapped u..must hv an unsuccessful marriage..or the wife give him wear the 'green hat' to wear..

just let it be, i noe i will get zapped by the joker who zapped u..so be it.. i just wanna voice out..if u not happy wif someone else posting..u betta voiced it..y the hell act like a bloody coward and do those 'small action'...

Yup bro, how ya been? those ppl who dun dare to voice out in public better to be bother coz not worth our time lar...